Thenursemum

[Tomtom2020]

@YomAsal “just a vehicle for sympathy and attention”. This should be in the next thread title

"Disability Mercedes? Its just a vehicle for sympathy and attention"
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Go back and read the post of her justifying the merc, a whole load of bull.

If she was honestly worried about what people thought she wouldn’t have posted THAT photo, with THAT pose, showing off THOSE shoes.

 

[YomAsal]

Go back and read the post of her justifying the merc, a whole load of bull.

I don't think I could bear to read all that rit again!

 

[Tomtom2020]

if we are already on next thread title suggestions let me throw one in

“don’t be fooled by the merc that ive got, I’m still kaytee, I need funds in my pot ”

 

[OutrageouslyScarlet]

I honestly do not understand her, she’s not a terrible mother. I was just looking at some of her highlights where she was saying when J gets a bug it’s super serious (obviously) I know it’s hard her life is slightly on hold career wise but what possessed her to go back into nursing with such a vulnerable child. Risky enough without a pandemic.

 

[Oneofthesencommunity]

Whatever happened to her Masters she was going to do? She even put it in her bio for a short amount of time

'Ya girl got accepted to do a masters in health psychology' just been flicking through her grid posts and seen it back in April. She wrote about the lack of psychological support for parents so hoped if she couldn't find the help she would become the help. She wrote she still wanted to try to be a nurse but was looking at opening other doors. In other words another idea to scrap off the current idea, like the botox/filler tit she trained to do and never mentions now.

Superwoman to the rescue again, we are so lucky in the sen community to have her wanting to be our psychological support. I feel relief she will be sorting it for us and becoming the help we all need

If I was her mate who's quit her job to do childcare for j I would be worried as duck. Shes doing 2 days a week at the min nursing, how long before she quits that and decides on a new plan?

Why on earth does she want to spray paint her little ones walking frame black? I would have thought a bright colour would be better and more fun for a kid! What do I know

She probably doesnt want to spray it but she knows she needs to encourage engagement to attract businesses to do her ads, so adding a question on to the end of a post asking for suggestions/opinions will ensure she gets some fools commenting. Even though they have seen her stories about not wanting people to dm with suggestions, she does want people commenting on posts and people are stupid enough not to twig she doesnt really give a tit what they think about spraying his walker. She will reply a brief friendly response to the first few, some people get really invested in people they follow so if they see her commenting back they're more likely to comment too in the hope that she replys to them plus this is Kaytee, would she really do a DIY job on it? I doubt it, she would splash the cash on a new one in the colour she wants

 

[TwinkleTwinkle21]

'Ya girl got accepted to do a masters in health psychology' just been flicking through her grid posts and seen it back in April. She wrote about the lack of psychological support for parents so hoped if she couldn't find the help she would become the help. She wrote she still wanted to try to be a nurse but was looking at opening other doors. In other words another idea to scrap off the current idea, like the botox/filler tit she trained to do and never mentions now.

Superwoman to the rescue again, we are so lucky in the sen community to have her wanting to be our psychological support. I feel relief she will be sorting it for us and becoming the help we all need

If I was her mate who's quit her job to do childcare for j I would be worried as duck. Shes doing 2 days a week at the min nursing, how long before she quits that and decides on a new plan?

I never know what to believe with her. I wouldn’t put it past her that she was lying about her friend quitting her job to be J’s carer so she could justify going on a trip to London with her so she could say she was in the ‘childcare bubble’. Surely if he is at nursery and then you have your friend giving him the care hours you wouldn’t STILL be fighting for carers, knowing your friend has quit her job and got ofsted registered?

 

[Oneofthesencommunity]

Could you imagine if she went to a haven or butlins site...
Storying throughout her stay, grumbling about it, picking at things like she did the camping trip that I thought was down right awful. Fair enough if its not your type of holiday but to pull it to pieces and book it in first place what was she expecting a 5* teepee with Central heating, a fluffy dressing gown and room service? Think she was pissed it didn't come with free shower gel for her to take home.
Then has the money to just book the Hilton hotel just like that this is a mum saying she's living in poverty whose booked a camping holiday then a few nights at the hilton... Where as others would have to grin and bare the camping trip.
Stuff like that is beneath her ladyship.

