If only she had the same fire in her belly to get the answers regarding her tumor that she does for people calling her a liar in her YouTube comments then she would have all the answers she's looking for..she said if people are not happy with her then don't watch yet she's not happy with the lack of answers she's getting about her life yet does nothing about it,oh the irony..it's actually good to see her a bit angry only she's aiming it at the wrong people.
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I do think she has cancer and it is substantial - but I think she's in denial on how bad it is, or she wants to block it out until the very last moment where the decision has been made for her because she's fearful of thinking of any other life than the one she's imagined - which I kind of understand(and sympathise with) but it's frustrating to watch if you're someone who likes to takes actions/find solutions and tackle reality instead of believing in 'manifestations'. She wants everything in the world to not have surgery(which I also understand as it's a pretty big life changing surgery) when all the specialists in cancer field say that surgery is the goal with people for colorectal cancer, yet she's blocking out any information which says otherwise - she's doing anything and everything to keep the wait and watch part for as long as possible.
No. Nil. Nada. Nope. Non. Nein
I love you.
The boyfriend must be a moron to be with her and participating in this nonsense. The constant “oh Matt DARLIN” 
who the hell talks to their partner like that? And why does she repeat herself 10 times each and every sentence? “I’m using washy tape to cover up personal information, information that I don’t want to show you, I’ve just got this tape to cover it up, so I’m using this tape to just cover up the things I don’t want to show you, I’m putting tape over these bits - ohhhh darliiinggg matt I’m just saying I’m using tape to cover up these bits right? These bits I’ll put tape over them, so yeah I’ve got this tape over these bits”
SHUT THE duck UP.
who the hell talks to their partner like that? And why does she repeat herself 10 times each and every sentence? “I’m using washy tape to cover up personal information, information that I don’t want to show you, I’ve just got this tape to cover it up, so I’m using this tape to just cover up the things I don’t want to show you, I’m putting tape over these bits - ohhhh darliiinggg matt I’m just saying I’m using tape to cover up these bits right? These bits I’ll put tape over them, so yeah I’ve got this tape over these bits”SHUT THE duck UP.
The mask is slipping
Absolutely agree.
When she was waiting and had her bullet journal I desperately wanted to root for her, but we went back to bollocking subscribers and gaslighting them into thinking that *we've* got the wrong end of the stick because her cancer is so complicated...
No. We're confused because the information she's providing us with is very little and confusing.
Ok, she is also confused at times and I don't mind her sharing that - but it's been over a year, only she can get the answers and make the necessary appointments to have the necessary conversations to clarify.
Her videos give me a headache 
I won’t be watching her anymore will just check this thread out
I won’t be watching her anymore will just check this thread out
The reason she is called out is because she is so unknowledgeable about her own bloody cancer and drip feeds nuggets of information. She is a professional 30yr old woman who has managed to live alone, buy a house, get renovations done on it, learn to drive, run her own company, hold down a good job, she is far from stupid. Cancer and plans change all the time, we all know that, however she never tell’s the story. It should be easy to say this is what the surgeon said…XYZ, it’s changed from before. Then after she spoke to her team, why did she not end the vlog with that information? Nope, gotta tune back in for that! Sorry Tiffany, people are rightly not impressed with you.
And she is showing her immaturity spending all this time complaining about people not believing her and even showing 'evidence' (
) instead of taking a good look at herself and her channel and reflect on why so many people are displeased with her and don't trust her ramblings.
And there were no comments about not believing she has cancer. It's super random that she is talking about that instead of addressing what people actually talk about when they criticise her. What a loony.
She should focus her energy on bursting with gratitude that so many people watch her despite her producing crappy content. She really should be counting her lucky stars instead of throwing tantrums.
) instead of taking a good look at herself and her channel and reflect on why so many people are displeased with her and don't trust her ramblings.And there were no comments about not believing she has cancer. It's super random that she is talking about that instead of addressing what people actually talk about when they criticise her. What a loony.
She should focus her energy on bursting with gratitude that so many people watch her despite her producing crappy content. She really should be counting her lucky stars instead of throwing tantrums.
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I've wasted a year of life on this woman and she's done nothing but treat us with contempt.
I've had enough!
I've had enough!
