This is one of the reason gentle parenting advice advises against doing it, one of the reasons being the fear it instills and the other big one for me tbh is trying to use Christmas to modify behaviour/extrinsic motivation. If anyone wants to read more on this and think about elf’s role in ur house this is a good starting pointI would find this so scary as a child tbh
Five Reasons why I Hate Elf on the Shelf
Every few years a new parenting ‘must have’ comes along. These toys, sleep props, books and nursery items quickly develop a cult like following. Parents can quickly get sucked in, often…
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