She also used to say her motivation was that she might end up single again! She has definitely let her self go since the engagement. I personally don’t think she is depressed as such, just bored shitless at being a SAHM,Chris obvs brings home the bacon and the rest of it all falls on her,decorating,the dogs,garden,kids,house,meals etc etc. She has none of the other outlets that a lot of us have that are associated with work, like nights out,chats with colleagues etc. She would be miles better getting a job and then asking Chris to support her a bit more in the house,if they are both working. The boys aren’t toddlers,they would survive if she got a part-time job! Unfortunately I honestly think she is probably too arrogant to work for somebody else now though....