Thenursemum #4 Supposed to be a nurse, more bothered about her purse, forgets to be a mum, Kayteee, you ok Hun

[Momin_mama]

I’m so glad I found this thread!!
Any previous attempts to mention she who must not be named were swiftly deleted in the past, even when they came from other sen parents.
I used to follow her, as a fellow complex needs single parent,shitty living situation, no job, constant reviews of continuing healthcare etc and thought- as many did- she was an advocate. How wrong I was, not an advocate and not a voice for other sen parents as she originally claimed to be.
It’s the ungratefulness that got me in the end. So much money was raised that millions of us in her situation could only ever dream of. Her son gets the best equipment- which I do not begrudge him- while many have to fight for years just for basics, a lot of families are stuck in private rentals they can’t adapt to make their lives a little bit easier, and yet she still moans about everything.
It was insufferable.

 

[Tomtom2020]

I dislike Kayteee but I do think you guys tear her apart for things when she's often got a valid point.

The oncology ward, yes children with cancer deserve the very best, but so do kids with other illnesses especially those who have terminal illnesses. There shouldn't be any inequality, kids have other illnesses that need awful treatment for example - dialysis.

I can also see where she's coming from with the peanut post. My eldest wasn't born 'healthy' and I feel uncomfortable when people say 'as long as babies healthy' of course we long for that but we don't love him any less, you cannot change a babies genetics.

Not caring for J adequately is extremely different though.

she could make a point about equality in children’s care within hospital - without comparing an oncology ward to a 5* hotel

she could address the “healthy baby” remark - without commenting on a post which was shared from someone’s page who has suffered with miscarriages and TTC

They may be valid points yes, however the way she goes about it lacks any respect, dignity, and isn’t even trying to raise these points, it’s all to boost her followers

 

[Basicbasic]

Blimey, she went to pals to skip the queue to get that wheelchair, she was so desperate to have a huge token of his disability for the gram. Only had it an hour and already complaining it's not easily collapsible or space saving. Wtf did you expect kaytee? It's not for you or your aesthetic, it's for your son. Don't make everything all about you and how you feel for once.

 

[Crazymum]

And the fact she’s saying I feel better knowing he was around it and didn’t get it. What a ridiculous statement to make . Doesn’t make him invincible at all and could easily show signs in a few days up to 10 days supposedly. Also he could still catch it from someone else another time. How she’s a registered nurse I don’t know.

 

[Snoopydoo85]

I can’t help but feel she stopped his anti sickness meds to make him vomit more so she could put it in her carers appeal. I feel like once the appeal is over and she’s given an outcome she’ll put him back on the anti sickness meds. All for her own gain.

 

[Sendparent]

This has all be planned in my opinion. She needed to register didnt she before it was too late. I think she purposely fucked it up for herself, because she wanted the registered nurse title but isn't cut out for working shifts now she has seen.she can make more by being a proffesional beggar. Perhaps she has been trying to blame being overwhelmed due to the pandemic and having Jaxons whos high risk for messing up and thinks she can use that excuse on the gram too, for sympathy.
She went for and accepted the job in July, she started in August. She says she took the job because covid was easing up, cases was low and although there was a 2nd wave predicted it felt like it had passed? Lockdown restrictions were easing in July but Nottingham was named in the top 10 for high cases, by august it had got worse, within weeks it was the number 1 for covid. She didnt start working because of it "easing" she started so she could get her pin and then find a excuse to stop working asap. People will feel sorry for her but she can keep the nurse title as shes registered. This has nothing to do with Jaxon being high risk. Since she stopped working as a nurse she has dragged him round tesco to do ads, without a mask or visor, she could do home deliveries or go when hes at school or nursery but no she takes him. She has taken him to london and stayed in posh hotels and visited the restaurants with him. She has breached support bubble rules, travelled with a fake childcare bubble and slept in the same hotel room together. She chooses to take him to the hospital pharmacy instead of collecting his meds when he is not with her. She has allowed keiras to continue coming when some families of high risk children have chosen not to use them during the pandemic despite the stress that has put them under. This has nothing to do with Jaxon being high risk

 

[Anon89]

Kaytee, I know you read here. Instead of throwing money at people to get ‘second opinions’, why don’t you use the money for some therapy for yourself. You quite clearly have your own personal issues; which for whatever reason are causing this manic, absurd behaviour. Take 6 months out and get some well needed help.

 

[Cookies Monster]

Why doesn't she have actual bowls ready for the vomits?! If they happen as often as she says they do then why isn't she prepared?

 

[CoffeeAndSenLife]

When your pregnant and some one says oh boy or girl? I don't know was always my reply and 99% of the time it's met with as long as babies healthy.

No he's not fucking healthy, and there was absolutely nothing I could do about it. All I wanted to say was I just hope he survives, but instead you can't talk because the tears are already falling.

I get that 100% I do. But you can not begrudge other People hoping for a healthy baby. That post on penut Was somebody who had had miscarriages and praying for a take home healthy baby and Kaytee knew by posting on it she would start something up. Everybody trying for a baby ALWAYS wishes for a healthy baby. Our wishes arnt always granted but it’s still a wish

 

[Treesy19]

Pandemic aside, I’d hazard an obvious guess that she decided a 12 hour shift being a nurse was too much hard work compared to flogging Iconic makeup and tagging brands. She experienced hard work and thought no way am I doing that.

