Oh this is laughable. Millie dear you live in your parents basement, you aren't the last to do anything in that house, you rush over to push yourself to the forefront of everything going on. The only thing you're last to do is pull your weight and do anything for your daughter. You aren't the first Ophelia will run to if she's hurt, that would be Sue or your sisters. All you do is sit down and have a moment for yourself.Does Millie realise she has to actually look after Ophelia for this to apply?
Is she trying to convince us or herself that this is true?