Does anyone know why the eldest boy went no contact?
I remember seeing a screenshot of his public Facebook years ago on a private parenting forum where someone had wrote on his wall in response to a sort of general moan post "Your mum has been fighting for you for years"
And he replied "I know, but my mum isn't the problem"
The post got pulled pretty quickly, but I took it that he loved her very much, but something else in the family dynamic was off.
It intrigued me, I just hoped that he, and the rest of the kids would have a relationship again if he wanted it.