Maybe they should sell everything and be a bit more free, some people suit that more. Rent a house, live abroad, whatever, trouble is they both seem very invested in how everything looks rather than feels. Stef came across so snobby, well they both did, the comment she made about ‘don’t worry, we will make it nice’ when they bought their house was very telling. It sounded as though they had bought a complete dive, not a 850k house that was already gorgeous.