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Can I ask how she will claim mileage? Not heard that before.
She can claim through the healthcare travel cost scheme that's national but the rates per mile are set by your local CCG if your going by car. If you use public transport you keep your receipts. As she went to london she can also claim back the congestion charge. She can also claim for parking and tolls. Theres usually a office/desk in the hospital to go to to claim it back, sometimes you can get a advance payment before the appointment, or you can claim it back afterwards by post if you dont need it back quickly.
 
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Also in the past for GOSH appts they have been booked into a hotel paid for by GOSH but obviously not up to her standards!
 
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Also in the past for GOSH appts they have been booked into a hotel paid for by GOSH but obviously not up to her standards!
She used to use their subsidised accommodation scheme but then she got idiots on the internet to give her thousands for a chair that was really funded. She would film the Kimpton Fitzroy saying one day she would stay in it...now she does 🙄
 
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She used to use their subsidised accommodation scheme but then she got idiots on the internet to give her thousands for a chair that was really funded. She would film the Kimpton Fitzroy saying one day she would stay in it...now she does 🙄
I personally wouldn't stay at Kimpton Fitzroy. There are a lot of better places to stay locally! She actually mjjust want got live In London and it's not for J.s health needs either.
 
She can claim through the healthcare travel cost scheme that's national but the rates per mile are set by your local CCG if your going by car. If you use public transport you keep your receipts. As she went to london she can also claim back the congestion charge. She can also claim for parking and tolls. Theres usually a office/desk in the hospital to go to to claim it back, sometimes you can get a advance payment before the appointment, or you can claim it back afterwards by post if you dont need it back quickly.
wow! So she’s even on the beg because she’s saying she’s of pocket but clearly knows she will get it back as she knows ALL the benefits and all the systems 🤬
 
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wow! So she’s even on the beg because she’s saying she’s of pocket but clearly knows she will get it back as she knows ALL the benefits and all the systems 🤬
She has a interest in psychology so she has probably researched "The confidence trick". Some poor fool out of her 61.1k followers will have sent her a message offering to give her the £50 by PayPal by now

I personally wouldn't stay at Kimpton Fitzroy. There are a lot of better places to stay locally! She actually mjjust want got live In London and it's not for J.s health needs either.
That will be her 2021 goal
 
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Shes not even clever with it so I dont know why so many follow her and fall for it, unless 50% are following cause they think shes a fool and wonder what she will come out with next
I can confirm I follow and think she’s a fool, waiting to see what rit she comes up with ! It is worrying the behaviours she shows. One poster, again, hit the nail on the head saying if this was me (a non SEN mum) who acted this way, wow I’d be ripped to shreds. She has it tough, but so does everyone in their own way - different levels of course but she does not warrant sympathy, J is who we are concerned about and how he’s processing.

Shes definitely seen as a wannabe gangsta or whatever and How she’s “so in touch with the black community” 🙄 I can’t stand it it makes me cringe so hard
 
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I remember her saying the carers were the only option at the time for her being able to accept the nursing shifts. So although you mention you’re not meant to use carers for effectively childcare, she said she had no other way as obviously with nursing the shift hours are not like, say I do, 9-5 which is the typical nursery hours. With nurseries at the time (looks like different now as he’s in one??) rejecting him what options did she have?
So she went away with her friend the other week and said she was in her childcare bubble. But then also she shared her friends story who said it was a girls treat. And they went had a night out. Who then had J? Sounds like an abuse of the rules for sure. She’s never addressed this either as I catch most stories.
 
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I remember her saying the carers were the only option at the time for her being able to accept the nursing shifts. So although you mention you’re not meant to use carers for effectively childcare, she said she had no other way as obviously with nursing the shift hours are not like, say I do, 9-5 which is the typical nursery hours. With nurseries at the time (looks like different now as he’s in one??) rejecting him what options did she have?
So she went away with her friend the other week and said she was in her childcare bubble. But then also she shared her friends story who said it was a girls treat. And they went had a night out. Who then had J? Sounds like an abuse of the rules for sure. She’s never addressed this either as I catch most stories.
Her other option was to use the 80k+ in donations to fund childcare/ carers. But I honestly believe she never has any intention on using the money for carers.

didn’t she kick off when a couple of “mainstream” nurseries wouldn’t accept him? Sharing the emails, with the names of the nurseries - saying it’s discrimination......Then in the same breath she tells everyone that even the carers are in tears
Looking after him??? And that her and J will end up dead without help?
 
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Who made her go to work? No one.
Who said it would be financially beneficial? No one.
So why does she act like she has to and then complain about her loss of carers allowance AND lie about the wage she brings in?.
Her immaturity and lack of common sense are startling. She isn’t at all clever. And it’s her way or the highway.
What’s interesting is the fact she isn’t an only child because she sure acts like a spoiled cat who has to have the best of everything and throws her dummy out if it looks like she won’t get her own way.
 
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Her other option was to use the 80k+ in donations to fund childcare/ carers. But I honestly believe she never has any intention on using the money for carers.

didn’t she kick off when a couple of “mainstream” nurseries wouldn’t accept him? Sharing the emails, with the names of the nurseries - saying it’s discrimination......Then in the same breath she tells everyone that even the carers are in tears
Looking after him??? And that her and J will end up dead without help?
Exactly this. That money was supposedly for if carers got cut after the chair she knew would be funded.... Got funded 😂 never did she intend to use that money to help her with RESPITE. Not childcare. The two are very different things. This all happened before she started working... Said she cannot cope without the help. Her sons needs are so so high. Blah blah... Then ends up working. Hang on.... If he's so much hard work surely you wouldn't work?! The supposedly sleepless nights. Why add that to your plate when you supposedly cannot cope on what you already have?!