 

[Starshining]

The issue babyGirl has, if she is dropping hints about the fundraiser is...

if you have kindly donated money to the other three fundraisers, you probably follow her

so...

wouldn't you be questioning the following:

1/ where is the chair that the go fund me was paying for because the local authority wasn’t going too? Then they <unsurprisingly> did supply

2/ why did you pick a top of the range mobility car then spent a huge amount of money on a sunroof?

3/ a hot tub that he has been in a handful of times, (that is now rotting away in her garden) and that is also known that children with kidney problems should not use as it dehydrates them even more

4/ a feeding school costing 5K that she was warned by actual, real medical professionals not to do where he was appearing to us emaciated as the days went by. Starving him and increasingly putting pressure on his heart when he has a medically known heart condition

5/ £700 fugly, designer branded, trainers suddenly appear

6/ photos of said trainers are now off her grid as well as anything else that screams wealth as it doesn’t fit with the single parent, struggling household narrative

7/ big song and dance about getting her new job, pictures of herself posing in her uniform, couple of weeks of working shifts chat... then NOTHING


nothing adds up and thousands of people need to give their head a wobble if they think of donating again

if she approached the media again the first question they ask will be what did you do with the last three.

plenty of us have a collection of receipts

 

[Basicbasic]

GOSH, world leading specialists, are 'not on it'. Her local specialists are 'not on it'. Her GPs are 'not on it'. Every specialist j has seen is 'not on it'. The private consultant is 'not on it'. But kaytee is an expert and wants intervention for something all the medical specialists in the world do not deem necessary. Very odd.

 

[blackheartedsoul]

I’ve finally unfollowed her. Her last rant about people wishing for a healthy baby is ridiculous! Honestly who the fuck does she think she is?! She’s hitching on a post which is merely someone’s hopes for pregnancy and being able to birth a child at the end of it. Not all people get that. She’s had a child that many have yearned for and who would treat that boy 10x better than she has. How has it come down to people not being able to hope for a healthy baby. Does she really think that we’d love a child any less if it was unhealthy. Just because it’s an inconvenience to her doesn’t mean it would be to everyone. She needs a slap

 

[AreYouJoking?]

She does not want it fixed because it will mean no Kiera’s. So there are TWO options. Not no options. Not only one option. TWO!! FFS woman if I had just one option to stop my child’s epilepsy I would snatch the doctors hand off.
And the lies about the appointment. It’s a letter or an email who ever has said yeah he’ll be here and just pop in to chat. No he won’t. It’s covid. They ain’t just floating around rooms like there’s no pandemic!!! And they have a schedule. She talks out of her arse. You get texts to say who your seeing. You get voicemails. You do not just turn up and see what happens. God I detest how naive she thinks everyone is and that her words are verbatim.

 

[Crazymum]

And she’s back moaning that she’s wasted £280 as she hasn’t got the result SHE wants. How about listen to the professionals! They must know something . Doesn’t matter how much money she spends they aren’t just going to write down what she wants to hear.

 

[Spyglass]

Everyone else's tube feed awareness has been so positive. That tube keeps our children here. It's a lifeline. Yet she complains about the thing keeping her son alive
The woman is literally negative doom and gloom on a plate.
Everything is last minute with her. Hues sit didn't occur to her to ring up his community nurse and get her to order some more extension sets to his order
Shes useless.
It's got to the point she can't find his extension and it's the last one.... So he has to go without food and vital medications.
Shes only mum I know who leaves things till last minute and doesn't put his needs first.

Guess you've been reading here kaytee too. You know that extension tube is kept on your son all the time to make his site worse. Theres many times I've seen it with water flushed in but you haven't disconnected it. Wouldn't be my first idea to get my phone out to video my son for content and then take the tube out after. Let's face it that tube is left in kaytee who are you kidding.
Hence his site is leaking because the weight of the tube and him constantly pulling it has widened the hole which in turn is allowing stomach acid to burn the area.
But... She needs it bad doesn't she to add that onto his needs because everything else is going so well.

 

[Starrysky]

Nice shot of babygyal in her knickers asking for free legal adviSe. Classy. If she buys a house she thinks she'll get the reno paid for by collabs. So many Instahuns are doing this at the moment. I seriously doubt that she'll give up a few house to buy one of her own. And if she's got the money to buy a house she should definitely buy and vacate this one for a family who need it.

She would never get them. The ad ‘work’ is fading fast for her. Have you seen how awkward her recent readly ad is. She’s shocking, hardly a natural. She just wants to sheer. Kayteeeees word for share. I wouldn’t have her representing my brand. She actually puts me off the brands she advertises.

I’m sure each time I type her name I add an extra e

I got it.

I bloody love you lot, someone always has a screen shot of whatever’s needed

 

[Crazymum]

The only person that needs a professional here is her! She seriously has a problem. J is clearly doing well . She needs to let the Drs do what they’re trained too.

 

[Jumpindesia]

Is an insta account really more important than your career? She is such a attention seeker....

Also it really irritates me that she behaves like she is 'black', cringes me out!

 

[Curiouslycurious]

Who would drive to London multiple times in 1 week! Not a chance! She’s staying with someone. She can’t do one day without a hotel stay for us appts.
The reason she’s quiet is because she’s being entertained in London