I'm so embarrassed to admit this but I have an ex ( who was 25 at the time this occurred btw) who was still living at home ( to save...so I was semi fine with this) but he one time brought up that his mom would massage both HIS and his dad's feet when they got home from work almost every day. I don't think I've ever ever ever had a bigger ick. And this is something probably everyone will find WTF.
The icing on the cake was when we'd been dating for like 6 months ( he knew I had a phobia of sick (emetophobia)) yet one time after going for Chinese with family, he got food poisoning, and called me because he "couldn't deal with it" and didn't want to go in the bathroom and face what he knew was needing to happen. I was thinking ffs first of all now you know how I feel, but then after that he hangs up to go batten down the hatches and calls me back after in fairly good spirits. AND THEN he says " it's over thank God, Mom was in there with me"... ..
Righty O.
So shortly after round Christmastime when he called me to ask what my middle name was again, that I broke up with him.
Ladies and gents I tell you, I've never been so happy to not be with someone.
Long story short, ANYTHING that remotely hints to me you might be a momma's boy, or one who thinks women are supposed to do all the work while you veg on the sofa and never look after yourself... at that point I'd rather partner with a broomstick.