If you followed her from the start you would have seen Js first ever holiday was to the Ritz Carlton in Tenerife who paid for that? Her so called abusive rich ex who was that horrible he trained to do Js feeds in time for the holiday so he could let her rest. Kaytee it from a low income fam, her upbringing would have been caravans and butlins. Shes obviously developed expensive tastes now shes older and worked out she can live well by freeloading off others

I never know what to believe with her. I wouldn’t put it past her that she was lying about her friend quitting her job to be J’s carer so she could justify going on a trip to London with her so she could say she was in the ‘childcare bubble’. Surely if he is at nursery and then you have your friend giving him the care hours you wouldn’t STILL be fighting for carers, knowing your friend has quit her job and got ofsted registered?

Very true, she said she had researched the rules as she booked it weeks before, so maybe they were looking for a loophole to use. She slipped up too, she said it was booked as a treat for her friend - that's a total abuse of the childcare bubble rules. It's supposed to be for childcare not treats. It doesnt mean you can form a childcare bubble with your bestie so that you can use it as a excuse to go away for the weekend for a treat and also drop your kid off at his dads so hes not even there needing childcare whilst you go around looking pissed on a boris bike at midnight

 

[AreYouJoking?]

The comments on whether his Walker should be black or green . I have NEVER seen anyone paint a piece of equipment. Mostly because it’s usually been provided by the nhs and your obliged to keep it in good/original condition but also because you just don’t! Anyone I know who has bought privately has still just kept it as it is. You don’t mess with something that’s made to a safety standard. It’s a piss take to even suggest it. It’s not an accessory as some are saying or a fashion item it’s a walking aid, for a disabled child, the same child she uses to make money off. And if she wanted black so badly she should of bought a black one months ago and not waited until she was given a green one for free. She hates all his equipment (except his penitentiary bed) his pram is gifted and not special needs and she doesn’t even need to strap him in fully just with the waist strap you know cos that’s safe! (she hated the one that was provided) she moans about it ‘all’ taking over her kitchen even though he has so little equipment compared to other disabled children his age.

 

[Oneofthesencommunity]

The comments on whether his Walker should be black or green . I have NEVER seen anyone paint a piece of equipment. Mostly because it’s usually been provided by the nhs and your obliged to keep it in good/original condition but also because you just don’t! Anyone I know who has bought privately has still just kept it as it is. You don’t mess with something that’s made to a safety standard. It’s a piss take to even suggest it. It’s not an accessory as some are saying or a fashion item it’s a walking aid, for a disabled child, the same child she uses to make money off. And if she wanted black so badly she should of bought a black one months ago and not waited until she was given a green one for free. She hates all his equipment (except his penitentiary bed) his pram is gifted and not special needs and she doesn’t even need to strap him in fully just with the waist strap you know cos that’s safe! (she hated the one that was provided) she moans about it ‘all’ taking over her kitchen even though he has so little equipment compared to other disabled children his age.

Shes full of tit. Shes got no intention of spraying it, just begging comments. She even did the post about why she chose a mercedes and said she had to choose the Merc SUV because his mobility pram wouldn't fit in the other yet shes using a normal pram? She should be greatful he has the equipment he has in the kitchen, how else will he play with his fave things if he hasnt got his chair in there. You know, the knife drawer that he likes to go through whilst she films him laughing for the gram. I dont get why she waits for equipment to be gifted ie his Walker and pram but spends extra on getting a sunroof in the merc, apparently for Js benefit. Theres other things she could spend cash on that would actually benefit him

 

[TwinkleTwinkle21]

If you followed her from the start you would have seen Js first ever holiday was to the Ritz Carlton in Tenerife who paid for that? Her so called abusive rich ex who was that horrible he trained to do Js feeds in time for the holiday so he could let her rest. Kaytee it from a low income fam, her upbringing would have been caravans and butlins. Shes obviously developed expensive tastes now shes older and worked out she can live well by freeloading off others



