Thank you!Here you go lol
Just how I imagined but worse
Thank you!Here you go lol
I agree completely.I once saw a FB post containing an album called 'Nans funeral'. All pics of the funeral, the flowers, everyone standing around crying. They stopped short of posting a pic of the coffin, but seriously, come on.
Oversharing a sad situation in general irks me. A relatives mum got taken into hospital, was in intensive care, there were constant lengthy updates on FB, pics holding her mums hand etc.
Someone I vaguely know had a sibling that committed suicide, that was all over FB when they got the news 'oh god please tell me its not true, what have you done little sister, why did you do this? Why didn't you talk to us?' and on and on.
I guess they were hit by grief in each of these situations. I just don't understand the immediate need to plaster it all over social media, not sure if it's attention seeking or what. It's quite ghoulish. When I went through deep sudden grief, I could just about make it through each day, putting it out there on social media did not even occur to me.
I don't know why your first thought when something like this happens would be to turn to Facebook?I once saw a FB post containing an album called 'Nans funeral'. All pics of the funeral, the flowers, everyone standing around crying. They stopped short of posting a pic of the coffin, but seriously, come on.
Oversharing a sad situation in general irks me. A relatives mum got taken into hospital, was in intensive care, there were constant lengthy updates on FB, pics holding her mums hand etc.
Someone I vaguely know had a sibling that committed suicide, that was all over FB when they got the news 'oh god please tell me its not true, what have you done little sister, why did you do this? Why didn't you talk to us?' and on and on.
I guess they were hit by grief in each of these situations. I just don't understand the immediate need to plaster it all over social media, not sure if it's attention seeking or what. It's quite ghoulish. When I went through deep sudden grief, I could just about make it through each day, putting it out there on social media did not even occur to me.
OMG as if, this is exactly what I came to post about. I follow an influencer called Florence Grace who has an adorable toddler son - fine, great. Every few months she'll stop sharing photos of his face and make a big deal of it, saying how she has to protect his privacy and there are creeps out there - agreed, yes, absolutely - I wouldn't be sharing any photos of my kid on an open insta, but at least you're covering his face I suppose. Then a few months later she starts sharing pics and videos of his face again! Then the whole cycle repeats today she's sounding off about it because some creepy duck is pretending to be her on tiktok and is sharing videos of her kid, which is undeniably absolutely out of order and completely creepy, but she herself has acknowledged this risk MULTIPLE TIMES and still goes back to sharing photos! I can guarantee this will happen again a few months down the line.Social media babys in general. Privacy robbed from the first moment on, and that's just for starters, because then is goes on and on, every vlog or post is about that poor offspring and all the banal things he or she does.
Yeh that is really sad, taking away someone's dignity just for a bit of attention seeking. Plus like you say, people that hardly know you or barely knew your nan posting condolences, it's just not genuineI don't know why your first thought when something like this happens would be to turn to Facebook?
When my Nanna died, I didn't post anything on Facebook, but my cousin did and she tagged the whole family into the post. I wasn't happy about that as I didn't want to plaster it all over Facebook. I didn't want to deal with people I wasn't particularly close to sending me condolences so soon after it happened. I also didn't agree with the pictures they put on of her when she was frail and ill. She would have been mortified that people had seen her looking like that
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