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I didn't criticize UK health system and the whole hospital where she is treated. It is the opposite. In my opinion UK has one of the best health care in the world and every one can be treated free. Where I live the health care is hundred times worse than yours. I just only reacted to the post that doesn't want be the surgeon's sister. I don't think someone from here wants to be his sister.
I would love to be the surgeon's sister! Or daughter considering our large age difference. Imagine the privilage! It's always a massive plus to have doctors or nurses in the family but imagine having a world-renowned colorectal specialist.
 
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I can’t help but think of Monique - a young woman who had this surgery yet died as you described not long after the operation. Cancer came roaring back quickly. Heartbreaking.
Did she have that surgery? For some reason I didn't know this.
 
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Hi everyone, registred after a couple of days of lurking 😎

I've been following Tif from last fall. I've been diagnosed with an another type of cancer at the beggining of this year, and actually her bubbly attitude made me feel good. I even once commented on YT and mentioned that, but the comment dissapered which I didn't think much of.

I actually didn't want to read anything but official papers about my cancer at first, but shortly joined a big FB support page in my country just to read about details about my two surgeries, how to prepare and what might help me. Didn't want to watch or follow anyone with similar diagnosis gor the first couple of months, so I get that with Tif...

That being said, it's been more than a year! She ought to get through that phase and fully educate herself on the disease. That started making me so angry that I finally landed on Tattle and found relief.

We gong this 💪
Welcome! I hope you're doing well, wishing you all the best.
 
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I've been thinking a lot about your weight issue. I spent a lot of time in eating disorder programmes when I was younger (I know it's a completely different issue but we were put on weight gain meal plans). You said that you need to gain around 5 kilos which is roughly 11 pounds. To do this in 5 weeks, you would need to gain approx 2 pounds a week. To gain a pound, you need to consume 3500 excess calories on top of what

So the fox suffered from an eating disorder....
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I can’t help but think of Monique - a young woman who had this surgery yet died as you described not long after the operation. Cancer came roaring back quickly. Heartbreaking.
Not even this very invasive surgery with risks is a cure promised. The goal is live longer but the word ‘ cure’ cannot be proclaimed in such advanced and big local cancers with node involvment.
 
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If that’s the case she’s even more of an unhinged basket case than I thought
I went back and verified for myself (trust by verify) and it is true. I think it tells us alot about Tiffany..heck she was also taken by a Doc. that gave her butt injections of vitamins long before this cancer journey...he "touched my hair". I mean we have to try to step inside a young girl that is very very immature. Some of us are so beyond that it is not easy.
 
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TPE surgery is horrific hey. And this is coming from a nurse who used to work in the operating theatres. I’m fine with the gory aspects of surgery (I even enjoy it - it’s fascinating).

But TPE is not an op I ever got the opportunity to scrub up for and damn, it’s next level. I’ve just been watching videos and looking at before/after/during surgery pics for over an hour. Holy crap it is FULL ON.

I’m 41 and single and I personally would turn down TPE surgery and would accept my death instead of going through that.

I know a lot of people won’t agree with me on that, for various reasons. And fair enough… each to his/her own.

Poor Tiff. Her immaturity, vagueness, denial, toxic positivity and lack of clarity may tit me to tears, but I wouldn’t wish that situation/surgery on my worst enemy. I hate that she (and anybody else) are ever placed in that situation.
Are you 100% sure you would accept death instead of going through that …? If you were a patient of my psychiatrist friend she would tell you that you cannot know in advance what you will be able to handle … So before choosing death and be definitely sure (in Switzerland maybe) you should first go through surgery then spend at least one full year to get used to your stomas, have appointments and medications with a psychiatrist and THEN you would be able to fully decide if you think death is still your best option … 41 is still pretty young.
 
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Are you 100% sure you would accept death instead of going through that …? If you were a patient of my psychiatrist friend she would tell you that you cannot know in advance what you will be able to handle … So before choosing death and be definitely sure (in Switzerland maybe) you should first go through surgery then spend at least one full year to get used to your stomas, have appointments and medications with a psychiatrist and THEN you would be able to fully decide if you think death is still your best option … 41 is still pretty young.
Yeah accepting death at the age of 41 when there’s a surgery that could extend your life and allow you to life a life that’s full and as close to normal again….. you’d take the surgery. The instinct to survive would kick in.
 
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Not even this very invasive surgery with risks is a cure promised. The goal is live longer but the word ‘ cure’ cannot be proclaimed in such advanced and big local cancers with node involvement.
Ionia...exactly ...I think this surgery will be life extending (with major compromises) but I am sure they are not giving her the prognosis that Matt wants...ie "just take it out" get get on with it. Having recently in the last two years recovered from a major surgery you are never the same and mine was routine and curative (hopefully you always have to go for follow up for years). I am sure the docs even Dr. Magic are being honest with her. I think they have two concerns...general health and body readiness for surgery and mentally understanding the outcome even if 100% successful surgery. 100% success in Tiff's case is still pretty rough.
 
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Ionia...exactly ...I think this surgery will be life extending (with major compromises) but I am sure they are not giving her the prognosis that Matt wants...ie "just take it out" get get on with it. Having recently in the last two years recovered from a major surgery you are never the same and mine was routine and curative (hopefully you always have to go for follow up for years). I am sure the docs even Dr. Magic are being honest with her. I think they have two concerns...general health and body readiness for surgery and mentally understanding the outcome even if 100% successful surgery. 100% success in Tiff's case is still pretty rough.
Yeah I thought it was understood that this surgery is to prolong her life - it’s not the cure the cancer. It will hopefully remove the diseased areas but that’s it.
 
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I went back and verified for myself (trust by verify) and it is true. I think it tells us alot about Tiffany..heck she was also taken by a Doc. that gave her butt injections of vitamins long before this cancer journey...he "touched my hair". I mean we have to try to step inside a young girl that is very very immature. Some of us are so beyond that it is not easy.
Yes! I rewatched that video last night with the injections and she kept going on & on about how the dr was soo nice and thought it was weird that she was so happy “he touched my hair” and he took a picture of her (with her camera)
 
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Sorry will delete. I thought she did.
Yes, Monique had HIPEC surgery the mother of all surgeries including PE. I know that from Insta. The most unfortunate thing she was going to her GP with bowel problems for years but was dismissed every time. Such a beautiful young girl it is really unfortunate. It must be very hard for her parents.
 
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Yes, Monique had HIPEC surgery the mother of all surgeries including PE. I know that from Insta. The most unfortunate thing she was going to her GP with bowel problems for years but was dismissed every time. Such a beautiful young girl it is really unfortunate. It must be very hard for her parents.
Monique didn't have PE you bleeping tit. Jesus wept I sincerely hope you aren't actually a doctor if you can't even read.
 
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I went back and verified for myself (trust by verify) and it is true. I think it tells us alot about Tiffany..heck she was also taken by a Doc. that gave her butt injections of vitamins long before this cancer journey...he "touched my hair". I mean we have to try to step inside a young girl that is very very immature. Some of us are so beyond that it is not easy.
Are you serious? lol damn. yea that's is definitely crossing a boundary. then again a doctor that gives butt injections kind of expect them do creeper tit.
 
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Yes! I rewatched that video last night with the injections and she kept going on & on about how the dr was soo nice and thought it was weird that she was so happy “he touched my hair” and he took a picture of her (with her camera)
jfc she thinks she's all that, and really she should never allow a doctor to play with her hair. what the duck?
 
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