People keep saying shes not a terrible mother or nobody can say she isnt a good mum ... but... shes not the best mum she could be. Look at the whole picture, her privileges make people not want to put her parenting down. If she was a black woman, asian, gypsy, white from a bad postcode area - but still acted the same as she does now, would people still say shes not a terrible mother, would she have everyone thinking shes superwoman? It would be look at that black woman who's letting her kid poke himself in the head with forks and knives. People would be noticing she doesnt do much with him and that everything is about money, to start off with she wouldn't have had as many people donating to her in the first place. She isnt as good of a mum as people think. She left him to go abroad when he only just came out of hospital, you see him playing with the cutlery instead of age appropriate toys, shes wasting his money that he might really need one day, fair enough spend the money but spend it on him too, not just on trainers, holidays and sunroofs. I would like to see her blow 2 grand on sensory equipment, do him a sensory room for a start, get him things for the garden to promote his mobility, imagination and independence. Wastes thousands on a hot tub but why not think about getting him a adapted trike instead? Toys. Wheres his toys? Wheres the family days out to child friendly places like Thomas land etc? Seaside holidays instead of the bloody shard? We see handbags, mercedes, gymwear that costs £200, £700 trainers,designer gear for her but hes in a nasty brown ( too big) jumpsuit. When shes moaning about carers it's often been when shes going out and theyve cancelled. Shes left him in a hospice before to go away. Shes said in the past that she doesnt know how shes supposed to have a social life if she loses carers. That's not what carers are for. She has put him across the net in his worst moments, covered in vomit and tit. That's not for his best interests, that's for her to gain sympathy for her and not him. Shes used him for ads. Advocate for your child but you still protect their privacy, not everything has to be filmed and showed to 60k. Why does she need so much money, she encourages people to engage with her ads, but why is she so obsessed with making a career out of her disabled boy and instagram. Shes already got plenty of money thanks to everyone but wants more and more, she makes a big deal about making memories with him, do that then, she should put her phone down and make memories. Get the play doh out, bake, paint, have a giggle. If it was someone else people would be disgusted she puts her child at risk, which she does repeatedly. Who doesnt listen to their doctors and puts their child on a dangerous feeding programme where he started to look awful within days, just so they can have the convenience of being able to throw a snack at him instead of doing tube feeds, who blows thousands on a hot tub that could cause him to pick up a infection that can be FATAL to him. Why get not 1 but 2 kittens that could lead him to getting ill? Why moan at everyone about lockdown rules but then break them yourself, putting him at risk when hes vulnerable? Why did she not work before a pandemic as a nurse but then chose to start working in pandemic as a nurse knowing she could bring the virus home to him. Why isnt she cleaning everything like other mums are. Why didnt she shield him the same as others did. But then shes telling everyone how they must becareful because of people like jaxson. If it was another mum people would have torn her parenting apart and said shes not as good of a mum as she claims she is. She gives people the impression of being a super mum, look beneath it all. We see what she shares. As soon as her phones off, jaxson could be sitting there with the damn kittens covered in tit whilst shes trying on her latest gifted clothes order or making a new scene in her room to take photos.I've never understood her using continuing care for when she's working.. I know where I'm from it's to be used for the carer to have respite... For example going to bed to sleep, reading a book watch a film, go see your friend for a coffee, go shopping....
However shes used it so she can work... And she's also been out drinking at night when she has the carers.
Now where I live your not allowed to use them for those two reasons. You have to be reachable in case they need you and.. Continuing care isn't always the same carer. In my area there's about 12 of them and they all do shift work so you could have a different one each day some times.
Carers are for you to REST so you can be your best and on your game for when you don't have carers. Not to go out to do a 12 hour shift working...
Or going out on lash where if there was a problem she wouldn't be contactable...
But that's just my experience of it.
In my eyes she uses continuing care as child care. Continuing care isnt childcare. It isn't a sit in nanny. They are trained on tracheostomys, suctioning, seizures, oxygen... (non of the things her son has).
In my eyes she's always abused something others have because they really do need that time to have for themselves not using it as child care.
Think she's also referred to it a few times as childcare.
I don't think she's a terrible mother, I just feel her choices she's made are questionable. In my eyes she puts herself first every single time. She loves that little boy there is not question about that however I firmly feel her situation with her son doesn't tie in with how she'd dreamt it would be. The easyness of bunging a pushchair in back of car, feeding him when off on her holidays (she's already said how easy it would be just being able to buy him some crisps to eat when out and about to feed him.... Think she thinks he can survive on just packets of crisps)
The equipment she does have we hardly ever see her use. Even down to carrying him on her hip rather than be in his wheelchair.
The merc.... There are SEN parents who drive big WAVS wheelchair accessible wheelchairs. Kaytee... Do you think they really want to drive those huge vehicles? Being limited to where you can park, having to onload and offload a wheelchair, clamping it in etc but they do it because they are one greatful they are provided with transport for their child... And two it's safer.. And easier for them. I also don't see many of those drivers pay extra for an all singing all dancing wav... They can afford the basic one.
Again... Its not about her sons needs... But her own. She tried justifying the merc by saying her son absolutely loved the sun roof.
The bleeping sun roof
Nearly every car has one of them kaytee you didn't need to spend your sons fundraising money for that.
It's all about her. She's had a taste of the high life and she wants it. That's her goal. Wether that's through rich boyfriends.... Or her instagram platform. It's not about her son because if it was she'd be acting differently with how that money is spent, the choices she's made and not trying so hard to be the best at everything. Your goal should be the best mother not the best Jack of all trades...
She applied for it, you have to request verification and send off your ID. They look at your account and make a decision. Some famous people will get it automatically but she had to apply. Just the fact that she applied for a blue tick shows you she just wanted to be insta famousI’m not sure how you get a blue tickbut it can’t be because of the amount of followers
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