I couldn't watch the full thing but I did notice how careful she was when talking about Esme, it's clear she doesn't enjoy any kind of school work. Maybe that's what all these gifts and decent brands are for, bribes.
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Creepy at the end of a meet and greet 
Thank you for this!! I work in public ed in the US and friendships are not what people think they are. Most of my counseling time is working with my high schoolers on proper socializing and anti bullying work.
My 16 year old chooses not to have many friends because she was treated poorly when she was “popular” and went through so much and is happier with one or two friends. Not all of us need to have 100 friends and constant nights out to be happy. However, I will say that exposure to social activities, whether it be through home ed or traditional schooling is paramount to development. The Ingham’s are isolating themselves from the world and it is a bit scary.
I think it's always been clear that Esme isn't interested in subjects such as Maths and English and has struggled with them. She is the main one who could benefit from home schooling and incorporating these subjects into topics that she is interested in, doing more project work where she can be more creative whilst also learning skills that she needs to.
The way they do it though she actually gets no chance to do subjects that she would probably do well in, whereas in school she would. She would get the chance to learn more forms of art, she could try out some actual acting instead of those awful skits she did. She used to be active and could have tried out different sports which might have led to her joining teams either at school or looking for something out of school. She could have used equipment in design and technology that she will never have access to at home. Instead they let her do no learning so she makes tik toks alone in her room or with her little sister.
Their method of occasionally copying out some text is the worst method for someone who isn't interested in the first place, and is not something she would be doing at school anyway. They will never consider the individual needs of the children, they never looked at any other schools to see if they would be a better fit. Even when first opting to send Isabelle private it was only because the school was close and they liked the sound of saying they had a child at private school, they were unlikely to have looked at others.
What is obsession saying anyone who passes comment on them lives in their parents basement? I left home and had a mortgage at 21. Something none of their kids will ever do
Sarah, you always comment that people hate on your family when we "don't know" you. We know a lot more than you think, because you literally film your (boring) lives and upload it for our "enjoyment" (torture). From a 30 minute vlog we can see clear as day your 5 year old has 0 manners and is favoured, the fact you have 332 threads on Tattle shows many many people agree and have the same thoughts. You can deny, delete and block us all you like, but you can't erase facts!!
Isla hated Dance because she couldn't talk? She's there to dance. Classes aren't cheap, so why would Lazy want her standing around talking when she's there to dance? Swap numbers, meet up outside of dance, arrange socials.Hi Lazy, we know you read here.
She’s such a lying witch! She’s saying Isla hated dance because they wouldn’t let her talk or make friends in class and she hated the dance side of it. Does she forget they vlog their life? Is she forgetting how happy Isla was to attend dance? What about the dance outfits she asked for for her birthday? She’s saying Isla doesn’t like dance just like she said Isla wanted to be home schooled! Lies to make her feel better about failing her daughter. If Isla didn’t love dance then why the duck did they buy her a message off Dr Holly and why did Dr Holly say how she hopes Isla follows her dancing dream? If you’re going to lie Sarah, maybe check the old vlogs where you’re saying something completely different. You took Islas dance dreams from her because you are an enabling witch who stood by her husband when Sussex police confirmed he sent sexual messages to a sixteen year old girl. Who wants a man like that dropping his daughters off at dance. It’s the same with home schooling! You vlogged Isla saying she didn’t want to be home schooled because she loved school and would miss her friends. A few weeks later you pulled them all out of school ignoring Islas wishes. The poor little girl was looking forward to getting her pen licence but you took that from her along with her friends. What has Isla gained from leaving school Vs what she lost? You vlogged about her sitting on the stairs all day waiting for you to come home from packing blankets. You vlogged about her getting OCD thoughts. She’s afraid to sleep in her own room. She had to give up dance. All this happened after they left school. Joint birthday parties with her friends Stopped. The girls friends were constantly in the vlogs in the earlier days. Where did they all go? Isla was such an intelligent, confident little girl who thrived on learning and now she’s a shadow of her former self. You roll your eyes if she dares interrupt on camera. She lives to impress you and have some attention while you spoil and praise Esme and Jace. You turned into a family of hermits who hide in a house or a van avoiding the public incase someone comments about what he did. Lie all you want but don’t forget people know that it’s a lie. Making out Isla would rather be stuck at home watching your kids while you’re shopping again instead of in school learning, making friends and attending dance.
Funny she keeps bringing up about how they couldn't talk in school, couldn't talk in dance class....
If your childrun had friends other than their siblings lazy they'd have friends to talk to. They were likely ignored by their peers because they know who their dad is and want to keep a distance, no?
If your childrun had friends other than their siblings lazy they'd have friends to talk to. They were likely ignored by their peers because they know who their dad is and want to keep a distance, no?
They list the inability to have social chats as much and at any time they want as the main reason for withdrawing them from both school and activities?!
I don’t believe for a second that Isla did not enjoy dance when she went. Has guides become a distant memory as well now? The real reason those girls were pulled, not just because of the travelling, but because of Chris. So now they’ve had to poison their daughter’s mind against another club she could go to because of him and his actions. I bet he hated being confronted and being asked to avoid showing face at the studio. Esme is obviously harder to keep in line so she’s having money thrown her way.
