I don't know. You seem to be quite knowledgeable on the subject though. Not many of us on here know how much Sue and Noel have seen the baby, yet you know exactly how often. However funny a brand new member joins and instantly starts being rude. Lots of brand new members join when drama kicks off.
I don't know that they went to bed and left them, all they said in their vlog was Heidie had a danger nap and was wide awake and running around, they showed Tillie on a laptop and Bonnie asleep on the sofa, but they said We are off to bed. I'd hope Noel lifted Bonnie into bed and at least took Heidie up with them, but as Tillie was still up, who knows what they did.
Who would have time to do a North Pole breakfast on a school day? I literally used to have to hurry my kids up in the mornings as they used to take 62 hours to eat half a slice of toast, let alone pull crackers and open advent calendars. If I did anything like this, I'd have had it as an afternoon snack after school, kids are always starving after school.