His needs were quite obviously neglected by her, it’s heartbreaking that no one intervened as I do believe this could of been prevented if someone had. If he was a child with no complex medical needs and she was refusing to feed him because it didn’t fit in with her time then it would be neglect, if you don’t take you child to her medical help when needed because it doesn’t fit in with your time it is neglect. His death could of been prevented, but she failed him, that sounds harsh and honestly I feel like an absolute bitch saying it, but it’s clear to see. If I stopped giving my son his insulin and testing his blood sugar, he would die and that would be my fault, it would be on me, as his mother I make sure he has that medicine and we follow the steps we do to ensure his levels stay good and he stays healthy. It doesn’t stop when he goes to bed, I have to be up in the night multiple times to check his blood sugars. He was an innocent child with no way of voicing how he was feeling, if he was hungry or felt ill and she took advantage of that and completely failed him in doing so. He deserved more and it breaks my heart that he had to pay the ultimate price due to her lack of care and parenting
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HoGi
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She final got the referal for the call with GOSH gastro team and then was disappointed as the letter they sent back to the specialists at Nottingham didn't say exactly what she wanted and didn't recommend additional treatments that the specialists had already deemed unnesscary
She always thought she knew better than the people with years of training and experience
She always thought she knew better than the people with years of training and experience
Giselle
Chatty Member
I don’t think she can be a nurse again - she was sacked from her last job.
n8459
Chatty Member
Especially when she’s swanning about in a subsidised Merc she can hardly drive, flashing her £700 trainers and extravagant hotel stays
EyeBallPaul
New member
Devon doesn't want PTWM, what makes you think we want Kathy too?
It always annoyed me that she didnt take him to Disney or something. He was so bright and happy all the time imagine his little face at disney 
. And disney is just the top of a long list of places he would have loved. But she definitely could afford Disney! Dubai would not have been my first choice. Wasnt there drama surrounding that holiday as well? Think the person who paid for that holiday came out with a few truths after the holiday....cant remember exact details!
. And disney is just the top of a long list of places he would have loved. But she definitely could afford Disney! Dubai would not have been my first choice. Wasnt there drama surrounding that holiday as well? Think the person who paid for that holiday came out with a few truths after the holiday....cant remember exact details!Sendparent
Chatty Member
I think she will continue trying to make out J's spirit is connected with that house, her sheep will be more than eager to raise the cash for it because J is there. If she comes back and starts doing more and more stories about things happening at the house, her followers will encourage it and agree she needs to have that house forever. Its sick if that's what her intentions are. She has reminded everyone in today's post that she needs to buy this house.
Alansbigplate
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I’m not suggesting I disbelieve any of what you said but I don’t think your Twitter account could be 20 years old
The thing is with kaytee, she is very good with words, and possibly the worst Narcissist I have EVER come across!! She was literally starving her child to near death and yet people would be absolutely raving about her doing to feeding programme because for a long time she used to make out J was doing amazing (even though clearly not with dramatic weight loss) because he’d lick some frazzles.
my point being, she gets away with anything because she’s a liar and she’s good at it. She knows what she’s doing. She knows what to say to get her own way, however this didn’t work for the continuing carers situation (the people who assessed J) and she hated it! I really believe they are the ones who saw straight through her
my point being, she gets away with anything because she’s a liar and she’s good at it. She knows what she’s doing. She knows what to say to get her own way, however this didn’t work for the continuing carers situation (the people who assessed J) and she hated it! I really believe they are the ones who saw straight through her
Sendparent
Chatty Member
This thread had 9k views before she launched her souvenir shop, 30k have now viewed it. I hope some of those 30k send a clear message and unfollow. They can still see everything as her account is public but stats mean alot to her and it might make her ask herself some questions. They can also use a website that let's you view peoples stories anonymously without using instagram
Yes that one, I didn't know if I should ask on here because I wasnt sure. It took my breath away when I saw it, that's not how people should remember him by.I know which photo you mean it’s in black and white and it’s like she’s kissing him goodbye. His eyes are shut and his face is too relaxed.
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This is what I don’t understand, many parents use homemade puréed food for weaning without making a big song and dance about it. Imagine if a parent just decided actually do you know what, I can’t be bothered to cook you actual food, even though it benefits you, you can just have formula or breast milk, that would be neglect
Abettermumma
Active member
“Please don’t DM me I don’t get to see them all..”
Sees every single deluded DM about people apparently seeing her child.
personalmy if someone said they dreamt about my child I’d probably be a little concerned..
Sees every single deluded DM about people apparently seeing her child.
personalmy if someone said they dreamt about my child I’d probably be a little concerned..
Blockedbyadmin
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I don’t think she can come home because she feels guilty. Not sure why but it suggests to me she can’t bare to be there so she’s avoiding it and the whole situation.
How long does a child death enquiry take? Why would you be abroad during that (depending time line there obvs)
she’s lost her son and off living her best life and pretending she’s still so upset but she’s now not got J holding her back which is always how I perceived her behaviour and moaning. Harsh but just what I think.
