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No that’s not possible. Motability only allow an application if you have a minimum of 12 months high rate mobility. The application would be denied if you weren’t in receipt of the benefit. IF it was to come out that she had somehow been a privileged case and allowed to apply without a DLA benefit in place then I can tell you there would be absolute uproar within the disabled community.
She did have to give the Family fund car back when he turned 3 and was asking how she could bridge the gap between that ending and a new car starting which again should not of been possible. But she will of literally hounded DLA for the decision over the phone and gone straight into the mercedes dealer and got her ‘in stock’ model which she could of easily collected within a week. She will of absolutely given them sob stories about what would happen if she didn’t have a car. Life or death scenarios are her go to.



If it was that simple we wouldn’t of all waited a year to finally be able to speak out on here as our ONLY outlet.
What do you mean? Surely theres a few people that could say something and then we could all share their posts so more people would see what's shes doing really
 
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What do you mean? Surely theres a few people that could say something and then we could all share their posts so more people would see what's shes doing really
I assume you don’t have a disabled child?.
Your someone who follows her or has followed her but your not a member of the SEN/SEND community or you wouldn’t even be suggesting something along those lines.
 
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No that’s not possible. Motability only allow an application if you have a minimum of 12 months high rate mobility. The application would be denied if you weren’t in receipt of the benefit. IF it was to come out that she had somehow been a privileged case and allowed to apply without a DLA benefit in place then I can tell you there would be absolute uproar within the disabled community.
She did have to give the Family fund car back when he turned 3 and was asking how she could bridge the gap between that ending and a new car starting which again should not of been possible. But she will of literally hounded DLA for the decision over the phone and gone straight into the mercedes dealer and got her ‘in stock’ model which she could of easily collected within a week. She will of absolutely given them sob stories about what would happen if she didn’t have a car. Life or death scenarios are her go to.



If it was that simple we wouldn’t of all waited a year to finally be able to speak out on here as our ONLY outlet.
I wouldn't be surprised if she did get preferential treatment. She shouldn't have had carers for the last few months but they gave in because she went on this morning and made them look bad. They're either going to bend over backwards to please her or they're going to wait until the time is right and will attempt to sort her out. We all know how bad councils, social services and the benefits can be if they want to. Without doubt she is being watched. They all probably talk about her in their offices. One thing you shouldn't do is piss professionals off, hes 3, shes got lots of years left of them being involved with them. They will have more information on her than she thinks they have, meetings she has no idea they've had. They will have noticed the discrepancies and lies. I think its only a matter of time before they start coming down on her hard. Once hes in reception, the school will be keeping a close eye on her and will have her flagged up as a difficult parent.
 
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I assume you don’t have a disabled child?.
Your someone who follows her or has followed her but your not a member of the SEN/SEND community or you wouldn’t even be suggesting something along those lines.
Yes I'm a SEND parent of 2, why wouldn't I suggest trying to get her outed so people can see what shes really like, I dont see what the problem is at all. Why wouldn't people want others knowing
 
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Yes I'm a SEND parent of 2, why wouldn't I suggest trying to get her outed so people can see what shes really like, I dont see what the problem is at all. Why wouldn't people want others knowing
It’s really not that easy. I’m not a SEN/ SEND parent so don’t fully understand what the SEN/SEND community is like.

The thing is, she has a large following, a lot SEN/SEND parents that believe her lies still follow her. If someone outed her publicly on Instagram it would be that person that gets trolled by her followers and then cut out by some the community. I understand they are such a massive support to one another it could be detrimental. Imagine being labelled the one that attacked another SEN parent? Any parents here, please correct me if I am wrong at all.

Even as a non SEN/SEND parent to ‘out’ her, she would set her followers on that person ultimately making their life hell. Again, that label of ‘attacking’ a mother of a child with additional needs would be thrown at them too.

She would manipulate all her followers to believing her.

We really wish it was that easy to ‘out’ her. It will all come crashing down on her soon.

At the moment the best way to let people know what she is really like, is for them to read.

If she were to go on TV again to talk about how hard life is for her, then I would find a a way to let them know what a fraud she is.

