This Mama Life #32

[ellyjelly2]

I just can’t with her! F**k off Sarah! She wanted this so suck it up, I am so sick off her constantly moaning about a situation she has created. Maybe her parents for once have had enough and told her some realities. She and Rob know he goes away on deployment, they know Sarah is not maternal in the slightest so why have another baby? Because rigid think Sarah could not deviate for her fixed plan. What does she think other people do? Loads of mums at the school gates up and down the country with three kids. Partners at work. Loads of other military wives getting on with it. As for the ‘triggering comment’ maybe she should have taken up the offer of counselling before bringing another baby not the world. I have no doubt it was hard, but I think Sarah couldn’t cope because it was not how she planned for it and we know she’s really odd in her way of thinking.

 

[NorthernLight2022]

Look, my husband also goes to sea (8 months of the year) so I know 100% how this is + not having a second car - but if we had a sick baby then FFS our older kids would then for this one or two times keep their butts at home while we go to the hospital together / come with us. They are just not learning anything about staying together, family comes first, caring about weak ones, love and compassion. It’s disconnected and cold, mechanic and superficial. Everything made more difficult or just plain and simple wrong. And her husband is the most rounded grey invisible person in the world, wtf? My husband is a captain on a large ship going to antarctica etc, thank god he has a mind of his own and can speak up for all of us, even if he is not military.

 

[Shinythings]

Urgh. She's still pushing the Isla has a boyfriend narrative and they went in a Valentine's date. It's so creepy. Who is letting kids that age go in a 'date'? Going out socially as friends is fine but making it a date is just wrong.

 

[Cookiepie222]

What is she talking about- why wouldn’t she be able to do the school run once Rob deploys?! Literally every other mum manages… it’s not rocket science, you just get up early and have everything organised the night before. Her kids are old enough to get themselves ready so all she needs to do is get baby ready to leave, drive them there and straight back again… Jesus Christ I don’t know how everyone copes

 

[ellyjelly2]

Sarah is behaving how she has always behaved. Nothing and nobody comes in the way of her doing what she wants to do. The fact ( as someone stated above) she sent Lachlan into nursery with a cannula in his hand should tell us all we need to know about her instincts as a mother.

 

[PinkFigs]

The ‘Baby on Scottish soil’ photo!

 

[ellyjelly2]

Bit bloody late to now be worried how she’s going to cope once Rob is deployed! She created this situation so she will have to deal with it.

 

[jayne2240]

These people absolutely BAFFLE me. Sitting writing her birth story as if anyone gives a fuck.

 

[Peachbomb]

We are forgetting that Sarah is the first woman to ever do any of this.

no one else has had a baby while also having school age children and everyone else’s husband is there 24/7 at their beck and call.
Poor Sarah the martyr has it hard.

I personally was relieved each time my husband went back to work so I could get us into a proper routine, it was a false reality when he was there too.

 

[LennyBriscoe]

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So neurotic it’s unbelievable. Who on earth cares what exact time your parents evening appointments are!? So so weird that this is “content”.

I’m sure she thinks she’s this cute, ditzy but loveable Instagirl when the reality is she’s a selfish, neurotic Honey Monster who couldn’t do right by her kids if her life depended on it

 

[Cookiepie222]

Oh my god she’s copied everything- the camera angle, the fact she’s in her underwear, the caption…. It’s so embarrassing



Imagine a midwife opening the curtain to do her obs & seeing a camera on a tripod pointed at Sarah standing there in her underwear about to start filming

 

[DeloresBawbag]

‘Requested obs,’ Jesus Sarah. The poor wee baby’s blood was too thick to test. Of course they’re requesting obs! They’re not trying to make your life difficult for fun

What is WRONG with her that she keeps darting about to dance shows and lunch and chiropractor appointments, rather than sitting on the sofa and doing nothing but feeding and expressing and sleeping and skin on skin?

And now off out to ‘pick up the big two.’

She’s either exaggerating this whole thing, or she’s putting him at risk. Those are the only two options and it’s horrible.

 

[Rocketman86]

Yep. She will want a fourth in pursuit of the “insta perfect” girl baby.

With that gene pool they're never gonna get an insta perfect baby

 

[Leethechimpanzee]

It’s just all so weird, i’d honestly be less confused if she said she was moving them all up there for the duration of deployment and switching schooling etc…

Flying all the way there for 4 days, just two days after Rob leaves for what?! To parade the sick baby off to all the family that couldn’t be arsed to visit her and to then turn round and come back to face the same reality a few days after, I honestly just do not get it and I say that as mum of 3 with a husband in the navy who lives over 500 miles away from all our family.

 

[Lilyofthevalley80]

He’s probably on the verge of hypernatremia and his electrolytes are severely out of whack. High pitched inconsolable crying is a sign per the beach yesterday. Hypernatremia is entirely preventable.

He needs about 6oz of milk per kilo of weight for supplementation and no further weight loss. Instead of writing a birth story, it would be much more sensible to record what is being expressed and when. Disregard the “breastfeeds” because it’s still not clear that he’s transferring milk properly. Stay in the house and focus on expressing with your industrial pump and your husband who can pick up the slack. Go out to go to breastfeeding support group only. You have the time/money/support. You have every opportunity to make this work if you can. You choose. How do you want to prioritise your time? Or move to formula. That’s it. It’s not hard.

 

[Cookiepie222]

Oh…my…god. Someone please call a shrink for this woman.

 

[croissantmoon2]

Stumbled across this belter in Sarah’s Instagram history… I’ve censored all personal/medical information. It is horrific to think Sarah has been over sharing her children without thought for also a decade now.

Also, number 12 gives me the absolute creeps. Not right.

 

[LennyBriscoe]

Noooooo

 

[call.me.coco]

A friend also has a 2 week old.
She’s left the house a handful of times and mostly to hospital appointments. She is recovering still from the birth and baby is cluster feeding.

Why does a poorly newborn need to be dragged to a supermarket? She absolutely lives for the chaos and drama.

 

[CasinoRoyal]

The baby on the Scottish tarmac post has a comment about her late flight landing in the dark!! Any of you tattlers responsible? No response as yet. It’ll be deleted soon