Very true, she said she had researched the rules as she booked it weeks before, so maybe they were looking for a loophole to use. She slipped up too, she said it was booked as a treat for her friend - that's a total abuse of the childcare bubble rules. It's supposed to be for childcare not treats. It doesnt mean you can form a childcare bubble with your bestie so that you can use it as a excuse to go away for the weekend for a treat and also drop your kid off at his dads so hes not even there needing childcare whilst you go around looking pissed on a boris bike at midnight

I completely forgot about that! She did say she was taking her friend away didn’t she, before whoever was having J had let her down, so they all went together. Next minute, she’s in the childcare bubble How did I guess she would be lying

 

[LividLalji]

Felt sorry for the guy she was on the date with when she was bragging she was ordering expensive drinks like it was her having to pay when she wasn't. Probably ran a mile wondering how he ended up on a date with a chavvy gold digger because I bet her real accent comes out after a few too many. I bet she sat there saying 'babe I'll take some photos for the gram in case we get a free pudding' She will be the type to ask how much their salary is on the first date and if they own or rent.

I reckon shes one of these that fills her handbag up with toiletries in every hotel she goes. Probably walks out of costa with sugar sachets falling out her pockets. Freebies are freebies, babe

it’s funny you should say that because when she was at the hotel last week or the week before she was asking on the stories if she should take the full sized one and even PHONED RECEPTION to ask if she’s allowed and they said no they refill them. Ffs

 

[Oneofthesencommunity]

I completely forgot about that! She did say she was taking her friend away didn’t she, before whoever was having J had let her down, so they all went together. Next minute, she’s in the childcare bubble How did I guess she would be lying

Jesus christ it's like a unravelling web of lies when you start thinking about different crap. Looking back it all looks so obvious too that she was just blagging so they got their weekend away without her looking bad after all the preaching shes done about covid restrictions. Can actually imagine her sitting there reading the rules on gov.uk calling her mate up saying she has a plan what a gob though, shes got a big platform and shes preaching covid rules to people, reminding people that people like her son are vulnerable then lying her a off so she can go for her treat with her bestie. These people listen to her - shes the sen advocate remember so must know her stuff - I wonder how many have followed her example, risking others when shes preached about people breaking rules. J wasnt with them the whole time they was there, so they still managed to get him looked after at least part of the break, his dad or that side of the family must have stepped in and had him for them

it’s funny you should say that because when she was at the hotel last week or the week before she was asking on the stories if she should take the full sized one and even PHONED RECEPTION to ask if she’s allowed and they said no they refill them. Ffs

She phoned reception? What? I'm done! I dont want to say the word that comes to mind but I cant help it. Tramp sorry. I said it

 

[Noseybugger109]

Jesus christ it's like a unravelling web of lies when you start thinking about different crap. Looking back it all looks so obvious too that she was just blagging so they got their weekend away without her looking bad after all the preaching shes done about covid restrictions. Can actually imagine her sitting there reading the rules on gov.uk calling her mate up saying she has a plan what a gob though, shes got a big platform and shes preaching covid rules to people, reminding people that people like her son are vulnerable then lying her a off so she can go for her treat with her bestie. These people listen to her - shes the sen advocate remember so must know her stuff - I wonder how many have followed her example, risking others when shes preached about people breaking rules. J wasnt with them the whole time they was there, so they still managed to get him looked after at least part of the break, his dad or that side of the family must have stepped in and had him for them



She phoned reception? What? I'm done! I dont want to say the word that comes to mind but I cant help it. Tramp sorry. I said it

I just read lividlaji's comment about calling reception and tramp slipped out of my mouth out loud, then read your comment why would anyone call reception like that. In a posh hotel too. The shame of it the staff would have been talking about her I bet

it’s funny you should say that because when she was at the hotel last week or the week before she was asking on the stories if she should take the full sized one and even PHONED RECEPTION to ask if she’s allowed and they said no they refill them. Ffs

Wow how can people embarrass themselves like that. Legit trampy cheapskate embarrassing behaviour in its finest. But she then tells 61,000 people too? Who calls up and asks if they can take the toiletries especially in a posh hotel. Ffs

I never know what to believe with her. I wouldn’t put it past her that she was lying about her friend quitting her job to be J’s carer so she could justify going on a trip to London with her so she could say she was in the ‘childcare bubble’. Surely if he is at nursery and then you have your friend giving him the care hours you wouldn’t STILL be fighting for carers, knowing your friend has quit her job and got ofsted registered?

