I noticed Esme has a very small cut on her face- could this have occurred the same time as the ankle injury?
I don't think these children are abused, but I do think they are neglected- yes they go on holidays, get stuff bought for them, are fed and live in a warm(ish) home, but emotionally, intellectually and developmentally they are not having their needs met.
I am far from a perfect parent, but I try my best. And if someone raises concerns, I listen. SS were contacted because of a misunderstanding over the responsibilities my child was thought to have, as a young carer. When we were first made aware they had been alerted, I was devastated, I was scared. In my heart of hearts I knew nothing was untoward, but I kept going over and over everything. Eventually I realised, that my family were not being put in any vulnerable situation, and I welcomed ss being made to be involved, as I would rather they investigated me, and found nothing to be wrong, and continued to look into many other families, the majority of whom who would also be innocent, but if by investigating numerous families who posed no risk, they found 1 child who needed help, I was happy to investigated. In the end we got a phone call to say they were not concerned at all- and it was a relief, but I was also grateful to live in a society were there are people who protect children who need help, should it be needed.
Although it is obvious after the situation with baby P, little Arthur, and numerous others, that more needs to be done.
Just because the Ingham children appear publicy, does not mean there is no risk to them. They need an outsider to be able to talk to, 'should' they ever be worried or upset about something.
Sorry this is babbling, I just keep going over things in my head. No parents are perfect, but the Inghams seem to think that people who offer advice, opinions, or suggestions are claiming to be so. Why automatically be defensive, instead of thanking people for their concern and showing they are doing what they can to ensure their children's well-being is always put first.
The girls need to be in education as Sarah is going to have her time consumed by caring for Mila, but I know she needs them at home to help care for Jace and to give Creepy something to film.
I just hope the girls join these groups still, as at least they might have access to people they can talk to, and access support if they need it.
Sadly I can see the groups not happening now, as lazy and creepy will be too busy with Mila.
It's such a mess.