I have worked on several hospital series and the paramedics are always the ones that need blurring for identification. Often they revoke permission to be used in broadcast at all. This post is really problematic legally, let alone ethically.It’s still up - on IG stories
If I were that paramedic I would be fuming. Why didnt they cover his face in the photo?
(Not to mention that taking a photo like that is disgusting anyway)
My first husband died of the same thing- I don’t have and never thought to take photos - I had every sympathy for this woman til now - this is vile!!! When late husband was in hospital my last thought was to take photos! One have one pic of his, mine and our sons hands touching. I’ve never uploaded it ANYWHERE and you’d never know he was in a coma in it. It’s just hands.my dad died of a brain aneurysm. This is something I don’t want to see. Horrific
Yet it still happens sadly. What is wrong with our society that the first thought is “ooo must take a piccie or get a video”; I’ve even heard parents encouraging children to do it when someone’s fallen or been ill.I have worked on several hospital series and the paramedics are always the ones that need blurring for identification. Often they revoke permission to be used in broadcast at all. This post is really problematic legally, let alone ethically.
I was in ICU after the birth of my youngest. My mum took a photo of me there with my baby, I was awake and knew she was taking it. No one else has seen the photo, it may not even still exist, my mum said she took it so that had the worst happened at least my daughter would have one photo with her mum.My sister was in ICU years ago and sadly passed away. We don't have a single photo of her from this time. It wasn't even on our radar to photograph as we were all distraught
My granddad died 31 years ago. He was really sick for quite a while, and the last few weeks I choosed not to see him because I wanted to remember him how he was. But just a few days before he passed away I changed my mind. I had to see him one more time for my own peace of mind. We did not take a picture but I will always remember that last time I saw him. I remember some of the last words he said to me. and even now 31 years after his death if I close my eyes and think of those words I can see us too sitting on his hospitalbed.I think when you’re in the depths of grief you do things you wouldn’t normally do. Both my in-laws passed away within 3 days of each other last year . Both had end stage Alzheimer’s/vascular dementia. I went with my Sister-in-law to see them just after they passed. My SIL said she wanted to take a photo of her mum. I gently told her that she wouldn’t want to have a photo of her mum like that and to just be with her and remember her as she used to be.
So whilst I can understand why Sarah (R Family) might want to take these photos of Dave, there really should be another adult there to take over at this point and dissuade her from not only taking them , but then plastering them on the internet!
I've made a new thread .I hope she gets told how despicable and disrespectful it was - who the hell would watch someone collapse-see the paramedics attend to them and think to take a picture…..that right there tells you everything - I know this thread is dead and boring but this other lot need their own thread resurrected or a new one -I would but I don’t know how
Can you link it pleaseI've made a new thread .
I think when you’re in the depths of grief you do things you wouldn’t normally do. Both my in-laws passed away within 3 days of each other last year . Both had end stage Alzheimer’s/vascular dementia. I went with my Sister-in-law to see them just after they passed. My SIL said she wanted to take a photo of her mum. I gently told her that she wouldn’t want to have a photo of her mum like that and to just be with her and remember her as she used to be.
So whilst I can understand why Sarah (R Family) might want to take these photos of Dave, there really should be another adult there to take over at this point and dissuade her from not only taking them , but then plastering them on the internet!
I've made a new thread .
I hope she doesn`t live to regret this.It sounds like she needs some serious help right now.I was with my mum right until the end ,with my brother and eldest.My two younger girls (young adults) ,couldn`t face what was happening.No way would i let them know what was happening ,i just kept them informed during the day/night ,and reminded them they showed and proved how much they loved and cared for their grandmother when she was with us ,they didn`t need to witness anything that would haunt them and my mum wouldn`t have wanted it either. Sarah R`s children are very young and impressionable.I wish someone ,a relative ,friend ,would take her to one side and talk to her.She needs to be well away from all social media right now and focus on those vunerable children ,also grieving the loss of their father.At the time she will have been assuming all would turn out ok and they would do a dramatic vlog talking about it and sharing any pictures/video that she got.
Now that all is not ok she's obviously decided she has the content so might as well use it. No consideration for how the children will feel or even any extended family/friends who are also grieving and don't live their life on social media so this will be shocking to them too.
Yaaaaaaaayyyyy
The R Family
I made a thread as I don't want to derail another one. I'm absolutely disgusted and the constant pushing of a go fund me . They have plenty for a funeral. Then to top it off posting photographs of her late husband collapsed on the floor. It should be a crime I'm actually being serious .tattle.life
There's the link
I’ve seen the baby do all those things and pull herself up to the standing position, really don’t think there’s anything wrong with her.Is the reason the baby isn't shown much is because there is something very wrong?. She's always asleep, she never coos, she can't sit up, she doesn't lift her arms, it's like she's a living doll.
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