I’d love to know the ins and outs - are Kate and William genuinely lovely or just really great at playing the role as part of their job? Is what Harry says true or is he a bitter jealous brother? How do they talk to each other as a family when not in public?
I think there's a tendency to treat celebrities/famous figures as either good or evil, but with a few exceptions most are just bog standard human.
Kate and William are probably lovely when they need to be, but have moments they're right pricks, just like most people.
I think what Harry says is true
to him. He seems to have a real victim complex, so likely looks back on altercations or conversations through a light of him having done no wrong and being unfairly attacked on all fronts. We're all the protagonist in our own minds and memories, but how we weave that story differs from person to person. For some, they're the innocent and unwitting hero in a tragedy full of villains.
It's easy to relay that someone was so angry at you that they had a go, but being able to accurately outline your own behaviour leading up to that anger can be a harder one to be intellectually honest about.