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genericusername

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Unfortunately, I have first hand experience of Jess Warner, I was utterly gobsmacked when I discovered she was an influencer.

Her children have always been utterly out of hand and vile, there is no way on earth H is autistic, in fact he spent most of his early school career bullying an actually autistic child to the point of breakdown (including shouting in their face every time he walked near them, physical abuse, trying to suffocate them, shutting in toilets, the list goes on). This started in Reception.

She was never interested in connections with other mums, never talked to anyone or made eye contact. Really acted like she was a cut above. I was shocked to hear her tale of woe origin story tbh. I know for a fact she was included in birthday parties and would turn them down.

Her older sons were allowed free run of the village they lived in from a young age and caused trouble. They were out of hand then so it’s no wonder they are off the rails now. I think she sums is up when she disregards ‘pinching kids in the playground’ as not impactful shit like smoking weed. It’s the foundation for respect and fitting into society to teach appropriate behaviour when they’re little.

I know a lot of autistic kids through my job and personally and H does not fit the diagnosis, he travels around the countryside/school alone, has a job, has a big group of friends, has a girlfriend. It sickens me that his behaviour is being sold as neurodiversity. She has latched onto PDA traits and pushed for a private diagnosis in an attempt to mitigate his appalling behaviour and her complete lack of action or responsibility as a parent.
 
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Mess Warner

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Mess Warner is a fraudster plain and simple! Her life is one massive example of how succeed by being a real life living troll. Anyone who doesn't bow down to her demands is treated in an identical (and what is becoming a repetitive) format. She openly trolls her ex husband, who by the way is in a really stable and happy relationship, whilst clearly conditioning her boys to hate him.....yet she is the victim. She openly trolls parents who took a stand in protecting their children from H's poor behaviour in primary school, attributing their zero birthday invites as the single most devastating impact that led to H's further descent into poor behaviour........and yes she and H again are still the victims. She openly trolls the "over zealous" senco (who's name and identity by the way is easily accessible online or in the locality, as are all the individuals she identifies without naming outright) knowing that the senco in question has zero platform due to safeguarding to respond/defend their position in relation to the torrent of abuse she has levelled at this individual through TOGITH instagram account. She has trolled multiple staff members of her boys high-school with an absoloute low resulting in her dedicating a whole post at getting a dig in at the lady administering paracetamol to her injured Bruno (injured emotionally and physically by H, I might add). Any people with kids in this school know exactly who she is talking about, anyone who has any form of interaction with the school knows exactly who she is talking about yet her and her boys continue to be the victims. Mess conveniently abuses her position on instagram to poison opinions of identifiable individuals whilst they get zero response options other than remaining voiceless. Mess has no concept of brand allegiance, every week evolves around the peddling of yet another freebie product or service. Name one product promoted 12 months ago that is still to the forefront of her promotional posts. These companies need their heads checked. Lynne the hairdresser has been cast aside because of being friends with Nanna, Dr Sally is no more because after the first freebie botox Mess realises she now has to pay. No more freebie manicures by the lady local to Mess as surprise surprise after one or two initial freebie appointments Mess was expected to pay. Mess is on a six figure income yet she needed a loan of Nanna for a beach hut.........when are people going to see the light????
 
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maytoseptember

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I found her PTA post so confusing. “Oh I was so scared of the PTA when I was a single mum of 25. They were all OLD and snobby and wore Boden and I didn’t fit in at all!”

She is literally the archetype of the middle class primary school PTA mum. Slim, attractive, high end clothes, jolly hockey sticks personality… what on earth made her think she was so different to them 10 years ago? 😄

Bet she only joined for a new Instagram angle/engagement stream anyway 👀
 
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reCAPTCHA

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Howling that she actually has the audacity to type “I’m always conscious of setting the boundaries and enforcing consequences.”

