The Grimwade family #2 Desperate to be famous, Tim acting shameless, Gone is Astro, Ella accept your afro

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Any man that wont cook for his kids is a disgrace. Especially when the mother is sick. Prioritising a haircut and football while your 9 year old is at home boiling water in a pan making pasta is beyond words
 
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Any man that wont cook for his kids is a disgrace. Especially when the mother is sick. Prioritising a haircut and football while your 9 year old is at home boiling water in a pan making pasta is beyond words
Imagine telling your kids « I’m going to fix my plate » and not being able to make them lunch yourself.
 
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I find the lack of toys and games we see in that house of 6 kids really odd. Watched Heze’s 10th birthday video and he had a decent sized pile of gifts, but every single thing was clothes/shoes. Not one toy or game, but they aren’t buying him clothes as presents because they can’t afford to buy non-essentials as all the clothes were Nike etc so expensive stuff. The only ‘fun’ thing they bought him was hair dye, again though that’s just encouraging this excessive vanity they have over their hairstyles. Even the gifts from relatives were clothing, the only one gift he got that would lead to a play activity was a bag of water balloons. If it was left to his parents he would have had nothing that wasn’t vanity/clothing related. There is also a moment where, I think it was Rue, moved the football away from Heze’s side, and Heze looked genuinely panicked in getting it back again.

Skimming through some of the other birthday videos, it looks to be similar that most of what they buy the kids is just encouraging vanity. Halle’s birthday they were in new pyjamas sat in tepees looking at themselves in mirrors, for Hosannas it was a trip to a nail bar for the girls.

Heze’s 11th birthday was the best, a quad biking experience, but only Hosanna was tall enough to join in. At the start of the video, in the background Ella and Heze can be heard having a conversation about his football, as Heze can’t bear to be parted with it, so he had to wear a backpack during the quad biking purely so his football was still attached to him, that was bizarre…why not just tell him to leave it at home as it’s not a place he can play football. Does he sleep holding a football as well? It’s like a comfort blanket and very unhealthy.

For Houston’s birthday there were some toys, but then aged 1 maybe she is allowed to play more then the others. The secret Santa was a mixed bag, Heze and Rue got toys (chosen by siblings not parents), and Houston got a toy ‘Walker’ which was probably something she was going to need anyway. The 3 girls all got toiletries. Another interesting thing, when they shopped for the secret Santa (not in a toy shop, it looked like it was somewhere such as b&m), a random family approached them and said they watched their channel. Ella and Tim were very happy about that and happy for all the kids to pose for a photo, the kids waved etc, but were quite quiet and at moments looked frightened. Tim even said to Hosanna ‘don’t be scared’ when he asked her to move to stand in place for a photo with this other family’s kids. I think the grown up, confident nature of their children, is only when they are with their own family…they aren’t used to socialising with other children and can’t cope with meeting strangers.

It seems to me that Tim and Ella don’t want their children to play games like children usually do. I haven’t yet seen any videos of them playing board games, building lego, doing jigsaws, art toys or games for the sake of experimenting, no chemistry sets, they don’t seem to even have cuddly toys, no video games or pokemon cards. Nothing that most children ask for. They clearly spend a small fortune on clothes and their appearance, so it’s not a cost issue. I think they so it intentionally, in order to keep the boys focussed on football and the girls focussed on being mini housewives. I think this could be why Hosanna, for example, is so helpful around the home and even cooks roast dinners willingly…because she doesn’t have any toys or hobbies to occupy her time so otherwise she would be extremely bored, there is only so much time she can spend looking in the mirror and dancing for tiktoc, and the homseschooling as we know is is just some basic workbooks, which for a bright child as most of them seem to be, is not going to fill up much of their time.

it’s does show lovely attitudes of the kids when they get gifted things that aren’t any fun, such as as when Hosanna and Halle squealed with delight at being gifted lynx body wash, but I do question why those kids aren’t feeling that they are missing out on normal childhood pleasures. They do seem to have bikes, so at least that’s one way they can get out and have some proper fun. Tim and Ella, on the path they are taking those kids, will end up with extremely vain adults incapable of seeing past their own reflection in the mirror.
 
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Any man that wont cook for his kids is a disgrace. Especially when the mother is sick. Prioritising a haircut and football while your 9 year old is at home boiling water in a pan making pasta is beyond words
Yessss to this!!! I always cook because my partner works nights, but when I had to suddenly have emergency surgery in April this year and ended up staying in for a week, my partner was making lunch and cooking dinner for our 1 year old every night

I find the lack of toys and games we see in that house of 6 kids really odd. Watched Heze’s 10th birthday video and he had a decent sized pile of gifts, but every single thing was clothes/shoes. Not one toy or game, but they aren’t buying him clothes as presents because they can’t afford to buy non-essentials as all the clothes were Nike etc so expensive stuff. The only ‘fun’ thing they bought him was hair dye, again though that’s just encouraging this excessive vanity they have over their hairstyles. Even the gifts from relatives were clothing, the only one gift he got that would lead to a play activity was a bag of water balloons. If it was left to his parents he would have had nothing that wasn’t vanity/clothing related. There is also a moment where, I think it was Rue, moved the football away from Heze’s side, and Heze looked genuinely panicked in getting it back again.

