It’s awful, I feel so sorry for her having to spend everyday in constant fear of him turning up
The Stacey's #3 Mel & Billy Stacey Relationship is dead, boys in Billy's bed, mels hair has shed revealing more head 🥚
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Don’t feel sorry for her - look how many times this has happened and then they’ll get back together and she’s go back to being her horrible nasty smug self to everyone who supported her before. No sympathy here - she knew what she was dealing with from the start
I do feel sorry for her. No one deserves to live an anxious life. Even if she has been cocky & smug does that mean she deserves that?
Sometimes you have no idea what you’re dealing with. She may not be the nicest of people but no one deserves to be abused in their own home and have their safety jeopardised
Absolutely agree with you. He's terrorising her in her own home without a single thought for the sleeping baby she has at home with her. She's very few people around her to support her.
And what it comes down to is no judge would stop a dad from seeing their child over cheating... Now this information has come to light RE more than Melissa stopping him seeing Aria, it's clear this is a whole different situation to what has happened before.
100% I work in family law and I’ve seen a lot of stuff happen but dads still allowed contact with children or supervised visits, the fact she was saying he’s not seeing her at all there’s clearly a bigger picture going on and she’s doing the right thing to protect herself and Aria. I couldn’t imagine feeling like I can’t even protect my child in their own home, I do emphasise with how anxious she must be feeling
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Just catching up with all these comments. Haven’t watched the lives or anything so thanks for the updates!!
my opinion is that Billy is a head, we all knew this and we knows he’s a walking red flag.He seems like an even bigger dick than I thought based on the comments here. He’s obviously just a narcissistic piece of sh*t. Forehead is a dick too but the right thing to do is stay well away from Billy for good and get on with her own life. She may not have realised how horrible he really was. Narcissists can be good at this.
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Do we think the babymum had a similar experience with Billy
Just catching up with all these comments. Haven’t watched the lives or anything so thanks for the updates!!
my opinion is that Billy is a head, we all knew this and we knows he’s a walking red flag.He seems like an even bigger dick than I thought based on the comments here. He’s obviously just a narcissistic piece of sh*t. Forehead is a dick too but the right thing to do is stay well away from Billy for good and get on with her own life. She may not have realised how horrible he really was. Narcissists can be good at this.
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Do we think the babymum had a similar experience with Billy
Wouldn’t surprise me if he was the same with the other baby mum narcissists never changeHey
Just catching up with all these comments. Haven’t watched the lives or anything so thanks for the updates!!
my opinion is that Billy is a head, we all knew this and we knows he’s a walking red flag.He seems like an even bigger dick than I thought based on the comments here. He’s obviously just a narcissistic piece of sh*t. Forehead is a dick too but the right thing to do is stay well away from Billy for good and get on with her own life. She may not have realised how horrible he really was. Narcissists can be good at this.
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Do we think the babymum had a similar experience with Billy
I agree with this...
It's okay for her to now play victim and go live and start crying, etc. But remember all the posts of how he proposed to her after 6 weeks, how he had changed for her.
About making him a Dad (purposely avoiding the reality of him already being a Dad)... and constant digs at his first child's Mother... who is so much prettier than forehead.
If you swim with sharks you risk getting bitten.
Ps. The tik toks about his receding hair line do make me laugh. I think he's a right head but her hairline is definitely far worse
I would agree. But having seen someone close to me stalked and mentally abused by an ex, her previous cockiness and actions don't warrant what he's putting her through.
Again, having witnessed this first hand, I sincerely hope she's not making this up, and that she has good support around her.
His either been physically abusive or his a paedophile. Because she says she wants full custody and is protecting her done the worst of the worst and well those are the only things I can think of
Im not sure but I do know she’d need a REALLY good reason for not letting him see the baby because if they do go to court (theres no chance she’s gone already back logs are months even for urgent cases) she will not be looked on fondly for it. The courts won’t give a stuff if he’s harassing her or anything it will be classed as irrelevant when it comes to the child, and if he’s on the birth certificate they both have the same rights.
but he is a bleep so I wouldn’t put anything past him. I did wonder if he’d been messaging underages when she said ‘he’s done the worst thing’
I wondered if he'd lost his temper with the baby, or Melissa. Even if anger hasnt been directed at the baby, seeing someone lose it around a child is enough to make you considered if they would be safe alone with them. perhaps someone had asked him for 'photos' of her and he'd been tempted by money
maybe like someone else has said he'd been messaging or met up with someone underage.Whatever it is, it's obviously not 'just' cheating on her and goes well beyond that.
Even if she's not been to court yet about custody, it's something really bad for there to be an injunction/safeguarding on him seeing Aria.
That was my first thought that it’s DV, I really wouldn’t put it past him. She did say that it’s not just her keeping Aria from him, it was something about it ‘being out of her hands’ - so maybe there’s something put in place already even if she’s not been to court. She’s not my favourite person on earth but I will keep my fingers crossed she never goes back to him
So I went to court with my child’s father due to DV and they did say no contact until court proceedings were over and that was including contact with his child. That was only based on evidence I provided of him being emotionally abusive and psychological and made me very dependent etc also safe guarding concern with drugs. Baring in mind he was never physical. In the end we got a contact order put in place. And once it was finalised which took about 10 months he was able to see his son again through supervised contact and then non supervised after so many weeks.
they would not give her sole custody of aria unless there was extreme extreme serious harm to her. They like both parents to have contact with the children. They don’t look at the parents relationship they’re only interest is the child and what’s best for them.
my sons dad is a good dad but he was just a tit partner. It’s one of them things.
I truly believe some of this is to do with him maybe messaging meeting up with underage girls. I truly do.
oh I have a live in order also so my son is to live with me until his 18 but spends time with his dad baring in mind he sees his dad every other weekend and 1 night in the week also
they would not give her sole custody of aria unless there was extreme extreme serious harm to her. They like both parents to have contact with the children. They don’t look at the parents relationship they’re only interest is the child and what’s best for them.
my sons dad is a good dad but he was just a tit partner. It’s one of them things.
I truly believe some of this is to do with him maybe messaging meeting up with underage girls. I truly do.
oh I have a live in order also so my son is to live with me until his 18 but spends time with his dad baring in mind he sees his dad every other weekend and 1 night in the week also
Yeah exactly my thoughts. My brother is a solicitor who specialises in family law & said it’s so rare these days for the dad to get zero contact. And unless he’s done something to the child, which I doubt as he’s still roaming free, then she’ll have some explaining to do at court. I also don’t believe she entertains him when it suits her, I think she stupidly thinks she’s the cream of the crop & he will change for her. He’s a narc, they don’t change.
Isn’t she technically squatting now as she’s stayed past her eviction date? I feel bad for the new owners who have sold their house and we’re expecting to be in by Christmas.
Yes zero contact would only be given if there is an extreme extreme safe guarding concern. But it’s very very rare. so good luck to her.. because she will struggle moving away to be closer to her family when she has to do shared care eventually. Billy could potentially put his foot down and want every other weekend contact.
although if she gets a live in order which hopefully she does for her sake it will stop him withholding aria as some parents use the children as weapons and try to alienate the other parent by not giving the child back just to be bitter and evil! so a live in order i would say is her best fight to go for.
tell me you want to make Mel miserable and jealous without telling me lol or are the flowers for her 
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