So, bottom line is the tumor is still there. Substantial in size. I don't see how surgery isn't in her future. She's not cancer free. Her tumor isn't scar tissue either. She's attacking those who are posting the truth because she cannot face the truth. This watch and wait will prove to be the worst decision ever.
The loving TTF isn’t all that nice, saying the ones who doubt her should be put in front of a firing squad! or they need names and numbers as they are ready to take them out! WTF are they going to do, attack us with blue bullet journals?
I think that she is a manipulative little brat. I lost all of my respect for her after todays video. I don't believe in most of her words, she still hasn't clarify anything. She plays dumb, she can't be like that in real life.
They wouldn't be too painful, would theyThe loving TTF isn’t all that nice, saying the ones who doubt her should be put in front of a firing squad! or they need names and numbers as they are ready to take them out! WTF are they going to do, attack us with blue bullet journals?
I need your restraint lol. Because I keep going back thinking maybe the next video will give some answers. Been disappointed every timeHer videos give me a headache
Sept. 2021 tumor: T4bN1b CRM+ EMVI+
T4b: "tumour has grown through the bowel wall into nearby organs" (from first source below))
N1b: "there are cancer cells in 2 or 3 nearby lymph nodes" (from first source below)
CRM+ : " Circumferential resection margin (CRM) involvement is a well-known predictor for poor prognosis in rectal cancer. However, the significance is controversial in some studies. Accordingly, this study attempted to examine the prognostic impact of CRM involvement in stage III rectal cancer." (Kang, et al, second source below)
The "+" means that there IS circumferential resection margin involvement.....which is not favorable.
EMVI+: " Pathological extramural venous invasion (EMVI) is defined as the active invasion of malignant cells into veins beyond the muscularis propria in colorectal cancer. It is associated with poor prognosis and increases the risk of disease recurrence" (copied from Google search "What is EMVI+ in colorectal cancer"
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Today's printout of tumor:
T4bN1c M0 (the remainder hidden or blurry)
N1c: "The nearby lymph nodes don’t contain cancer, but there are cancer cells in the tissue near the tumour "
M0: No metastasis to organs.
Conclusion if I were her: SURGERY ASAP. She will need surgery anyway to remove the tumor.
www.cancerresearchuk.org
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
T4b: "tumour has grown through the bowel wall into nearby organs" (from first source below))
N1b: "there are cancer cells in 2 or 3 nearby lymph nodes" (from first source below)
CRM+ : " Circumferential resection margin (CRM) involvement is a well-known predictor for poor prognosis in rectal cancer. However, the significance is controversial in some studies. Accordingly, this study attempted to examine the prognostic impact of CRM involvement in stage III rectal cancer." (Kang, et al, second source below)
The "+" means that there IS circumferential resection margin involvement.....which is not favorable.
EMVI+: " Pathological extramural venous invasion (EMVI) is defined as the active invasion of malignant cells into veins beyond the muscularis propria in colorectal cancer. It is associated with poor prognosis and increases the risk of disease recurrence" (copied from Google search "What is EMVI+ in colorectal cancer"
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Today's printout of tumor:
T4bN1c M0 (the remainder hidden or blurry)
N1c: "The nearby lymph nodes don’t contain cancer, but there are cancer cells in the tissue near the tumour "
M0: No metastasis to organs.
Conclusion if I were her: SURGERY ASAP. She will need surgery anyway to remove the tumor.
TNM Staging
Tumour, node and metastasis (TNM) staging is one of the systems used to stage bowel (colon and rectal) cancer.
Circumferential Resection Margin Involvement in Stage III Rectal Cancer Patients Treated with Curative Resection Followed by Chemoradiotherapy: A Surrogate Marker for Local Recurrence?
Circumferential resection margin (CRM) involvement is a well-known predictor for poor prognosis in rectal cancer. However, the significance is controversial in some studies. Accordingly, this study attempted to examine the prognostic impact of CRM involvement ...
I think she is completely mad at this point. She did not ask the oncologist anything. What questions was she going there with?
- tumour marker results? X
- surgery in the future? X
- what does the scar tissue mean? X
- what does the mucin mean? X
- her current bleeding and mucus? X
Instead she asked and got confused about the 'T4b'
She still does not understand how can she be stage 3 with a T4b tumour. After all these months.
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