To get her where it hurts would be to contact companies she makes ads for. There was an Instagrammer with a large following that was dropped by Disney for his behaviour that many reported to them. 🤷🏻‍♀️
 
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With people like her, they eventually trip themselves up. I'm sure she is being watched, its just a waiting game
 
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No that’s not possible. Motability only allow an application if you have a minimum of 12 months high rate mobility. The application would be denied if you weren’t in receipt of the benefit. IF it was to come out that she had somehow been a privileged case and allowed to apply without a DLA benefit in place then I can tell you there would be absolute uproar within the disabled community.
She did have to give the Family fund car back when he turned 3 and was asking how she could bridge the gap between that ending and a new car starting which again should not of been possible. But she will of literally hounded DLA for the decision over the phone and gone straight into the mercedes dealer and got her ‘in stock’ model which she could of easily collected within a week. She will of absolutely given them sob stories about what would happen if she didn’t have a car. Life or death scenarios are her go to.



If it was that simple we wouldn’t of all waited a year to finally be able to speak out on here as our ONLY outlet.
I know of a few who have spoke out... On their own platforms, not massive accounts, but we'll known in the SEN community and they got publically named and "shamed" for bullying and trolling her. Using the "my son is seriously ill in hopsital and the head is posting that all over her stories" line. To make people feel even sorry for her because she's in hopsital (which she got out 2 days later but she'd said how life threatening it was etc.
The woman who I follow then had to go private for a while, whilst she was staying in a children's hospice because of the vile things kaytee was posting about her. And posting her Instagram name (she pretended it was a mistake and took it down but she'd left it on there for a while so her followers were going over).
Then there's the lady in dubai who got hassle for speaking out.....
There have been a few in the past, kaytee has posted many passive agrressive comments to certain SEN parents that she knows dislikes her. Quoting their words, smiling smugly.... She knows she's untouchable. Not when she uses her son and plays on his disability to her followers... Who majority are... Non SEN families. Who know nothing of the disability world. They see her son and they think "poor kaytee", feel sorry for her... Think she's superwoman for the tit show she lives.
Yet if they follow the proper SEN community (and kaytee hasn't been in that community ever. Yes she may of tried a little at the beginning, but she's never supported others and I don't just mean putting in and sharing others fundraisers... I mean commenting on their things, sharing their posts, asking how they are) the SEN community is a very supportive family. Who majority wise, cannot abide by what she stands for.
Its a hard situation because the community have enough on their plate without speaking out and then getting publically trolled to 61k followers and then have to carry on caring for their child 24/7 who may in some cases have much more medical issues than her own son... Who don't pass their child all over place so they can live the high life in London...
It isn't fair for them to get that level of vicious slating on a big scale. If it was as easy as that, she'd of had a very public calling out already.

It’s really not that easy. I’m not a SEN/ SEND parent so don’t fully understand what the SEN/SEND community is like.

The thing is, she has a large following, a lot SEN/SEND parents that believe her lies still follow her. If someone outed her publicly on Instagram it would be that person that gets trolled by her followers and then cut out by some the community. I understand they are such a massive support to one another it could be detrimental. Imagine being labelled the one that attacked another SEN parent? Any parents here, please correct me if I am wrong at all.

Even as a non SEN/SEND parent to ‘out’ her, she would set her followers on that person ultimately making their life hell. Again, that label of ‘attacking’ a mother of a child with additional needs would be thrown at them too.

She would manipulate all her followers to believing her.

We really wish it was that easy to ‘out’ her. It will all come crashing down on her soon.

At the moment the best way to let people know what she is really like, is for them to read.

If she were to go on TV again to talk about how hard life is for her, then I would find a a way to let them know what a fraud she is.

To get her where it hurts would be to contact companies she makes ads for. There was an Instagrammer with a large following that was dropped by Disney for his behaviour that many reported to them. 🤷🏻‍♀️
There has already been these incidents already, where she has manipulated her followers, twisted these SEN parents words and then using her son as "if you begrudge my child a hot tub and holidays you need help".... On her post... Passive aggressive and aimed at one person who did speak out.
She's also made excuses up regarding why other sen mums can cope (the ones who've publically spoke out) they have live in nanny's and Co parenting.... Whilst she is poor little old fool loving single kaytee so you can't touch me.
 
