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If I was in hospital with my child I would whole heartedly prefer for Boris Johnson coming round shaking hands with everyone for a press clip than her coming round spreading “joy” to the children whilst asking for consent to post to the gram.

taking bets now, will she be reppin’ the Valentino’s with the Peppa pig costume?
 
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Should she even have had a pt session this morning with England being in lockdown. And as for she "just can't" at 3am maybe she should be seeking help for herself and not J - it seems more and more that it is her that can't cope with his needs and is constantly biting of more than she can chew.
 
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Felt sorry for the guy she was on the date with when she was bragging she was ordering expensive drinks like it was her having to pay when she wasn't. Probably ran a mile wondering how he ended up on a date with a chavvy gold digger because I bet her real accent comes out after a few too many. I bet she sat there saying 'babe I'll take some photos for the gram in case we get a free pudding' She will be the type to ask how much their salary is on the first date and if they own or rent.

I reckon shes one of these that fills her handbag up with toiletries in every hotel she goes. Probably walks out of costa with sugar sachets falling out her pockets. Freebies are freebies, babe
🤣 she already said she takes all the toiletries because the most recent stay had full sized ones and she was questioning on insta if she could still take them!!

her most recent poll is purely for engagement, the fact she even put “do not DM me your reasons” proves that. She is so rude, I don’t know howher other followers don’t see it
 
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If I was in hospital with my child I would whole heartedly prefer for Boris Johnson coming round shaking hands with everyone for a press clip than her coming round spreading “joy” to the children whilst asking for consent to post to the gram.

taking bets now, will she be reppin’ the Valentino’s with the Peppa pig costume?
I reckon it will be the river island boots because they will have asked for a certain amount of pics and shes got a affiliated link on them to earn some Pennies 😂
 
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Ok ok me again.. her most recent story, is she for real?!?!
She’s shared a story from someone else moaning about people sending DMs with suggestions with laughing faces. That’s a pure insult to all those who try to help her with suggestions. The same as my post the other day, anything you suggest she doesn’t wanna hear because top nurse Kaytee knows best.

I forever hope J**** gets the care he needs whether it’s her or carers, and continues to make progress. But I can’t wait for the day she comes crashing back down to Earth with this “influencer” lifestyle and the companies paying her for ads and her followers she her true colours.
Sorry but her recent post has just pissed me right off
 
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Should she even have had a pt session this morning with England being in lockdown. And as for she "just can't" at 3am maybe she should be seeking help for herself and not J - it seems more and more that it is her that can't cope with his needs and is constantly biting of more than she can chew.
She should be able to cope with his needs. A child having between 10 and 11 hours of physical sleep time at night is good. All those notifications she shows are most likely just Js legs, arms or blanket moving during sleep, not him being awake needing care. I have the same monitor for my daughter, she purposely cuts the top line off which breakdowns the stats showing how many times hes been asleep and properly awake but forgets occasionally. Why hide it each time if she thinks it's so bad. She will have time to sit and tell everyone in numerous stories that continuing care want her to get evidence quickly but she hasnt got the time. If she just did one story or none at all, she could use that time to sort her admin for carers. There is no evidence to submit because she knows she hasnt got any evidence to back up her case but it's better for her to play the I'm so busy card, to hide that she cant submit anything
 
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I forever hope J**** gets the care he needs whether it’s her or carers, and continues to make progress. But I can’t wait for the day she comes crashing back down to Earth with this “influencer” lifestyle and the companies paying her for ads and her followers she her true colours.
Sorry but her recent post has just pissed me right off
And she will have alienated a lot of the people around her. If her son started at my daughter's school I wouldn't want to be her friend. If I needed a job I wouldn't want to be J's carer having seen how she slags them off on insta. If I was a social worker I would find it hard to believe she needed any social care support when she has the time, money and energy to be galavanting round London on a Boris bike or taking a million selfies staged in her hallway each day.
 
