I hate this! It's not "lol" that steff is wearing noise cancelling headphones whilst baking with his kids. It looks like he's not taking control of the situation, or being in the moment with his kids. What message is this giving the kids? That their chatter and noise isn't important to him?
Baking, or any activity, with kids is to me such an important time to bond, you might start chatting about things that worry them. I find it sad, not funny, they are only young like this for such a short time. The Michalak kids are almost out of that age of doing baking with a parent, and they aren't toddlers so surely the noise can't be that unbearable?
I'm also editing to add that Hannah sharing the pictures and words Rufus had put in his book over sharing, it's his personal feelings and thoughts she's sharing which he may not have been comfortable with. This is a boy who had mental health issues in the past with hair pulling, why not leave it between child and parent than use as content for your stories?