The more I see of how Tim is with his family the more I see what an unhappy family they are yet they don’t realise. The kids are brainwashed thin their life is brilliant and normal. Ella surely must be depressed she can’t be so stupid and weak she allows this man walk all over her
So sorry this is is long!
She’s 100% not happy in that marriage no matter how much she tries to convince herself and everyone else that she is. You can see she takes out her unhappiness and frustration in insta stories or on the kids like she blames them for the situation she is in and acts like if it weren’t for them her life would be better. Those poor kids didn’t ask to be born and be exploited.
She has to use her time to look after her kids , look after the house etc which is what every parent has to do be responsible for their kids but you can tell she hates having to look after the kids while Tim can go out and do whatever he wants. When he comes home from wherever he’s been all day hiding from his wife and kids , she gets jealous when the kids want his attention cause she wants the kids out of the way in bed so he can give her all his attention and time like the kids don’t exist and to reassure her insecurities she needs his attention on her.
I’m sure he’s also given her reasons to be insecure which yet again shows he’s a terrible person but she won’t ever admit that. She doesn’t want to hear the truth she’s too besotted with him cause she fell for his fairytale promises aka lies when she was a teenager and to this day is still trying to paint this perfect couple goals relationship for some weird reason when he’s not a good person , he’s not attractive and he is a terrible husband and father so she is just stupid cause there’s nothing about him that is worth putting up with his bs.
I think he’s sly he knows how to manipulate and control her so she lets him be in charge and is his servant cause he tells her she’s a good wife for doing what she’s told so he’s made her think that’s normal therefore she’s made herself think it’s normal and because he’s her husband and she’s a woman she acts like he is allowed boss her around which is crazy to me how they see men as above women. All those kids lives they’ve been made to think that a woman only purpose is to have her makeup/nails done, be wives and have children. Of course now they this football cult so those kids are going to mentally be messed up with no education.
I can’t feel sorry for her when she moans about having to do everything when she allows it. She happily brought lots of innocent children into the wrod just to please him then exploited these kids happily when she should of been looking out for her kids so in her own way she’s just as bad. She’s gone on about how much she loves her parents yet takes advantage of them, allowed her mother to get on the bathroom floor cleaning the toilet while Tim stood there filming her not helping. Her dad looking out for her told her he didn’t want her to date and marry Tim but she didn’t care to listen .
She sees Tims control as love which shows how toxic their relationship is. He doesn’t care about her health he’s tried guilt trip her to have another baby cause he wants one. He saw how sick she looked during her pregnancies especially with Halo her back was very bad it effected her walking and breathing and blood pressure but he acted like it was no big deal that she should just deal with it and he looked like he wanted to throw a tantrum when they found out Halo was a girl.
When she had bad morning sickness he couldn’t even look after the kids by himself he purposely would leave the house earlier then usual for hours when the boys didn’t need to be at football at that time. He left Hosanna who was 9 in charge of babies and a puppy for hours. She made dinner for everyone unsupervised using hot water. He got back so late in the evening he went to get a haircut and disappeared for hours he had to ask her what they did all day but got annoyed at them for the dog being wet from outside. Ella settled with the worst man possible to be with!
