The Ingham Family #204 Vlogmas is going down the Bogmas

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I’m an only child and my mum eventually put her foot down and told me she wasn’t doing Santa anymore when I was maybe about 12/13 😂 I definitely didn’t believe anymore but I just loved the Christmas magic! Also loved waking up to a stocking at the end of my bed and getting to open it before everyone else got to open stuff 😂😂
Personally I don’t think it hurts for them to hang on to the Christmas magic Cos I remember when I no longer believed Christmas was just flat and I didn’t enjoy it as much. Then when I had my daughter it became magical again. I’m happy for her to hang on to it all!
 
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Exactly the same as me. Christmas is never the same as when you lie in bed listening for the sleigh bells and vow you’re going to stay awake. I found out about 8ish and I wish my Dad had insisted he was real but he told me the truth when I questioned him 😭
 
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What I find really odd, is towards the end of the vlog when Lazys showing off her Primark haul, she mentions it being strange that Isabelle was with her when she was buying Christmas gifts for her. And that did she want them ‘sending to Santa’ ! A 16 year old surely doesn’t believe in Santa?! I always thought Isabelle went along with things just for her siblings, but from the sound of it she still thinks Santa fetches her presents! It’s so bizarre! Mine stopped believing around age 10. And for Lazy to say it on the vlog, how embarrassing for Izzy
That about Santa and Isabelle is for the kiddyfam.
Isabelle is not a believer.
What I do find strange is isabelle accepting her mother chooses her presents at 16.
 
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Had a quick google of caring for a baby who is wearing a spica cast. Oh my word, it is going to be such an ordeal for little Mila 😔😔. Also, there is so much that they have to get right when caring for her for those 12 weeks. They have to pick her up in the right way or they could damage her hips further; they need to make sure that she doesn't get bed sores; they have to make sure that she fed regular small, healthy meals so that she doesn't get bloated and uncomfortable in the cast; they need to hire/purchase a special car seat etc. They need to get the care absolutely right or Mila will suffer even further. I hope that Granny Jane and Steve offer to move in for a while to help them and that they accept that help. They're definitely going to need it.
 
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What I find really odd, is towards the end of the vlog when Lazys showing off her Primark haul, she mentions it being strange that Isabelle was with her when she was buying Christmas gifts for her. And that did she want them ‘sending to Santa’ ! A 16 year old surely doesn’t believe in Santa?! I always thought Isabelle went along with things just for her siblings, but from the sound of it she still thinks Santa fetches her presents! It’s so bizarre! Mine stopped believing around age 10. And for Lazy to say it on the vlog, how embarrassing for Izzy
I think that was because she realises her audience is mainly youngsters ?
 
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Had a quick google of caring for a baby who is wearing a spica cast. Oh my word, it is going to be such an ordeal for little Mila 😔😔. Also, there is so much that they have to get right when caring for her for those 12 weeks. They have to pick her up in the right way or they could damage her hips further; they need to make sure that she doesn't get bed sores; they have to make sure that she fed regular small, healthy meals so that she doesn't get bloated and uncomfortable in the cast; they need to hire/purchase a special car seat etc. They need to get the care absolutely right or Mila will suffer even further. I hope that Granny Jane and Steve offer to move in for a while to help them and that they accept that help. They're definitely going to need it.
I've done. 9 weeks. It broke me, it made me ill, he had his op 2 years ago and I'm still trying to get my health back from it. He wouldn't sleep and I had to go to work 3 days a week on no sleep. At least lazy doesn't work. Given their rather dubious hygiene standards it will smell pretty quickly
 
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I've done. 9 weeks. It broke me, it made me ill, he had his op 2 years ago and I'm still trying to get my health back from it. He wouldn't sleep and I had to go to work 3 days a week on no sleep. At least lazy doesn't work. Given their rather dubious hygiene standards it will smell pretty quickly
I'm so very sorry 😔❤. I can't even begin to imagine how horrendously hard that must have been. I'm dreadfully sorry that you both had to go through that. X
 
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Had a quick google of caring for a baby who is wearing a spica cast. Oh my word, it is going to be such an ordeal for little Mila 😔😔. Also, there is so much that they have to get right when caring for her for those 12 weeks. They have to pick her up in the right way or they could damage her hips further; they need to make sure that she doesn't get bed sores; they have to make sure that she fed regular small, healthy meals so that she doesn't get bloated and uncomfortable in the cast; they need to hire/purchase a special car seat etc. They need to get the care absolutely right or Mila will suffer even further. I hope that Granny Jane and Steve offer to move in for a while to help them and that they accept that help. They're definitely going to need it.
Why should Jane and Steve move in? There are two adults in the household that have chosen to keep breeding, don’t have jobs, are set for life and don’t need money (so they say) so let them look after their own child.

