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I understand people skip through her videos but in the vlog from today there are quite clearly tears in her eyes and running down her face! 22 min time stamp if you need to check.

* editing to say it's at 21:56 because i know how picky some of you are!
Yes she was clearly and genuinely upset
 
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I think some people have just turned genuinely nasty on here. She might be an annoying moron but she's a young woman with cancer who is clearly struggling, to minimise this because some of you are too blind to see the visible tears because you want to have something to pick at stuns me. And to try and say she isn't suffering because she can post a couple of tiktoks, really?? There are people with cancer who are still working, who try and complete bucket lists. One minute it's not believing her because she's not laid up in bed and then it's scolding her when she gets help with things from Amma.

It's a shame because this thread used to be a good place to unload honest feelings which we could no longer do in her comment section, now I feel like it's a place full of fruit loops with conspiracy theories.
 
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I think some people have just turned genuinely nasty on here. She might be an annoying moron but she's a young woman with cancer who is clearly struggling, to minimise this because some of you are too blind to see the visible tears because you want to have something to pick at stuns me. And to try and say she isn't suffering because she can post a couple of tiktoks, really?? There are people with cancer who are still working, who try and complete bucket lists. One minute it's not believing her because she's not laid up in bed and then it's scolding her when she gets help with things from Amma.

It's a shame because this thread used to be a good place to unload honest feelings which we could no longer do in her comment section, now I feel like it's a place full of fruit loops with conspiracy theories.
😘 well said!!!!!
 
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Ok, so surgery is definite because of what was seen in the scans and it doesn't matter what the biopsy shows, so when she met three hours with the specialists did they tell her that or are they talking about different scans? Because i know in the car discussion I heard tiffany say , "what if the biopsy shows no cancer?" to which her sister replied, " then it's another wait and watch for 4 weeks". And Matt goes "yeah". That's a big thing to hear wrong or not understand. It looks like she's got a good surgeon though. I admire the healthcare system in the UK, it seems they treat people kind. It's a huge money making endeavor in other places.
The NHS is broken. Unfortunately they only seem to take scans etc. when someone is really ill and dropping to pieces. I'm not blaming the staff, nurses etc. It has gone to hell in a handcart!🕳
 
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Debating about opening a PO Box with her followers immediately after waking up from an op and high on pain was last straw for me- I'm tapping out guys. Personally wish her all the best for the sake of her family members, but I feel like watching her and commenting on here is feeding the beast. This woman is manipulative and she is profiting off her cancer in a way that I can't agree with. She does nothing for anyone and everything is about her and what people do for her. That being said, really hope she gets the magic cure she is so desperately after, as well as the other help that she needs, and that one day she can give back to charities so that others can too enjoy the fruits of her 'success.' All the very best to all!
 
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Those that think Matt wont stick around,he genuinely seems to love her. She says in this interview they have been together for 5 years- it's long enough surely for him not be put off by all this.
On the phone he was using 'darling' when more that she does.

 
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I think some people have just turned genuinely nasty on here. She might be an annoying moron but she's a young woman with cancer who is clearly struggling, to minimise this because some of you are too blind to see the visible tears because you want to have something to pick at stuns me. And to try and say she isn't suffering because she can post a couple of tiktoks, really?? There are people with cancer who are still working, who try and complete bucket lists. One minute it's not believing her because she's not laid up in bed and then it's scolding her when she gets help with things from Amma.

It's a shame because this thread used to be a good place to unload honest feelings which we could no longer do in her comment section, now I feel like it's a place full of fruit loops with conspiracy theories.
So well said. I like to read other ones opinions and also ventilates my own thoughts about this subject. Search into scientific literature (I am sorry, Betty 😶) and just give my opinion. But after a couple of threads the tone of the conversation changed. It became a bit nasty. I like a honest thread but not a vile one.
 
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I think some people have just turned genuinely nasty on here. She might be an annoying moron but she's a young woman with cancer who is clearly struggling, to minimise this because some of you are too blind to see the visible tears because you want to have something to pick at stuns me. And to try and say she isn't suffering because she can post a couple of tiktoks, really?? There are people with cancer who are still working, who try and complete bucket lists. One minute it's not believing her because she's not laid up in bed and then it's scolding her when she gets help with things from Amma.

It's a shame because this thread used to be a good place to unload honest feelings which we could no longer do in her comment section, now I feel like it's a place full of fruit loops with conspiracy theories.
I'm a self declared fruit loop wearing my tinfoil hat but I'm not a nasty person, you've just called her, an annoying moron". There are many kind and decent people on here who far outway the "nasty" ones.
 
