From that last post with the message she sent to B all i could think was poor kid. The air clearly hasn’t been cleared for him. He normally says bye, well he’s obviously not feeling like you support him. That’s really worrying to me. My son has additional needs, he’s not violent, aggressive etc and He knows boundaries and understands consequences. It seems H is being rewarded for his violent outbursts. These are not small boys, they are the size of adult men and one of her boys or her are going to be seriously hurt at some point! It won’t be long before she’s having to call the police as an emergency (it unfortunately happens).