Thanks so much for all the replies I really appreciate all your kind words.
So she was previously in a private nursery who were great, they would help her go to the toilet and would change after any accidents etc but she hadn’t had any for a good while and was doing great.
The new place is part of a primary school, and she’ll be in their playgroup in a couple of weeks but right now is just the ‘wraparound’ care bit from 8-3 and doesn’t have a key worker or anything. It’s the school toilets she has to use. They just don’t seem as understanding as the nursery would have been that she might still need help, yet they take in children from 2 years 10 months every year so I can’t understand it as surely this must happen a lot. I know once she does it a few times she’ll be fine.
They didn’t send her home as such but they called me to say she’d used all her change of clothes so could I bring more or just collect her. I brought more clothes up but as soon as she saw me she got really distraught saying she wanted to come home.
I just really hope she gets her confidence soon but I feel like it’s all on her to do it rather than them offering any support or understanding. Yesterday I just wanted to phone her old nursery to take her back in where she was happy
So she was previously in a private nursery who were great, they would help her go to the toilet and would change after any accidents etc but she hadn’t had any for a good while and was doing great.
The new place is part of a primary school, and she’ll be in their playgroup in a couple of weeks but right now is just the ‘wraparound’ care bit from 8-3 and doesn’t have a key worker or anything. It’s the school toilets she has to use. They just don’t seem as understanding as the nursery would have been that she might still need help, yet they take in children from 2 years 10 months every year so I can’t understand it as surely this must happen a lot. I know once she does it a few times she’ll be fine.
They didn’t send her home as such but they called me to say she’d used all her change of clothes so could I bring more or just collect her. I brought more clothes up but as soon as she saw me she got really distraught saying she wanted to come home.
I just really hope she gets her confidence soon but I feel like it’s all on her to do it rather than them offering any support or understanding. Yesterday I just wanted to phone her old nursery to take her back in where she was happy