I personally don't see the point in marriage, having a child for me is a much bigger show of commitment. It's easy to get divorced (done that) but you cannot take a child away, you're tied for life.
I've been with my partner for 12 years, we have a 7 year old, we don't want to get married and it definitely isn't an issue. It doesn't bother me we have different surnames and it doesn't bother my kid. Also not at all uncommon these days.
Millie on the other hand
yes having a child With someone is a big commitment… but a lot of them are born out of irresponsibility rather than commitment. I live in Norway and I’ve never seen so many teenage mothers running around, having babies born after a wild night out in the city… get drunk, get laid, get pregnant and repeat… I used to work in a bar and a parent & child going out and getting wasted together it was quite common… even going to lengths where mother & daughter racing to get laid by the same guy or sharing. It’s truly disgusting if you ask me.
Also when you ask a teenage mommy who’s the baby daddy than they proudly answer most of the times “I don’t know for sure, there’s a few options… I was drunk that weekend and I slept with option nr.1 Friday after a night out, and option nr.2 & 3 happend in the bar’s bathroom Saturday night between my 5 and 10th Sambuca and there’s the guy I met at the afterparty…I think I slept with him too but I was too drunk to remember… lol” Key word: PROUDLY!
In my personal opinion even though marriage and proper age is preferable, having children outside marriage wasn’t the problem, but the irresponsibility of bringing a baby into this world because the person is unable to use protection while having a drunk one night stand knowing that they are a child themselves and have no financial background or maturity enough to bring that child up.
If they are immature enough to have unprotected s3x than they are immature enough to be responsible for another life…and than the responsible taxpayer pays for it (I pay 33 % of my salary so they can pop a child and use the benefit to carry on with this irresponsible behavior). They are not just literally rewarded for their behavior, but also bringing up their child with the same standards. It’s an evil infinit circle, because here they make a lifestyle out of this thing, mommy did it, granny did it, my kid will most probably do it… so by the age of 30 you are already eligible to be a grandparent.
A lot will crucify me for my opinion, but while I recognize there are isolated instances where this might not apply… most of the time this is the case!
Can you not see her comment she said she’s focussing on her career ..? I really don’t think she’d have a kid yet, hope not anyway
And what carrier is that supposed to be? What is she working with?