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🤣 she already said she takes all the toiletries because the most recent stay had full sized ones and she was questioning on insta if she could still take them!!

her most recent poll is purely for engagement, the fact she even put “do not DM me your reasons” proves that. She is so rude, I don’t know howher other followers don’t see it
I saw how shes told people not to DM her. She just needs the engagement stats, you know 'save, share, like, click on hashtags, comment on my grid posts, fill in story polls ...but dont DM me with your tit because companies dont look at DM stats plus I'm way to busy preparing my next lot of stories where I'm moaning I'm busy again, also I dont want to have conversations you little people but thanks for engaging with my things, you help feed my disabled child & pay for my next pair of valentinos'
 
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A lot of us tried to help her in the early days. She would ask for advice and we would give it, only to be told - basically- "no not that like that". She had an answer for everything and a reason she was the worst off special needs parent in whatever way. In the end I realised it wasn't actually advice she wanted, and she definitely didn't want it from those of us who have been there, it was just a vehicle for sympathy and attention.
 
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She posted this morning, Jaxon at school, having a cup of tea before her PT session...and this is her not having the time to collect evidence/sort things/think? I'm sorry? Must be nice!
 
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Her son is in full time nursery so I don't think she gets 60 hours? That doesn't make sense.
She 100% does! She has 4 overnight carers and I have definitely seen 60 hours per week on her stories several times! x

Remember the scales she was doing #ads for? Using her sons weight issues to promote them.

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The most offensive was the ad for f’ing expensive hand sanitiser at the beginning of lockdown when it had sold out in every single shop in the country!
 
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I also think there was something dodgy about that 'feeding course' she put the baby on? Apparently Spent 10 grand of donations on it but quit it and said it was too much for him and it made him ill. But now you see him eating solids occasionally in her story?
I had a quote for the same feeding school she used, the fee is the same per child and not quoted on a individual basis, it's less than £5000 including the initial assessment they do to see if they will accept the child. There is a more expensive package where you fly out and stay at the feeding school but that is less than £9000, kaytee said at the time Jaxon didnt meet the criteria for this.

A lot of us tried to help her in the early days. She would ask for advice and we would give it, only to be told - basically- "no not that like that". She had an answer for everything and a reason she was the worst off special needs parent in whatever way. In the end I realised it wasn't actually advice she wanted, and she definitely didn't want it from those of us who have been there, it was just a vehicle for sympathy and attention.
100% correct. She would put her issue out asking of anyone could explain or help with something then in DMs she wouldn't be bothered with whatever it was you told her, then she would do stories saying she still needed to know what to do, 100s must have been in her DMs telling her. She only had a small amount of followers back then and lots of people were saying she didnt actually need help she just wanted to moan so she got more attention off those who dont understand the things we face.

The whole chair not being funded issue, she was told to chill and not panic over it because it would be funded. Some sen parents were ignored when they were telling her it would be ok, messages left on seen but no reply, but then she would be back on stories telling everyone she needed to raise money for it. If your not a sen family and know how things work, your going to look at it with shock that things like that would happen.

She distanced herself from the sen community herself not the other way around. Sen parents become experts in the system, they tried helping, she didnt want that help. She just wanted help off those who dont know what to do and think shes being treated badly. How many sen families does she follow on instagram? She used to follow and talk to lots of us, then along come fundraisers and sob stories so she unfollowed and even blocked some, especially us parents with tubie kids in similar shoes (but not valentinos) as her
 
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The other day when she was begging for a free hotel, wasn’t her reasoning that she had to go to GOSH today for J’s Covid test before his appointment on Thursday? Now she’s saying she’s going tomorrow? All these lies for a free hotel stay? Wow!!

And this... She had the fundraiser money to play around with before the ads started. After discovering this thread I just see through the lies and deceit straight away.
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I'm sorry but the woman is actually in a lot better off position than most of us SEN parents.
Children who are much more medically complex, physically more limited than her son. Who have no carers... Who do it all on their own. Who have children who haven't been going to school since March because of covid.