Continuing care said they needed more evidence didnt they. Was the weekend away before the decision came through? Because if it was I bet that's what made their mind up. Bet shes kicking herself now that she used the childcare bubble/best friend becoming his carer excuse just for a weekend away

 

[Mumof3]

There are countless cars on the Motability scheme that can fit large pushchairs, wheelchairs etc, it doesn’t need to be a Mercedes. I’m don’t want to be rude, but that’s all for show. So many people fight for what little they have and feel they have to justify it because of the impression that people like Kaytee give.

 

[Spyglass]

I've never understood her using continuing care for when she's working.. I know where I'm from it's to be used for the carer to have respite... For example going to bed to sleep, reading a book watch a film, go see your friend for a coffee, go shopping....
However shes used it so she can work... And she's also been out drinking at night when she has the carers.
Now where I live your not allowed to use them for those two reasons. You have to be reachable in case they need you and.. Continuing care isn't always the same carer. In my area there's about 12 of them and they all do shift work so you could have a different one each day some times.
Carers are for you to REST so you can be your best and on your game for when you don't have carers. Not to go out to do a 12 hour shift working...
Or going out on lash where if there was a problem she wouldn't be contactable...
But that's just my experience of it.
In my eyes she uses continuing care as child care. Continuing care isnt childcare. It isn't a sit in nanny. They are trained on tracheostomys, suctioning, seizures, oxygen... (non of the things her son has).
In my eyes she's always abused something others have because they really do need that time to have for themselves not using it as child care.
Think she's also referred to it a few times as childcare.

I don't think she's a terrible mother, I just feel her choices she's made are questionable. In my eyes she puts herself first every single time. She loves that little boy there is not question about that however I firmly feel her situation with her son doesn't tie in with how she'd dreamt it would be. The easyness of bunging a pushchair in back of car, feeding him when off on her holidays (she's already said how easy it would be just being able to buy him some crisps to eat when out and about to feed him.... Think she thinks he can survive on just packets of crisps )
The equipment she does have we hardly ever see her use. Even down to carrying him on her hip rather than be in his wheelchair.

The merc.... There are SEN parents who drive big WAVS wheelchair accessible wheelchairs. Kaytee... Do you think they really want to drive those huge vehicles? Being limited to where you can park, having to onload and offload a wheelchair, clamping it in etc but they do it because they are one greatful they are provided with transport for their child... And two it's safer.. And easier for them. I also don't see many of those drivers pay extra for an all singing all dancing wav... They can afford the basic one.
Again... Its not about her sons needs... But her own. She tried justifying the merc by saying her son absolutely loved the sun roof.
The bleeping sun roof
Nearly every car has one of them kaytee you didn't need to spend your sons fundraising money for that.

It's all about her. She's had a taste of the high life and she wants it. That's her goal. Wether that's through rich boyfriends.... Or her instagram platform. It's not about her son because if it was she'd be acting differently with how that money is spent, the choices she's made and not trying so hard to be the best at everything. Your goal should be the best mother not the best Jack of all trades...

 

[TwinkleTwinkle21]

I've never understood her using continuing care for when she's working.. I know where I'm from it's to be used for the carer to have respite... For example going to bed to sleep, reading a book watch a film, go see your friend for a coffee, go shopping....
However shes used it so she can work... And she's also been out drinking at night when she has the carers.
Now where I live your not allowed to use them for those two reasons. You have to be reachable in case they need you and.. Continuing care isn't always the same carer. In my area there's about 12 of them and they all do shift work so you could have a different one each day some times.
Carers are for you to REST so you can be your best and on your game for when you don't have carers. Not to go out to do a 12 hour shift working...
Or going out on lash where if there was a problem she wouldn't be contactable...
But that's just my experience of it.
In my eyes she uses continuing care as child care. Continuing care isnt childcare. It isn't a sit in nanny. They are trained on tracheostomys, suctioning, seizures, oxygen... (non of the things her son has).
In my eyes she's always abused something others have because they really do need that time to have for themselves not using it as child care.
Think she's also referred to it a few times as childcare.

