Very new here! Experiences of grief are different for all.
I feel I should clarify something as someone of African heritage. Funerals in many countries in Africa, particularly West Africa, are celebrations of life. Funerals are a BIG deal and go on for days. Some parts feel more like a party than a traditional British funeral. So yes, she is showing a so-called ‘lighter side’ but we approach funerals and practices around funerals very different in Africa.
Also, I must admit that if I was in a country (for a legitimate reason) and the rules were different (i.e. I’m able to go out and get my hair done etc) I would.
I understand it’s difficult to see when we’re very restricted in the UK but she’s not breaking any rules. The outrage is weird to me. It’s like seeing an Instagram story from someone living free in New Zealand and being angry, despite the fact that they’re allowed to do these things
I feel I should clarify something as someone of African heritage. Funerals in many countries in Africa, particularly West Africa, are celebrations of life. Funerals are a BIG deal and go on for days. Some parts feel more like a party than a traditional British funeral. So yes, she is showing a so-called ‘lighter side’ but we approach funerals and practices around funerals very different in Africa.
Also, I must admit that if I was in a country (for a legitimate reason) and the rules were different (i.e. I’m able to go out and get my hair done etc) I would.
I understand it’s difficult to see when we’re very restricted in the UK but she’s not breaking any rules. The outrage is weird to me. It’s like seeing an Instagram story from someone living free in New Zealand and being angry, despite the fact that they’re allowed to do these things
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