Exactly this. That money was supposedly for if carers got cut after the chair she knew would be funded.... Got funded

never did she intend to use that money to help her with RESPITE. Not childcare. The two are very different things. This all happened before she started working... Said she cannot cope without the help. Her sons needs are so so high. Blah blah... Then ends up working. Hang on.... If he's so much hard work surely you wouldn't work?! The supposedly sleepless nights. Why add that to your plate when you supposedly cannot cope on what you already have?!
Then the nursery

how she pubically slated the nursery because they wouldn't take her son on. Apparently he was too complicated and they couldn't provide him a one to one which would be needed...
Now here we go again with the inconsistencies.... Why the hell would you want to put your son in a mainstream nursery where they do not have the money or resources to look after him, have openly said they arnt trained etc... I certainly wouldn't want my child attending somewhere they've never experienced looking after a complex child. But then in the same breath like you say she's saying how complex he is and even the carers can't manage (
bull.) So WHY do you think it's safe and acceptable to place him in a mainstream nursery!!?
She wants others to look after her child because he doesn't fit into her lifestyle plain and simple.