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I would honestly be shocked if her family watches all of her videos, just my feeling. They are around her so much and likely feel they know everything they need to know. I just can't see them having the time nor inclination. As far as Tiffany venting online to strangers, I'm certainly not saying she is doing the videos solely to protect her loved ones. Of course, I'm sure it's cathartic and helpful for her, but I do also believe, irrelevant of her channel, that she tries to protect Amma from some of the fears and sadness she has. I think it's pretty natural. I would do the same with my loved ones. When you see Amma and Tiffany in the car together, just the look on Amma's face is so pained and worried. Much as our loved ones want to be there for us, you naturally don't want to add to a loved one's worry.
I appreciate what you’re saying and yes, protecting loved ones is instinctive on many levels, however there are some occasions especially when I’m frightened, distressed and sad that I look for the physical comfort from sharing those emotions.
With Tiffany protecting loved ones, how then does she get the physical comfort that is so so important for psyche and wellbeing… the tight hugs and squeezes and of course, a mothers arms to sob into.
Just maybe, that’s truly what she needs to do … acknowledge the enormity of what life has dealt her, the diagnosis, the anger, the fear, the trepidation and just sob it out in her mothers arms. Crying together is also very therapeutic.
Perhaps the nonsense she carries on with would be halved if she had some physical reassurance that her loved ones know, understand and share her fear.
Anyway, that’s just my thoughts.

I speak only from my personal experience but I can assure you if I didn’t have my husband, mum and sister to hold me, hug me, squeeze me in my times of fear and uncertainty, I don’t think I’d truly be in the positive position I’m in today with my recovery 🥳!
I did however, protect my sons from seeing me very upset … maternal love absolutely wanted to protect them.

When Tiffany hides herself away somewhere in her house to volg and cries, looking so frightfully distressed, I’m sure having her mum there to hold her while she sobs it out would be very cathartic for them both.
As I have said, just my thoughts and I appreciate yours too.
 
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I'm a self declared fruit loop wearing my tinfoil hat but I'm not a nasty person, you've just called her, an annoying moron". There are many kind and decent people on here who far outway the "nasty" ones.
the fact you have taken personal offense might say it all :))

calling someone stupid and annoying is a far cry from accusing her of faking cancer, faking crying in a hospital bed, saying she doesn't deserve any good news and that other people with cancer should survive over her.

I've been in these threads from near the beginning and the tone is completely different now and in my opinion the ones who are taking it too far are drowning out the ones who are just posting their normal, justifiable opinions.
 
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I think everyone is just so frustrated by now. We are invested emotionally, and we want to see Tiffany get better. I think people tend to get angry and upset when they feel that they are not getting the whole picture of what is happening. I wish Tiffany would have done a Q and A that clarifies the questions people have about what the doctors are saying, etc.
 
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I think everyone is just so frustrated by now. We are invested emotionally, and we want to see Tiffany get better. I think people tend to get angry and upset when they feel that they are not getting the whole picture of what is happening. I wish Tiffany would have done a Q and A that clarifies the questions people have about what the doctors are saying, etc.
yes a Q and A would be good...ala Krocks in the Kitchen Yt.
 
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Debating about opening a PO Box with her followers immediately after waking up from an op and high on pain was last straw for me- I'm tapping out guys. Personally wish her all the best for the sake of her family members, but I feel like watching her and commenting on here is feeding the beast. This woman is manipulative and she is profiting off her cancer in a way that I can't agree with. She does nothing for anyone and everything is about her and what people do for her. That being said, really hope she gets the magic cure she is so desperately after, as well as the other help that she needs, and that one day she can give back to charities so that others can too enjoy the fruits of her 'success.' All the very best to all!
I hope you don’t leave. I’ve always enjoyed reading your posts and input. You mentioned before that you’re about Tiffany’s age but you truly are as East from West from Tiffany. I think you are such a mature, level headed, intelligent, sincere, caring and sensible person from your posts and comments👍. Tiffany is just your opposite. 👎

Your post above says it all. I think we have been manipulated to the point where people are beginning to express anger and disgust. That’s what manipulation does to people. IT IS a form of BULLYING. So who is to be blamed but the manipulator?

When she chooses to withhold info and be deceptive and to taunt the viewers, she chooses the consequences. She may be reaping the fruits of her dishonesty from YT but she has lost people’s trust and I personally feel that she does not have any integrity at all. Pretending to be holy, acting like an angel when she won’t even consider the hours of prayers that genuine, caring people out there are doing for her and are looking forward to her honest updates.