Sarah is choosing to bad mouth a dance school (in all but name) and say it’s because she wasn’t allowed to talk. She’s deluded and the only people who suffer are the children. My girls went to dance and loved watching from outside - the giggles, the chatting etc and then the time they did have to concentrate but it was always fun. She has confirmed to everyone now that those kids don’t do anything that they cannot control outside of the household. They have a couple of iFam they consider friends and allow them to go out with them but other than that - nothing. Izzy has no friends in real life either and she’s no longer pretending to anymore.
Sarah is choosing to bad mouth a dance school (in all but name) and say it’s because she wasn’t allowed to talk. She’s deluded and the only people who suffer are the children. My girls went to dance and loved watching from outside - the giggles, the chatting etc and then the time they did have to concentrate but it was always fun. She has confirmed to everyone now that those kids don’t do anything that they cannot control outside of the household. They have a couple of iFam they consider friends and allow them to go out with them but other than that - nothing. Izzy has no friends in real life either and she’s no longer pretending to anymore.
She likely didn't make friends due to esme and her "I was the only one smiling" attitude along with missing multiple lessons at a time.
Some kids don't like the hard work that goes in to dance and automatically think they will be dance mom kids level.
I can't not get my head around how any mother can sit and write such lies about her children. The girls loved dance. All 3 of them. Isla has all those dance outifts, and watches Dance Moms because she wants to dance. But can't. Because her dad is a groomer. And spends his life on the run. Those children actually believe being parked up in supermarket car parks around Europe is a holiday.
Fat Saz asking Izzy if she wanted to go to prom, and Izzy saying she didn't. Of course she did. She might be a mumbling bumbling mess socially, but it would've been nice for her to get dressed up to go somewhere rather than Lidl.
Fat Saz asking Izzy if she wanted to go to prom, and Izzy saying she didn't. Of course she did. She might be a mumbling bumbling mess socially, but it would've been nice for her to get dressed up to go somewhere rather than Lidl.
The part about bad mouthing the dance school hadn’t even occurred to me, it’s a good point. I would be seriously pissed off if I was associated with that school and saw her comments, as if they don’t allow them to make friends.
I feel for them that they had to deal with this family even if it was just short term, I guess they were the ones who pulled the plug and the Ingham’s haven’t taken kindly to that.
The thing about clubs like dance etc is they teach so much more than just the physical skills. Our kids learn teamwork, they learn about timekeeping (because we expect them to show up on time), they learn about presenting themselves in an appropriate way with their hair done and correct uniform on (both for competitions/performances and for class), they build their confidence, they learn how to listen to different adults who aren’t parents or teachers, they learn respect for each other and themselves. I have a particularly chatty team this year. Isla’s age. They love coming to class and seeing their friends and naturally will have a bit of a gab, but they are SO passionate about what they do and usually after a few reminders during stretch/warm up about talking levels they will settle down. Many of them have been with us since they were tots and have formed fast and strong friendships through the dancing bond and Isla should have the opportunity to build those friendships too, but she doesn’t because her crap parents would rather drag them off in a tin can for weeks on end. Poor girls.
In an age group that Isla would have been dancing with, there is an expectation that they know when to listen and when to get on with what they are supposed to be doing. Isla having not been in any kind of group setting since she was almost 8, I wouldn't be surprised if she did get told to stop talking and for Sarah that means a hater has told her to be silent forever.
If she hated dance anyway and was only there for the social side then dance isn't something I would have chosen for that in the first place. But what is the excuse for Guides? I don't know a lot about it but based on the kinds of activities they do they would be unlikely to be sat in silence for the whole session.
Same with schools, they certainly don't sit in silence all the time. There are times they can talk quietly to those next to them if they are still getting on with work, there are lots of group activities that give opportunities to chat to others socially too, not to mention the free time of break and lunch. Odd that Sarah thinks they do hardly any work in a school day but at the same time aren't socialising either, so what are they doing exactly? My brother is a primary teacher and my brother in law a high school teacher and as much as at times they wish it would be silent or entirely kept on topic, it mostly isn't the case.
It's like life in general, of course you can't sit all day at school chatting away, just like you can't at work. Yet everyone finds time to fit it in, how else would we all know the workplace gossip? The alternative is they are sat at home with no one to talk to socially at all and no one that they can meet up with purely for social reasons either.
If she hated dance anyway and was only there for the social side then dance isn't something I would have chosen for that in the first place. But what is the excuse for Guides? I don't know a lot about it but based on the kinds of activities they do they would be unlikely to be sat in silence for the whole session.
Same with schools, they certainly don't sit in silence all the time. There are times they can talk quietly to those next to them if they are still getting on with work, there are lots of group activities that give opportunities to chat to others socially too, not to mention the free time of break and lunch. Odd that Sarah thinks they do hardly any work in a school day but at the same time aren't socialising either, so what are they doing exactly? My brother is a primary teacher and my brother in law a high school teacher and as much as at times they wish it would be silent or entirely kept on topic, it mostly isn't the case.
It's like life in general, of course you can't sit all day at school chatting away, just like you can't at work. Yet everyone finds time to fit it in, how else would we all know the workplace gossip? The alternative is they are sat at home with no one to talk to socially at all and no one that they can meet up with purely for social reasons either.
I can’t find that. Please could you link and timestamp?
Manners!! Is that a joke. He grabs things, holds his hands out for “suprises” and rarely shares with Mila. Jace hasn’t got manners at all. In fact the way your kids touch, paw and grab things means they have no manners at all.
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