I just see two adults who seem to have disassociated from reality almost completely. It's like they're living their life as if they were Sims characters and are just going through the motions without committing to putting any actual hard work in. And that hard work should be kept off-camera and personal which doesn't go with their whole lifestyle that they're not willing to pivot from for the sake of the kids, and I don't know, maybe have to make some actual sacrifices?? Life gets ugly and messy for everyone and the most effort they put into anything is trying their damnedest to dodge the truth and the not-fun-shit of adulthood cause they just want to only have fun and have life be "magical". Ginn frankly sounds unhinged when she's just alone and blabbing with Da Big Baby, like you'd think she's going to be trapped in a cave with this baby in the dark for the next 6 years instead of a couple of nights. She's just pretend-momming and pretend-working.
Ginn would be the kind of person who likes an Instagram post that says "it takes a village to raise a child!" and then comment "100%! It's so hard being a mom and doing this alone!!!!!". It's like yeah, bitch, that village also includes YOU, their parent, not just dumping the kid off on the community you don't involve yourself in and having them deal with your unwanted baggage in the form of a child.
I'm not down with spanking, BUT at the very least it would help if she could speak to him firmly and with authority and not phrase it in a sing-songy question or favor (which means she might have to put the damn camera down and actually be a parent in the moment). She can't handle that Buddy and Bud might gosh forbid get mad at her for BEING A PARENT and looking out for them. She's wanted to start out from the very beginning being their BFF, but the kids need a stable authority figure that they respect and who mentors them, not just wishy-washy sing-songy manic lazy bitch who fake laughs at everything and gets annoyed when they interrupt her attention-whoring moments.
But he looooooooves the changing table!! At least have him sleep in that tiny playpen thing instead, good lord. There's a reason some changing tables come with a strap (apparently this downstairs one is too hip to have one).