Then the nursery 🙄 how she pubically slated the nursery because they wouldn't take her son on. Apparently he was too complicated and they couldn't provide him a one to one which would be needed...
Now here we go again with the inconsistencies.... Why the hell would you want to put your son in a mainstream nursery where they do not have the money or resources to look after him, have openly said they arnt trained etc... I certainly wouldn't want my child attending somewhere they've never experienced looking after a complex child. But then in the same breath like you say she's saying how complex he is and even the carers can't manage (bull.) So WHY do you think it's safe and acceptable to place him in a mainstream nursery!!?
She wants others to look after her child because he doesn't fit into her lifestyle plain and simple.
 
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She is the biggest most annoying crook on social media by a long way and there are a lot!
 
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This morning she said she's been up since 5am... However Jaxon was fast asleep in her bed (yet again that profiling bed she paid extra for it being white is being put to use) and the alarm clock read 6. 20am. So either she's woke an hour and 20min early to cake her face with slap because she's off to London... Or again she's lying. I think it's probably her lying again.
He was fast asleep at 8.20pm last night too.
 
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I remember her saying the carers were the only option at the time for her being able to accept the nursing shifts. So although you mention you’re not meant to use carers for effectively childcare, she said she had no other way as obviously with nursing the shift hours are not like, say I do, 9-5 which is the typical nursery hours. With nurseries at the time (looks like different now as he’s in one??) rejecting him what options did she have?
So she went away with her friend the other week and said she was in her childcare bubble. But then also she shared her friends story who said it was a girls treat. And they went had a night out. Who then had J? Sounds like an abuse of the rules for sure. She’s never addressed this either as I catch most stories.
If Kaytee was allowed carers so she can work, the other hundreds of thousands of sen parents should be getting that too who cant work due to caring, no matter how low or high their needs are, being unable to work is being unable to work. That's not what carers are for, if it was all sen families would be offered them so they could work too. Continuing care is for those children that really need a high level of medical care. To be eligible you have to score on a assessment at least one priority need or severe needs in at least 2 areas. J doesnt score high enough in any of the areas and theres lots of different sections on the assessment, most of his needs were scored low or moderate when they've assessed him, not severe or a priority need. Its definitely not for childcare cover so you can work or to replace a nursery place if you cant find a nursery. There are other options she can try to get support put in place, just not nhs continuing care as that's for those children who actually need that level of care. Lots of us cant work but that still doesnt qualify us for continuing care. We are expected to be greatful for getting carers allowance. Kaytee is no different, theres many of us have careers we cant do.

She definitely abused the childcare bubble rules, really irresponsible considering so many follow her and believe her explanations of things. His dad probably had him, she couldnt draw attention to J being looked after down there or more would have twigged she was breaking lockdown rules.
 
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Tonight in stories- how’s Jackson? He’s fine other than his feeding tube site is giving him issues but we don’t have the time or resources to sort it? What??? What resources do you need? MAKE TIME? I don’t not take my kid to the doctors with an earache because I don’t have time- I work full time but I take time off, I’m not going to leave him in pain. Makes zero sense.
 
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Exactly this. That money was supposedly for if carers got cut after the chair she knew would be funded.... Got funded 😂 never did she intend to use that money to help her with RESPITE. Not childcare. The two are very different things. This all happened before she started working... Said she cannot cope without the help. Her sons needs are so so high. Blah blah... Then ends up working. Hang on.... If he's so much hard work surely you wouldn't work?! The supposedly sleepless nights. Why add that to your plate when you supposedly cannot cope on what you already have?!

Then the nursery 🙄 how she pubically slated the nursery because they wouldn't take her son on. Apparently he was too complicated and they couldn't provide him a one to one which would be needed...
Now here we go again with the inconsistencies.... Why the hell would you want to put your son in a mainstream nursery where they do not have the money or resources to look after him, have openly said they arnt trained etc... I certainly wouldn't want my child attending somewhere they've never experienced looking after a complex child. But then in the same breath like you say she's saying how complex he is and even the carers can't manage (bull.) So WHY do you think it's safe and acceptable to place him in a mainstream nursery!!?
She wants others to look after her child because he doesn't fit into her lifestyle plain and simple.
It's doesnt just make you angry, its upsetting too. Theres been too much sadness the past few months in our sen community, too many children have gone or are fighting right now, their families struggling to cope with none of the carers Kaytee has had, but Kaytee doesnt even think about others and how she makes people feel when they see her exagerratting their situation, she makes out they are the worst case scenario but she follows other sen parents, she knows shes in a more privileged position and that there are more in need than them. I don't know why she isnt happy J is doing well enough not to be a priority or severe case to qualify for Continuing Care. We all would like to work, but that's not what carers are for.

Own up. Who’s been sliding into her ‘ask me a question’s’ 🤣 taking a break 🤣🤣🤣
Omg I just watched them and thought the same 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
 
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"what will you be using the fundraiser money on" :LOL:
Which of you is sending in these questions :ROFLMAO:

How can you do nursing "ish"??
 
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