Surely all the bed andeverything, all the equipment and stuff should be going back to the companies etc so whose doing that? She’s just given up her responsibilities and fucked off on holiday.
she’s not right in the head and never was. I’ve said it before but I believe she has that MBP disorder or whatever the new term is now. Using her sons death now to make people make her feel better. She’s thriving off it. It’s sick
she’ll also be reaching on here and LOVING that she’s being talked about. She craves the attention from strangers
How long does a child death enquiry take? Why would you be abroad during that (depending time line there obvs)
she’s lost her son and off living her best life and pretending she’s still so upset but she’s now not got J holding her back which is always how I perceived her behaviour and moaning. Harsh but just what I think.
Surely all the bed andeverything, all the equipment and stuff should be going back to the companies etc so whose doing that? She’s just given up her responsibilities and fucked off on holiday.
she’s not right in the head and never was. I’ve said it before but I believe she has that MBP disorder or whatever the new term is now. Using her sons death now to make people make her feel better. She’s thriving off it. It’s sick
she’ll also be reaching on here and LOVING that she’s being talked about. She craves the attention from strangers
Basicbasic
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Nice to see she had the time, energy, patience and inclination to go holiday shopping for new clothes straight after the funeral. Wow.
longtimelurker86
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She clearly has never watched the Lion King cos Mufassa taught us that life lesson.
AreYouJoking?
Well-known member
@Sendparent
It’s way too soon but…..thread title
‘Wake up and smell the Valentino, this ‘Grief Brand’ shouldn’t even be legal’.
It’s way too soon but…..thread title
‘Wake up and smell the Valentino, this ‘Grief Brand’ shouldn’t even be legal’.
Basicbasic
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She won't make the t shirts herself because she doesn't do anything that requires her to work. I mean, she 'worked' on the website whilst floating in a super exclusive luxury pool in Morocco so that tells you something of the effort levels involved (and explains the terrible grammar). She's lazy AF.
And we all thought her lowest point was begging for supermarket vouchers and kofi funds from j's death bed....
And we all thought her lowest point was begging for supermarket vouchers and kofi funds from j's death bed....
Abettermumma
Active member
But because it’s been a bit longer it’s okay for people to comment on Ash and Saf and their behaviours?
The thing with kaytee is she’s ignorant she really thinks the worlds owes her
nothing is ever good enough for her . She moaned she couldn’t have carers so she got carers then moaned she was not getting enough hours even though she had them overnight most nights and he was in school all day .
then she would moan about money and how she had to pay back because she basically was done for benefit fraud working and keeping benefit Money she knew she was not entitled to . She would then make the followers think she was a hard done by single mother when in reality she was in Dubai venis Paris and other exspensive countries whilst buying from Sara gym shark and Valentino . Forgetting half her followers are sen parents who actually struggle .
she would think she was important oh look at me im a nurse I know more than all these highly qualified paediatric doctors . So she changed his medication and chose to go Against advice and nearly Starved him to death . All the meetings and calls that took her all day now any sen parent will tell you that you don’t spend all day doing that at all . Everyday zoom calls and all the rest acting all high and mighty when in reality it was her and her lack of intelligence that was making him worst !!
The harsh reality of all this is she won’t actually feel guilt and she genuinely does not give two shits. Even now he ain’t here she’s jet setting cashing in on his death by selling merch with her sons face all over them for strangers all so she can cash in . She’s vile she always has been and always will be . This farce will go on and on and on because she has no shame whatsoever it’s all about kaytee and getting whatever she can .
12 weeks after her Sons death the last thing on her mind would be selling merch of her child Who is no longer here and jet setting around morroco but that’s just kaytee what more did anyone expect . The girl left her son a day after discharging him after his worst night yet to go partying all weekend to then loose him the same week !!!
says it all really poor j
nothing is ever good enough for her . She moaned she couldn’t have carers so she got carers then moaned she was not getting enough hours even though she had them overnight most nights and he was in school all day .
then she would moan about money and how she had to pay back because she basically was done for benefit fraud working and keeping benefit Money she knew she was not entitled to . She would then make the followers think she was a hard done by single mother when in reality she was in Dubai venis Paris and other exspensive countries whilst buying from Sara gym shark and Valentino . Forgetting half her followers are sen parents who actually struggle .
she would think she was important oh look at me im a nurse I know more than all these highly qualified paediatric doctors . So she changed his medication and chose to go Against advice and nearly Starved him to death . All the meetings and calls that took her all day now any sen parent will tell you that you don’t spend all day doing that at all . Everyday zoom calls and all the rest acting all high and mighty when in reality it was her and her lack of intelligence that was making him worst !!
The harsh reality of all this is she won’t actually feel guilt and she genuinely does not give two shits. Even now he ain’t here she’s jet setting cashing in on his death by selling merch with her sons face all over them for strangers all so she can cash in . She’s vile she always has been and always will be . This farce will go on and on and on because she has no shame whatsoever it’s all about kaytee and getting whatever she can .
12 weeks after her Sons death the last thing on her mind would be selling merch of her child Who is no longer here and jet setting around morroco but that’s just kaytee what more did anyone expect . The girl left her son a day after discharging him after his worst night yet to go partying all weekend to then loose him the same week !!!
says it all really poor j