ImDavidBrent
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me after putting my toddler to bed, patiently waiting in the next room for them to go to sleep so I can go and
My sons nursery ring me over the silliest of things they rang me once cos he was ‘sulking’Sympathising with everyone on this thread re illness. We’ve had two weeks of no sickness been sick with everything under the sun since mid August so the break is welcome.
I’ve been off work so much since returning from mat leave and been called to pick him up early from nursery several times. Last week he’d bumped his head badly so they wanted a parent to observe him. It makes you feel a bit unreliable doesn’t it
My now 11 year old, slept with me till he was about 6.I’ve got a 2 year old that still doesn’t sleep through the night and still sleeps in my bed. I dunno if there’s any advice for me but I just need to moan
I feel you! My first was just like this & my baby is the same personality and so think I’ll be going through it again my middle one has always been a dream and I’d have more if I could have more of him!I have a soon to be 3 year old (bloody hell, where has that time gone?)
I’m just trying to think about when he just turned 2, and what he was like…I can remember his behaviour changing and sleep changing but he’s literally a different kid. He’s started throwing his clothes on the floor when it’s time to get dressed, throw toys, say no ALOT, and just generally be hard work with things. He’s started waking up multiple times in the night, more than when he was a newborn. But it’s not everyday, some days he’s a dream and I love being with him but I’m a full time working mum so when some of my days off are spent dreading if he’s gonna be the devil child today is exhausting! When I went back to work after maternity leave, my colleagues would say ‘I come to work for a break’ I used to hate that, I didn’t have to work I’d be at home in a heartbeat everyday. But such is the modern world…
But those thoughts have started to creep in, like today I have work and I’m really looking forward to the drive in where I can listen to my music instead of wheels on the bus, I can have a hot coffee that hasn’t got some sort of Lego piece floating in it I just hate that I feel like this sometimes because the boy is my absolute world, he’s my little IVF miracle and I feel awful saying these things but I wake up on my days off and dread how he’s going to be and how il manage him all day. It’s so exhausting!
I’d love a sibling for him, but IVF treatment is ridiculous and I can’t fund it right now, or ever tbh. So it looks likely he’ll be an only child.
I often think even if I did have another one, how would I cope with 2. A new born and my son being like this, I mean, hats off to those who do it, you’re all hero’s!!
It’s hardwork being a mum, a wife and working in a busy A&E department looking after people…
She uses the arm bands which I think is a bit safer than the puddle jumpers but im not sure. I’ve tried to google but it all says any floatation device isn’t safe as keeps them in the vertical position so who knows!!I’ve never used a float vest other than at Centerparcs - is she past the age of a puddle jumper?
We an inbuilt float one from splash suit but it was a few years ago now, not sure if there’s better options around now x
Same for us. We have a new thing of not wearing a jumper or a coat as it’s itchy. Apparently she doesn’t feel the cold as she is Elsa. She tells me this so sincerely and emotionally all with blue lips (we were inside in a community hall stay and play today and it was freezing!)Christmas holidays has really sent my child west. She started hitting, not wanting to get dressed, a fight to even get her to put her coat on.
Shes really changed in general, her new thing is to ask me what I’m doing 100000 times a minute haha.
If the sticker thing is working for you, go for it!
You basically spend your whole day going "do you need a pee?" Over and over with an occasional "have you done a pee in your pants?" And running to the toilet 🫠Ah thank you! It's my first so honestly not sure where to start! I think I'll just buy a potty and figure out where to go from there haha!
You’ll be surprised what impaction does, she very well could be.Been in and out of doctors, hospitals with my little girl the last few weeks. She's not eaten properly for ages and keeps vomiting on and off. Saw another different doctor today who said she's impacted and needs clearing out... I'm not convinced but I have no fight left in me to suggest otherwise
Someone once told me that when you’ve got a new baby and a toddler and they’re both crying for your attention at the same time you should make a show of telling the baby to wait like “just I minute I’m just doing x for big brother first…”. As obv the baby won’t remember having to wait a few mins for a feed etc, but your toddler will likely have a strop if he has to wait. I’m not sure if it works haha but we did it a few times and possibly avoided some total meltdowns.Has anyone had an experience with a clingy toddler whilst pregnant? My son is 4 end of Feb (I know he’s not really a toddler anymore) and I’m due in May - he’s just so clingy, won’t leave my side, when we’re sat on the couch together he’s practically sat on top of me, been begging to sleep in my bed every night. If he’s eating his dinner he wants me to sit with him, he follows me everywhere I go, won’t even entertain his Dad! I like it in a way, but worried when baby is here he will really take it hard the attention isn’t fully on him??
Mine were both 3 when they gave them up and left them for Father Christmas (idea from nursery!) and it worked well. He left them a special present for the dummies and they didn’t really ask for one again. If they did, we just reminded them and they were fine!Has anyone got any advice on how to get my 3 year old to give up his dummy? Short of going cold turkey, I'm not sure what to do. Also any advice for nighttime potty training would be appreciated. He's such a deep sleeper I'm not sure what the best options are.
While I know biting is just so horrible and the poor babies that are on the receiving end, as someone who used to work in a nursery it can happen so quickly. We had a biter and I remember I was cleaning one side of the room and the other worker was the side of the babies. In a split second the biter had got hold of the other kid and bit so hard. The scream I can also believe things happen and no one knows coz these kids are like lighteningMy son came home from nursery today with a big red bite mark on his leg. They informed me on the phone beforehand but I am just concerned that they said they didn’t see it happen. It was on his upper leg and it is soooo red. Seriously can’t imagine how that even happened and no one saw it. They just have had a good munch on his leg for it to be so red I don’t even know what to say. I know they can’t keep an eye on every single child every minute but I am sad today about this
Best decision I’ve made better than other things I’ve been influenced to buyLike you I have the older children that never had it. Was it an easy decision for you to make to buy it despite never needing it before?!