The Ingham Family #305 The (Creepy) Thief, His (Lazy) Wife and the (blow up) Canoe

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Who are these people?
 
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Oh bloody hell. Now in my head I've got that old John Denver song playing...."You fill up my eeeeeeeexit.....like a blight in my lady forest...."

I do sincerely hope she's just overreacting and it's nothing serious though.
you literally are one of the funniest people on here!
 
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I was a long time in labour with my first and he begun to show signs of distress so they nentioned a c-section; I remember thinking that I didn't care if they cut me open from the neck down I just wanted my baby here.
If she had any maternal feeling she wouldn't care, she would just want the child here safe but it's not about that, is it?
It's about pushing out another feral, uneducated cash cow so you and that freak husband don't have to face the reality of how boring and irrelevant you are and so you don't have to explain to the kids you do have that they're just ordinary people with a camera in their face 24/7 and not famous.
 
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If she was such a victim why would she happily put her kids at risk? Why wouldn’t she be more protective? She’s as bad as he is. The only victims are those children & pets.
I can see why some victims stays if the think or know they are protecting the children however lazy has offered or sacrificed hers up on a plate ...she might be stupid but she's not blind she sees the vlogs she sees how he acts with Izzy.

There are so many victim mothers out there that are still in prison that was abused mentally by their husbands Andrea Yates for one but people are not expected to feel any sympathy for what they do and why should they??? 1 comment on here tried to make me feel like I'm wrong for thinking lazy is as bad as he is!!! Why? Why the hell should I? I work! I look after my children properly and if I thought my husband was a nonce absolutely no way would I stay with him because children come first and I guarantee lt 100% to think lots of mothers wouldn't is stupid....yes some fall for it but they still protect the children because if they don't they are just as bad imo
 
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If she was such a victim why would she happily put her kids at risk? Why wouldn’t she be more protective? She’s as bad as he is. The only victims are those children & pets.
Because she is scared to do it on her own? Because he has threatened she'll never see the children again? There are an infinite number of ways a man can make a mum give up her autonomy to make rational decisions. She likely thinks she has to just get through each day, doing as she's told and things will be fine eventually. Thinking back to that 2 minute vlog when the allegations came out, she looked petrified and although I couldn't see it until now, nothing she has done since has shown any autonomy. Even her shopping sprees are frantic as if she is waiting to get caught.
 
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It's been suggested to her. What is she going to say when she reviews books other than it is SO good, it's cute or it's scary'?
 
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Who in their right mind discusses their personal gynae problems on the family channel
Just shows she has no friends and family to confide in
I could never watch that vlog reading the description on here has truly put me off my breakfast
 
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I've also been here from the ver beginning one of my first comments on here was "I wonder if lazy is a victim" " did she know about It all and is he manipulating her" and Jesus was I jumped on I got told to take a step back and watch and if I want to believe a word lazy says to basically get of here and become an ifam I watch for years and since then it's gotten 1000 times worse and I've watched lazy abuse so many people ....she is a nonce supporter and enabler I don't think she was manipulated to go visit her nonce brother
 
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I have no doubt that Sarah is a victim and Chris is manipulative and controlling. He has them all right where he wants them with no contact with anyone else and reliant on him for everything.

I think people who have been in an abusive relationship themselves will naturally be more sympathetic of Sarah, but there are others like myself who have witnessed the abusive relationships from the children's point of view and they are the only ones who have NO choice in any of it. It is never going to be an easy decision to leave the relationship, but ultimately she can whereas the children can't. As difficult as it is she does have the responsibility to keep them safe and she doesn't do that.

My mum still believes that every decision she made was for the best at the time, me and my brothers disagree and see that many of those decisions were wrong. It isn't something we talk about with her anymore, on the surface we get on well, I love my mum and fully accept she was a victim and thought she was doing best, but at the same time I know she had choices to make and didn't make the best ones. This meant that she suffered but so did we, and we didn't make those choices in the first place.

The Ingham children actually do have their lives put at risk with the things they do, even whilst surviving their lives are ruined from the choices they have made. Sarah is isolated now, but she wasn't when she made the decision to move Chris in after a week, and he didn't have such a hold over her that she felt she had no option. She was close to family and friends. She didn't put Isabelle first then, she never has and never will consider her children.

I'm not saying she deserves it. People can make mistakes and that doesn't mean she deliberately set out to have children living in this situation, but she's also the only one that can get them out of it and I will blame her for that equally with Chris.
 
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I think Creepy and Lazy are hoping that people will leave comments and messages about the vlog saying things like ‘I had a cyst and didn’t have any problems giving birth, it will all be fine, you won’t need to have a c-section’. Rather than trusting the medical professionals’ advice.
A c-section may well be the safest option for both Lazy and the baby. That should be their priority, not how the recovery time might impact on Creepy’s latest travel plans.
 
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I’m not buying she’s a victim, that’s my opinion and it’s allowed as much as those who believe she is.
 
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I’m not a family fizz viewer but I remember the inghams in their heyday and they were both in competition for the most popular British family with very similar content and viewing figures
.fast forward and the fizzers are still living the high life with luxury trips and high end shopping all the while the Minghams are SHEIN shopping and crammed into a tin Sharon’s a bag of chips and all because of the Creep Sarah was mad to have stayed with him.
 
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Petrified of him or that their channel could be over? So many perspectives I guess, but mine is they all like to play up to the camera and put on a show.
 
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I'm not going of the control sense of it.
If she is then no I don't think she deserves it.
Does she deserve cancer? Absolutely not
Does she deserve kids taken off her? Absolutely.
Does she deserve prison with her nonce husband? Yes

Because its not about the control it's about protecting them kids.

You must all by now watch pe*os exposed online you see there wives reactions when they find out! But a year down the line when they are exposed again and their wives are still standing by them when they have young daughters do you still think " poor thing she's controlled"?

I doubt it

If you are at a caravan park and you find out creepy Ingham has been sending your 16yr old messages to go skinny dipping and you also find out that this has happened before but his wife stayed with him and had more children
Would you still think "she must be controlled I feel for her"?

If you do then fine but I have every right to be angry at the pair of them and I can also say that from experience as I myself was abused and the wife did nothing because he was the dominant one and she was scared and they were old ....I didn't deserve it I was the innocent one not his poor poor wife and they luckly didn't have children and done 90% of the shit lazy and creepy has done
 
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If Sarah is struggling as much as she claims why is Chris or the older children not helping put shopping away instead of rushing across country buying back the DPD van wonder who the “friend “ is who sent the parcel for baby girl? One the ifam do we think from the Facebook group
 
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Goood morning tatties!
just checking in on how all of our vaginas are today?!!??
 
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Sue radford is mentally backwards tho
 
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