Does dim think three year olds should just naturally good at everything? The kid is THREE. He needs to be taught, and coached, and practice regularly….oh and along the way….not constantly told he’s not good at it before he has a chance. That won’t make him want to stick with it and keep trying. It WILL give more trauma to talk about with his therapist later. “My dad always told me I was bad at everything. My mom was mad she had to spend time with me instead of going to Disney with just my dad.”
FFS DIMOTHY!!! You’re hurting your kid! Tell him he’s doing great! “What a great try buddy, good job! Omg Jackson, you got so many more pins this time! (even if it’s only 1)
Great job rolling the ball this time, it was so fast! Hi five buddy, you got one!”
It’s really not that hard! I’m not saying he should get a trophy for trying, but
his parents words should sing his praises, not point out his flaws and tear him down.
You are shit parents! Those poor boys! They deserve so much better than your selfishness, and criticism, and resentment for their existence and taking away your old lives. SHIT PARENTS. SHIT!
Why the fuck can’t they spend some time with him at home playing candy land as chutes and ladders. Teaching the rules and playing by them. Letting him win sometimes. Give him nice quality time with his parents that builds him up and feels good, with age appropriate games he has a shot of becoming “good” at.
He must feel so bad about himself with those two talking shit to a camera instead of raising him.
Since you don’t talk to family or have any actually friends…freaking read some parenting books or something. Take a class. SOMETHING.
I hate them.