This might be an unpopular opinion but I don't think older children should be looking after younger ones, it's not fair, the older ones didn't ask for the siblings, and sue and noel should be looking after them as the parents. I don't expect my 14yr old to look after her younger 5 siblings as it was our choice to have the 6 of them. It's child abuse for them to expect the older ones to do it. Where's there childhood, and if they wanted to look after children they would surely have them themselves or work in a nursary or school setting. The duggers did a montessori upbringing but they also home schooled and they were a dodgy family aswell, there oldest sexially abused his younger siblings xx