they’ve passed responsibility for all their duck ups for too long, let them deal with it, maybe they’ll learn. Jane bailing that twit out constantly is why he’s so useless
 
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When Sarah said in last nights vlog “should I have known this could I have done more”. Well, getting proper ante-natal care night have been a start. She never even got an NHS midwife until she moved counties. I’m not saying that would have picked it up I just mean she didn’t really take care of herself medically when pregnant. We are very very lucky to have the NHS and midwives in this country. Not to mention we have some of the best ante and post natal care in the world. Stop having kids Sarah!
 
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He's a sociopath, he left that in because he knew it would get a reaction from the trolls, doubt it was even about money - they still seek and crave the attention that feeds them, poor kids are doomed. At a bare minimum I hope all the kids get the proper education, medical, dental care and socialisation that they need now thanks to pressure from agencies.

Scumbags. Shame on you Steve as well.
No he left it in because the clickbait of an ill or inured child, particularly if that child is an infant, is guaranteed to bring in bigger views. The more people who click the link to the sponsored product, the more money they get from the sponsor. That's how YT sponsorships work. Even at this point in time, they've got their grasping hands out.
 
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I read on another channel that they’re looking to sue the nhs. Wtf? I sincerely hope this isn’t true.
 
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I read on another channel that they’re looking to sue the nhs. Wtf? I sincerely hope this isn’t true.
They won’t have a leg to stand on. It’s certainly not anything like medical negligence. To take this to court would also most certainly raise questions about their parenting. And the fact she is still with creepy. ALL that would be dragged up.
 
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I read on another channel that they’re looking to sue the nhs. Wtf? I sincerely hope this isn’t true.
Good luck with that....husband is medical negligence lawyer and the case would be thrown out before it even got to court- they haven't got a case - end of!
 
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I read on another channel that they’re looking to sue the nhs. Wtf? I sincerely hope this isn’t true.
They’ve vlogged it all. They’ve no chance. They crammed that baby in a car seat for hours on end.

Taking the NHS to court would cost money. Levi couldn’t even sort out some 16 year olds they’ve got no chance against the nhs
 
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Sarah saying Mila has only just started enjoying baths.. Ummm maybe because shes only just started having them!
Shes been washed in a sink or wiped down with wipes for most of her life. That poor baby has missed out on so much already in the few short months since shes been born, because you selfish pair crammed her into her car seat in a sardine can for months 😭
And very soon shes going to be severly restricted again ☹
 
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To be fair my 11 year old does too although personally I think she has doubts but that’s her whole idea of Christmas and wants to hang on to it. Plus she is an only child.
I had much younger cousins who lived with us and we all pretended to believe in fairies and elves and Father Christmas. We did the same with the Easter bunny because doing so meant the fantasy of it all wasn't ruined for them. I think people are a bit keen to believe the girls are so dim they actually believe and confusing that with the two older girls going along to let the younger ones have the same magic they knew in earlier years. Same as talking about "sending Izzy's presents off to Santa" may well be just for the very young audience. Which face facts is at least half their viewership as they're too dull and too family focused for most kids over 12.
 
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I had much younger cousins who lived with us and we all pretended to believe in fairies and elves and Father Christmas. We did the same with the Easter bunny because doing so meant the fantasy of it all wasn't ruined for them. I think people are a bit keen to believe the girls are so dim they actually believe and confusing that with the two older girls going along to let the younger ones have the same magic they knew in earlier years. Same as talking about "sending Izzy's presents off to Santa" may well be just for the very young audience. Which face facts is at least half their viewership as they're too dull and too family focused for most kids over 12.
It’s alright letting the young audience believe in Santa and elves but on the same channel they are sharing miscarriage news and fake cancer scares? Know your audience and stick to it

if they have a very young audience there is PLENTY they should not be sharing. The fact is they will sell anything for money
 
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Theyre going to have trouble with Mila and the full body cast but its also going to effect every other child.

Jace wont get the attention he is used too, hell be palmed off on Izzy who will end up even more depressed and isolated than she already is.

Isla will be pushed even futher away, Izzy will get Esme to help her with Jace and Chris and Sarah will have Mila and she will just be there, a bit like Prinny.

Esme is so used to picking Mila up and carrying her round like a sack of potatos that I worry they'll still let her and it'll cause even more damage to Mila.

Theyll also all be stuck indoors for the forseeable because they just travel round together like a cult.
 
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