Now I might be speaking out of turn here as I’ve never lost a child so don’t know what she’s going through - buts it’s asif she’s not letting herself to move on, finding triggers everywhere she goes relating everything to J - now I know it must be hard but it’s as if she’s constantly living in the past. I really think she doesn’t know who she is anymore and wants to find triggers of him everywhere. I’m sorry but there is no way she’s going to be able to stick at a job with her attitude, and quite frankly I would get off the plane if I saw she was on it.