“The Ick”

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I called one out last week, he messaged me at 07.30am to say morning (we'd been chatting 2 days), I replied good morning and said enjoy your day (hoping he'd get the message I was going to work and we'd speak later) . He replied asking me a question about my fave films, I ignored. Then I got two more through the day. And then another 3 at 5pm the last one asking if we could video chat that night.... I was actually fuming, he had sent 5 messages without a reply and was now asking to video chat 🤦‍♀️... Its such an invasion of space to blow up someone's phone when you've just met, I absolutely can't stand it. In the end I replied and said I'm really sorry but to me receiving that amount of messages puts me under too much pressure too early on and it had put me off, I wished him well finding what he was looking for.....he replied that he was just trying to be friendly and make converstaion 🙄... unmatched.

Another that make me LOL is when you've not answered a message on Tinder / Hinge and they wait a day and then send..... "Guess not then" I always want to reply asking them what they think that message will achieve 🤣
The last paragraph!! Yesss!! Honestly, men can be so petty and mental. It’s funny/weird.
 
I’ve heard of people in long term relationships suddenly not being able to stand the smell of their partner. Usually when other stuff is going on in the (or outwith usually) relationship. The Ick is a very real thing and there to help you.
 
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Has anyone ever just woken up one day and got major ick from their partner, like every single thing was cringeworthy to the point of breaking up... Hope it wasn't just me
I had this all the time back in the day when I actually HAD boyfriends! Sometimes it would be fine for months (or in one case, a year) and then BAM, the ick. Goodbye! I think it’s worse getting it later as everyone thinks you’re a cow but once you have it, you just can’t shake it. Nowadays I get it really quickly. It’s like my subconscious is giving me a ‘get out quickly’ card to save time 🥳
 
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Those who quickly jump to conclusions/ convinced they're right when they're being shallow.
 
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Dirty finger nails
Being lazy in the home
Being overly touchy
Beings a mammys boy
Wearing certain clothes
Making weird noises when their being affectionate
 
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Dirty finger nails
Being lazy in the home
Being overly touchy
Beings a mammys boy
Wearing certain clothes
Making weird noises when their being affectionate
What kind of weird noises do you mean? I don't think I've experienced this (thankfully!)
 
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What kind of weird noises do you mean? I don't think I've experienced this (thankfully!)
So like I dunno how to describe but do you know the kind of noise someone makes when they 'blow Rasperies' that bleeping Naoise but like doing It in a joking way when thier messing trying to kiss u. I don't know how to put it🙈🙈
 
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Has anyone ever just woken up one day and got major ick from their partner, like every single thing was cringeworthy to the point of breaking up... Hope it wasn't just me
Me. I dumped him and never looked back. It was like I woke up one day and I was done.
 
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Has anyone ever just woken up one day and got major ick from their partner, like every single thing was cringeworthy to the point of breaking up... Hope it wasn't just me
When I was pregnant the second time I couldn’t stand the smell of my husband. Never figured out where it came from - face/mouth/head area but I just couldn’t sleep face to face with him and I always smelt it when we kissed! Thankfully it went away after birth!!
 
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So like I dunno how to describe but do you know the kind of noise someone makes when they 'blow Rasperies' that bleeping Naoise but like doing It in a joking way when thier messing trying to kiss u. I don't know how to put it🙈🙈
I'm feeling very sorry for you that somebody subjected you to that. Wtf?! Tell me that's not a thing. 😳🤢

Are they like purring? Like a cat? o_O
 
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Has anyone ever just woken up one day and got major ick from their partner, like every single thing was cringeworthy to the point of breaking up... Hope it wasn't just me
Yep, I've been there, breaking up was the best thing I could do since I found out she was seeing someone else.

There is more to that story.
 
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Guys wearing flips flops when it’s raining Idk it makes me cringeeee 🤢
 
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Tell us more 🤗
Okay, two weeks after breaking up the relationship my former girlfriend comes into my work place, tells me she's getting MARRIED in front of my work mates. I told her to get the duck out of my workplace, later, went round her parents house to find out what was going on. Turns out the parents had kicked out her out after learning about the bloke she was seeing on the side. That was the last relationship I had, I gave up, been single ever since.
 
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So like I dunno how to describe but do you know the kind of noise someone makes when they 'blow Rasperies' that bleeping Naoise but like doing It in a joking way when thier messing trying to kiss u. I don't know how to put it🙈🙈

I'm still non the wiser. I guess I should be glad as it sounds very off-putting!
 
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Saying the word ‘cat’ in a sexual way 🤢I’m a 30 year old woman. Just no.

Men that think the best way to pick up women is sliding into their DM’s on social media.

Over groomed men, eyebrows and super groomed beards

Money talk, ‘I make this’ ‘this cost this’

I also hate tight men. My ex would bill me for anything. A check out lady in Tesco once told him off for making me buy my own bottle of wine whilst staying at his. ‘Look at her, she’s worth it, buy her the wine!’ He didn’t enjoy that!
 
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Saying the word ‘cat’ in a sexual way 🤢I’m a 30 year old woman. Just no.

Men that think the best way to pick up women is sliding into their DM’s on social media.

Over groomed men, eyebrows and super groomed beards

Money talk, ‘I make this’ ‘this cost this’

I also hate tight men. My ex would bill me for anything. A check out lady in Tesco once told him off for making me buy my own bottle of wine whilst staying at his. ‘Look at her, she’s worth it, buy her the wine!’ He didn’t enjoy that!
When did you leave him?
 
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