She already has heaps of love and support. What about those cancer sufferers who have to go through their journey all alone???? Now she wants more support, cards and stuff from people. What has she given back in return? Can someone tell me?
 
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Does anyone remember someone from twitter who decided to tweet her small child's death from brain cancer? It was years ago, and the woman was from America, I believe. Her daughter really did have brain cancer and really did have a twin sister, but the mother used the tragedy to raise money for the family, and to get all sorts of toys and clothing for the surviving twin. She tweeted out an address, the surviving child's size and favourite colours, and then proceeded to in-depth tweet the details of her daughter dying whilst she could have been holding and comforting her. After the burial, she, her husband, and surviving daughter went to Disneyland with the funds followers sent in. I just don't get people who monetize suffering, whether their own or others.
 
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Such a heart breaking situation. The expression on Amma's face did it for me. She looks so sad and scared. I just wanted her hug her.

It's so strange for me how how T feels she needs to suppress her emotions in front of her mom. As a mother, I would want my child to express their feelings. Maybe she feels like that is too much of a burden...it strikes me as odd that she pours her heart out to a bunch of strangers and then uploads the video...its not like her family doesnt know how to watch her videos. Anyway, it does seem to be cathartic for her so, whatever makes the experience easier. Clearly she needs somewhere to release her fears. I hope she gets professional help so that she doesnt continue suppressing her feelings.
 
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It is interesting though that people are becoming frustrated, even angry with others ‘freedom of speech’.
That’s why everyone is welcome over here on this platform; freedom of speech.
I guess by having the ‘reaction’ tab, people do get to adjudge if they like/dislike, approve/disapprove of a comment and that’s probably more to the point, rather than abusing others because we don’t agree.

I’ve just read and re read some earlier comments that created a fuss and in true social media style, how can you ever be sure that your interpretation is the correct one. So many personalities, cultures, religions and dialogue to interpret and understand… that’s just what occurs with global talk and it’s great we can all share.
I don’t think anybody should be judged or jumped on for having an opinion, regardless of how we interpret that … everyone has their story! Everyone has their history and everyone has their right to say as they please, nice or not so nice.
This thread isn’t vile if you take a wander through some other forums here on Tattle … wow 😮!
But again, it’s just freedom of speech, vile or not, that’s what it is, no right or wrong.
 
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the fact you have taken personal offense might say it all :))

calling someone stupid and annoying is a far cry from accusing her of faking cancer, faking crying in a hospital bed, saying she doesn't deserve any good news and that other people with cancer should survive over her.

I've been in these threads from near the beginning and the tone is completely different now and in my opinion the ones who are taking it too far are drowning out the ones who are just posting their normal, justifiable opinions.
Fair points, I did get a bit wound up. I am new to forums and haven't read all previous threads.I don't think you were being mean. Apologies.🙃

I think everyone is just so frustrated by now. We are invested emotionally, and we want to see Tiffany get better. I think people tend to get angry and upset when they feel that they are not getting the whole picture of what is happening. I wish Tiffany would have done a Q and A that clarifies the questions people have about what the doctors are saying, etc.
Wise words😊
 
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Didn’t read that comment. Won’t bother. Enough of he says, she says. Let the Moderator do his/her job.

Anyway, fresh start. Let people be themselves. Free speech. Peace on earth..👏👏😀
I don't understand why she is so worried about showing emotion in front of her mum? I think she's way stronger than Tiffany realises, she almost infantilizes her in a way.
Wonder if its a cultural thing......🤔

I don't understand why she is so worried about showing emotion in front of her mum? I think she's way stronger than Tiffany realises, she almost infantilizes her in a way.
Yes, its difficult to understand. Many times folks in trouble will hold it together for others but when Mom shows up they crumble because Mom will love you no matter what. The way Tiffany reacts, Mom and family become an added stress more than a comfort.
 
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I'm still wondering when she actually had the EUA. She dropped a video Friday midmorning, yet in this one, she says she didn't get back to her room after the EUA until half 5, and she admitted she did not have her camera or phone in Recovery until she got to her private room.

So, she could not have posted the video on Friday midmorning herself.

So, did she have someone else post it for her (why would she do that, really...), or was the EUA not on Friday but earlier in the week?

I think she's purposefully messing with the timeline, as much as she's tried to be vague where possible.

I saw only a couple requests in her comments asking for a PO Box in the last couple videos, it's not like there was a tsunami of requests that should have swayed her or justified the expense/effort. People can already send supportive words via Comments or DMs: I fear it may be more trouble than it's worth.
 
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