Eeurgh DD trying to justify her “parenting” style. Cool. What works for you works for you
But can you not see the problem? You are doing what works best for YOU! In fact you’ve somehow made it all about YOU again- somehow
Maybe look at the bigger picture. Other Mums won’t want their young children being exposed to swearing/ being disrespectful/ violent outbursts etc so will she be excluded? Yes of course she will. When she goes to school will she get in to trouble for her behaviour? Yes of course she will. Could this eventually see her grades affected? Yes of course... do you see where I’m going here? You are absolutely doing her an injustice by not teaching her even the most basic boundaries.
Alternative parenting styles is fine. But please DD understand that there is a difference between being a relaxed parent and being a total lazy cow