How can she have such little self-awareness? 🤣🤣 What have you done Jess- taken his XBox off him for 30 mins? Taken 50p back from the £20 you bribed him with last week just to get through a single lesson? Fucking hell she wouldn’t know a boundary or a consequence if it smacked her in the face 🤡
 
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reCAPTCHA

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H is going to be a nightmare builder of the future… can you imagine telling him he hadn’t followed the drawings and something needed to be moved 🤯
Jess would roll up to the meeting with Hugo the Builder and explain “I know he’s 35 but I am the only person that can advocate for him. I know he’s fucked your house up and shat on your patio, but you should finish your own building work (and pay him in full) because he is NeUroDIverSe” 😂
 
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Lhasalife

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Unfortunately her aggressive personality seems to be rubbing of on her eldest boy - I have had an unkind message from her when I questioned why she was showing lovey dovey posts with her man to advertise wine when they were separating? It just shows how much of a huge lie instagram is. What is going on in that house is Domestic Violence from a man sized strong teenager against his brother. If it was Russ who had knocked Bruno about would that be ok? so why is she defending it and are brands aware that she has used a violent teenager to promote brands and make money - sorry does not sit well with me at all.
 
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Beth B

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At this point it is safe to assume we all wish every child well in a game of football.

We don't need to generate yet another instagram notification of special praise for H because he played a proper game of football without throwing a tantrum.
 
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maytoseptember

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Let me get this straight - she sends him to school despite keeping him off yesterday, feeling “off kilter” after being beaten up but determined that he’ll be feeling A-OK once lessons take his mind off things.

He develops a sudden “sore throat”, school nurse suspects he’s having her on, but Jess sweeps in with a “don’t you dare tell me what’s best for my angel… Mummy’s coming darling!” and mentally starts preparing a post about the need for Mental Health Days…

But clearly you didn’t think he needed another mental health day this morning?

And you’re admitting he was fibbing about the sore throat? If you’re now calling it a mental health day?

God she’s annoying me today. She’s so indulgent. So combative with school staff. And so manipulative with the way she tells stories!
 
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B_ee

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If your child can be bribed by 20 quid then does that not show he is in control of his behaviour?

People like her make it so much for harder for children/teenagers with autism to be understood. When my son was in mainstream all the money in the world could not have helped him get through a day of school and it would have just made him feel ten times worse for failing. She is a disgrace and I hope this backfires on her when followers see through her bullshit.
 
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Abi da Walker

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Gentlemen? I don’t know many gentlemen who swear at their mother, beat each other up and show enormous disrespect toward everyone else. What on Earth are her followers watching because it’s not the same as I see!
 
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Lotty16817

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I reported her post and it’s been removed. So tell me this Jess if there was nothing wrong with your behaviour why would Instagram remove it? It’s her income source (6 figures she has confessed) and she’s that thick and vindictive herself she couldn’t help it but be a cow and bully. I hope this is the start of her not earning money flogging everything including her children!

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KeriRhys

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Fucking hell!
That post was the final straw for me... Unfollowed!! 🙄🙄
"I took the pic to send to Bruno"
Yes... But you still shared it to Instagram and are still using your injured upset teenage for content!!
Sort out your priorities
 
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Beth B

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Cabins can be disassembled and removed easily. Joint investment in a new property and/or joint investment in a new extension on to current property can't be taken apart as easily. Russ has his head screwed on if you ask me. This is a perfect example of allowing someone to move in with you whilst preventing them from having any financial claim to your home. As far as Russ is concerned she can build a village of cabins in his back garden but HIS home remains HIS home with no reimbursements needed when it all goes tits up. Wise man
 
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Mess Warner

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Mrs T is the pupil premium maths tutor in her sons school.

Let that soak in....... TOGITH is allegedly on a 6 figure income but her kids qualify for all the benefits that come with pupil premium status. Free or subsidised breakfasts and lunches. Benefits of extra intervention by schools to assist in her sons achieving their gcse target grades. Words fail me!

And rather than quietly respecting the service the school is attempting to provide she yet again she is naming and drawing attention to a school and a particular staff member who are easily identifiable and play no part in the instagram world she is consumed by. She gives no consideration to the fact that these posts are a basic brewing point for potential safe guarding breaches.
 
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