It's so weird how there are little things that warn us that there's something not right. You are so right there. I love that our instincts tell us things aren't right at all. Sending you loads of love and I hope you have found happiness xxxx
It's so weird how there are little things that warn us that there's something not right. You are so right there. I love that our instincts tell us things aren't right at all. Sending you loads of love and I hope you have found happiness xxxxThanks for your kind words
I was haunted for years by one thing that man said while we were together - something I told myself to dismiss at the time as an innocuous comment but something in his tone didn't sit right with me when he said it. Realistically I couldn't have predicted his future actions but I still found it hard to let go of that niggly guilt and shame.
Honestly I think "the ick" is often a gut reaction - your body telling you "something isn't right here, get out now, use X as an excuse". Very few of us regret ending flirtations and relationships based on those "little things", funnily enough! Just goes to show, we should trust ourselves!
Men who have their dog sleep in bed with themSorry in advance, probs going to be posting a lot of tinder material on this threadliterally only use it for light entertainment now.
When guys use their dog or even someone else’s dog to try and get a date...well I suppose at least it’s better than childrenI feel someone needs to stand up for these innocent dogs, they didn’t ask for this
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MASSIVE ICKI always got the ick if blokes were overly romantic, soppy and tactile.
I once watched ET with a bloke I'd been seeing for a few months and he ended up in floods of tears when ET was captured by the scientists and detained at Elliott's house.
I don't think it's wrong for men to cry but I was 22 at the time and it just gave me immediate ick. When the film finished he said 'you can stay over tonight if you like but I'm too upset to have sex and would prefer cuddley time'
Binned the following day
Poor table manners give me the ick too
I had to re-read that a few times just to make sure I’d read it correctlyWhen the film finished he said 'you can stay over tonight if you like but I'm too upset to have sex and would prefer cuddley time'
I used to work with a guy who would pick his ears and look at the content whilst talking in a meeting!Apologies if these have been covered off because I haven’t read all 46 pagesbut men with long hair or nails really give me the ick and one that should be blindingly obvious but didn’t appear to phase my ex husband is men who pick their noses in front of other people I was physically recoiling from my ex by the end because he used to do it so often.
I can top this. My ex-boss would pick his ears and then flick the contents off his fingers in front of clientsI used to work with a guy who would pick his ears and look at the content whilst talking in a meeting!
Urggghhh. A guy I used to worked with used to dig around in his ears with the letter openerI can top this. My ex-boss would pick his ears and then flick the contents off his fingers in front of clients
We had a new secretary where I worked, and her boss went out drinking at lunchtime (they all did then). He came back and was sick in the bin. She left after that.Urggghhh. A guy I used to worked with used to dig around in his ears with the letter opener
You've pretty much described my husband!!!Men that want you to be their entire life rather than a part of it. Men who are feathery strokers.
Men who sing to you whilst staring into your eyes intently, especially if they can’t sing, I don’t know where to look
If they're like that in the workplace one can only imagine the horrors of what they do in their own homeUrggghhh. A guy I used to worked with used to dig around in his ears with the letter opener
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