Washing everything that comes in and out of the house. Lifting and doing a heck of a lot more than looking after a peg site and giving medications.
Those families... Never moan. They never do the woe me story. They do it all on their own and you see them actually doing things with their child.

This woman never does anything other than film her son playing on her own or watching the TV.... And never has him.
Yet she has the nerve to make out she's exhausted and doing it all on her own?!
Try following some of the families I know who do not have carers who do have it a lot harder love, who never moan, who don't have th emoney to be jetting off round the world. Who don't have time to have a PT session or get their lips pumped or brows done.

Then she has the audacity to then get on people's cases when they don't follow rules 😂 (they should be following rules) but when it comes from someone who chooses going on a date in London over the safety of her child then I'm sorry but you have no room to talk. You cannot book hotels, see your best friend and start working in a hospital when your vulnerable son is at home.

Not when there's SEN parents who haven't had any respite since this pandemic started. She disgusts me. This isn't because I'm jealous or bitter it's because that woman casts a shadow over every SEN Parent who deserves to be heard. To be shown their lives. Already a few have said her actions make them not want to put into a fundraiser... There are families out there that need peoples help. Actually need that help now and again. Who hate having to ask for help.
That woman who ironically thinks she helps the SEN community.. Is actually making it worse for us.

For those who absolutely love our children and their abilities. Who never make out it's worse or harder than it is. Who are that greatful we have the NHS, who fund the basics, who give our children surgeries that keep them here..... That woman needs to start being more greatful for the son she has, the things she has.
 
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She has bought her son a few books but it’s only down to the ad work she can afford them.

maybe she needs to look at her priorities if she can’t afford a few books. Funnily enough she always has new stuff and holidays?

Everything is just lies and then some more lies.
 
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Gotta germs that Merc steering wheel in!

ETA: She couldn’t afford to get him books but could afford to take him abroad?
 
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She has bought her son a few books but it’s only down to the ad work she can afford them.

maybe she needs to look at her priorities if she can’t afford a few books. Funnily enough she always has new stuff and holidays?

Everything is just lies and then some more lies.
Exactly this. Priorities. Try wearing cheaper clothes kaytee and wearing primark like we all do and a caravan holiday and you'll have enough to buy some books.
 
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the other day she did a story saying how grateful she is to her followers as she now has a roof over her head, a job, a car etc
None of which are down to followers, nothing but a sob story to get people to engage and click on her ads!
I do hope more people stumble across this thread to see the true nature of what she is doing.

Exactly this. Priorities. Try wearing cheaper clothes kaytee and wearing primark like we all do and a caravan holiday and you'll have enough to buy some books.
Also what toddler wants to go to Dubai. Out of everywhere in the world?

take him to Thomas land, butlins, Disney land.

bloody DUBAI.
 
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She has bought her son a few books but it’s only down to the ad work she can afford them.

maybe she needs to look at her priorities if she can’t afford a few books. Funnily enough she always has new stuff and holidays?

Everything is just lies and then some more lies.
This! Imagine prioritising designer items instead of basics for your child. Books aren’t that expensive and there’s always deals on. The whole pleading poverty is just bull🙄
 
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Could you imagine if she went to a haven or butlins site...
Storying throughout her stay, grumbling about it, picking at things like she did the camping trip that I thought was down right awful. Fair enough if its not your type of holiday but to pull it to pieces and book it in first place 😂 what was she expecting a 5* teepee with Central heating, a fluffy dressing gown and room service? Think she was pissed it didn't come with free shower gel for her to take home.
Then has the money to just book the Hilton hotel just like that😂 this is a mum saying she's living in poverty whose booked a camping holiday then a few nights at the hilton... Where as others would have to grin and bare the camping trip.
Stuff like that is beneath her ladyship.
 
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