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Tonight in stories- how’s Jackson? He’s fine other than his feeding tube site is giving him issues but we don’t have the time or resources to sort it? What??? What resources do you need? MAKE TIME? I don’t not take my kid to the doctors with an earache because I don’t have time- I work full time but I take time off, I’m not going to leave him in pain. Makes zero sense.
This has really bothered me too. She is basically saying she is going to do nothing about something that seems very unlikely to get better itself (especially with cats playing with the tube😱). It is essentially neglect to ignore the fact that it is possibly becoming infected, what is she waiting to happen before she will get him help?? This from a nurse who must understand the complications it could lead to. The thought of letting my child suffer unecessarily makes me feel a bit sick but she can seemingly shrug it off because of a lack of time and resources???! How about get off your phone and get it sorted!
 
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This has really bothered me too. She is basically saying she is going to do nothing about something that seems very unlikely to get better itself (especially with cats playing with the tube😱). It is essentially neglect to ignore the fact that it is possibly becoming infected, what is she waiting to happen before she will get him help?? This from a nurse who must understand the complications it could lead to. The thought of letting my child suffer unecessarily makes me feel a bit sick but she can seemingly shrug it off because of a lack of time and resources???! How about get off your phone and get it sorted!
It’s her use of the phrase ‘we don’t have the resources’ this isn’t some bloody project, or assignment it’s a child in need of medical attention. So you can’t walk, drive, phone, email, go to a chemist???? Is she saying he needs something so illusive so precious you simply can’t resolve his needs? Her excuses are pathetic and now also damaging.
 
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Surely if anything was to happen to him after she says she hasn't had the time to sort it (but manages to be posting on insta), she would be completely liable for neglect??
 
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Surely if anything was to happen to him after she says she hasn't had the time to sort it (but manages to be posting on insta), she would be completely liable for neglect??
Add to the fact she openly admitted to spending SEVEN hours editing an #ad the other day
 
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This has really bothered me too. She is basically saying she is going to do nothing about something that seems very unlikely to get better itself (especially with cats playing with the tube😱). It is essentially neglect to ignore the fact that it is possibly becoming infected, what is she waiting to happen before she will get him help?? This from a nurse who must understand the complications it could lead to. The thought of letting my child suffer unecessarily makes me feel a bit sick but she can seemingly shrug it off because of a lack of time and resources???! How about get off your phone and get it sorted!
Everytime there's been some outrage... Some new buy, holiday, "troll" calling her out... She ends up in hospital with her son. Now I'm now saying she's lying about the severity of him being ill for hospital... But it's funny how everytime she knows she'll get people questioning her and beginning to suss.... She ends up in hospital. Wouldn't surprise me if we are gearing up for another hospital visit...
It's neglect. If she was anyone else she would have social services involved. It makes it even worse that she's a "nurse" and she cannot practise those skills to her own son.
 
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I don’t understand her at all/ if my little one had a possible infection not withstanding any additional needs of be getting that sorted before anything else..... none of it makes sense..... is it just so she gets more attention?

There’s a word for it but I can’t remember it....! When you exaggerate things medically? Or maybe not exaggerate as I don’t doubt her little one has disabilities but why is she hiding his achievements
 
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I am pleased this thread has not been removed,I am guessing admin can see the issue we all have is with Kaytee the fraudulent influencer and nobody is here to attack her son in any way at all.
I speak to another SEN mother who also follows Kaytee and I think on 3 occasions we have both messaged each other saying ‘Hospital visit in 2/3 days’ not from him being unwell but directly related to her behaviour,she is incredibly narcissistic and craves attention/adoration and sympathy which she will receive to the max from a hospital bed! I do not dispute his diagnoses but I do question her lies and deceit.
 
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She’s not as active recently. She has definitely been reading here, plotting her next sob story or hospital visit.
 
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