I remember when she first started as thenursemum on Instagram when she didn’t have this many followers, when she would slate the carers she had, to the point the carers refused to go to her. She has used a number of agencies but because of her blabbing on social media they always found out and she had to use someone else.

I remember a carer once put a claim in saying her and her boyfriend came back drunk one night and were arguing, and she made out the carer was lying as she very rarely even drinks and goes out twice a year max because she’s always SO tired from looking after J.

Like you say, she sees them as a nanny as opposed to giving her respite which is what the hours are for.

 

[barrrlohflaughs]

Has she always had a blue tick?!

 

[Spyglass]

I remember when she first started as thenursemum on Instagram when she didn’t have this many followers, when she would slate the carers she had, to the point the carers refused to go to her. She has used a number of agencies but because of her blabbing on social media they always found out and she had to use someone else.

I remember a carer once put a claim in saying her and her boyfriend came back drunk one night and were arguing, and she made out the carer was lying as she very rarely even drinks and goes out twice a year max because she’s always SO tired from looking after J.

Like you say, she sees them as a nanny as opposed to giving her respite which is what the hours are for.

I remember this! The way she slates everyone in her sons care is down right unacceptable. All over social media, yet when it comes to her being asked genuine questions put to her by followers she responds aggressively or blocks you. Or takes to her stories ranting and raving and being the troll she is.
Why would a carer lie about something like that. You don't need to be a carer either to see just how much she abuses the care she has. She openly posts the majority of her life for all to see and then throws a tantrum when people question her. They see the inconsistencies. The lies. The fraud.

Now we all know professionals do follow you on social media. They do have a little look not because they are nosey or feel there's a risk factor the child (I know in some cases this is true) but I'm sure the carers she formed friendships with right at the start would follow because they adore her son. There's only so much bull they can see though without reporting back. Without informing higher up professionals involved. Without using her social media as evidence against her.
She knows this. She isn't stupid. So common sense would be you don't slate anyone involved in your sons care... But she's gangsta kaytee isn't she.
The rant and raving she did when she couldn't go into the hospital when her son was in this year (her dad ended up with him for a week because apparently she wasn't allowed in)
She works in a hospital, she would know of covid restrictions. She constantly tells people they need to be following rules regarding covid... Yet she feels its acceptable to waltz in now and again to the hospital, leaving her son with carers in there, whilst she's making ads, showing off her parcels, having a glass of wine in the hot tub and getting pissed on a golf course with a random man. Then comes home pissed on stories whilst she's bikini clad, full on slap and going on about handbags
All whilst her son is ill in hospital with his father. Her slating the NHS for not allowing her to waltz in and out when she pleases. Because she feels she should have special treatment. Don't you know who she is?
And whne she did eventually get back in the hospital she exploited her son! Used him to sell them over priced scales she left in a hotel room her sons weight always goes up when in hospital. And always comes down when he's out.

Imagine slating the people in her sons care to 60k followers and having to see them on a regular basis. I personally think the people involved in his care know more than we think. They'll all think she's the twit we see and have to put up with her. I can just see her now telling another nurse how to do their job.

Has she always had a blue tick?!
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Shes had it for a while now, infact I think it came on after she appeared on This Morning and the radio shows etc and the first fundraiser happened.

 

[sid&nancy123]

Has she always had a blue tick?!
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I’m not sure how you get a blue tick but it can’t be because of the amount of followers

 

[Villanelle]

I’m so glad she’s finally being discussed, I was shot down a couple of times about a year ago trying to raise concerns about her fundraising against her lifestyle. I think back then she hadn’t started on the ads yet but she was still spending like she is now so I’m sure she’s been frittering these funds away