Skimming through some of the other birthday videos, it looks to be similar that most of what they buy the kids is just encouraging vanity. Halle’s birthday they were in new pyjamas sat in tepees looking at themselves in mirrors, for Hosannas it was a trip to a nail bar for the girls.

Heze’s 11th birthday was the best, a quad biking experience, but only Hosanna was tall enough to join in. At the start of the video, in the background Ella and Heze can be heard having a conversation about his football, as Heze can’t bear to be parted with it, so he had to wear a backpack during the quad biking purely so his football was still attached to him, that was bizarre…why not just tell him to leave it at home as it’s not a place he can play football. Does he sleep holding a football as well? It’s like a comfort blanket and very unhealthy.

For Houston’s birthday there were some toys, but then aged 1 maybe she is allowed to play more then the others. The secret Santa was a mixed bag, Heze and Rue got toys (chosen by siblings not parents), and Houston got a toy ‘Walker’ which was probably something she was going to need anyway. The 3 girls all got toiletries. Another interesting thing, when they shopped for the secret Santa (not in a toy shop, it looked like it was somewhere such as b&m), a random family approached them and said they watched their channel. Ella and Tim were very happy about that and happy for all the kids to pose for a photo, the kids waved etc, but were quite quiet and at moments looked frightened. Tim even said to Hosanna ‘don’t be scared’ when he asked her to move to stand in place for a photo with this other family’s kids. I think the grown up, confident nature of their children, is only when they are with their own family…they aren’t used to socialising with other children and can’t cope with meeting strangers.

It seems to me that Tim and Ella don’t want their children to play games like children usually do. I haven’t yet seen any videos of them playing board games, building lego, doing jigsaws, art toys or games for the sake of experimenting, no chemistry sets, they don’t seem to even have cuddly toys, no video games or pokemon cards. Nothing that most children ask for. They clearly spend a small fortune on clothes and their appearance, so it’s not a cost issue. I think they so it intentionally, in order to keep the boys focussed on football and the girls focussed on being mini housewives. I think this could be why Hosanna, for example, is so helpful around the home and even cooks roast dinners willingly…because she doesn’t have any toys or hobbies to occupy her time so otherwise she would be extremely bored, there is only so much time she can spend looking in the mirror and dancing for tiktoc, and the homseschooling as we know is is just some basic workbooks, which for a bright child as most of them seem to be, is not going to fill up much of their time.

it’s does show lovely attitudes of the kids when they get gifted things that aren’t any fun, such as as when Hosanna and Halle squealed with delight at being gifted lynx body wash, but I do question why those kids aren’t feeling that they are missing out on normal childhood pleasures. They do seem to have bikes, so at least that’s one way they can get out and have some proper fun. Tim and Ella, on the path they are taking those kids, will end up with extremely vain adults incapable of seeing past their own reflection in the mirror.
Why would Heze need toys when he has he’s beloved football glued to hes foot 24/7🤣🤣🤣
 
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Would like to know what the kids get for Christmas saw one and they were all sat on parents bed opening stocking fillers but the presents were comics,bibles and lip gloss etc but heze got nike sliders and nike socks more then the others it seemed but was that all rhey got for Christmas or was there other bigger presents later on (I no Christmas isn't all about presents especially for a Christian family)but thought the kids would have gor more then they did.it thst time if year kids get toys to play wirh if not through the year and kids got no toys what they showed
 
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Yes, no toys at all. They never play with anything and I don't know about this but are they allowed to watch tv? Silly question maybe, as they are encouraged to dance for inappropriate music for their ages, but I just think maybe they are scared tv will open their minds just like school..
However in the intro set up Hosanna sews and Halle plays with fake cups/tea party..I think she's too old for that anyway..so even if they play is not the reflection of their interest or suitable for their age.
 
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Sounds like poor hosanna in a few years!!!
Yes, no toys at all. They never play with anything and I don't know about this but are they allowed to watch tv? Silly question maybe, as they are encouraged to dance for inappropriate music for their ages, but I just think maybe they are scared tv will open their minds just like school..
However in the intro set up Hosanna sews and Halle plays with fake cups/tea party..I think she's too old for that anyway..so even if they play is not the reflection of their interest or suitable for their age.
rue had toy cars and I'm guessing they have and watch tv because rue knew who spiderman was.
 
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Seiously what the hell are they teaching these kids in that household? Skip to 1.14 and listen to what is said 🙄😤🤔
 
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Yes, no toys at all. They never play with anything and I don't know about this but are they allowed to watch tv? Silly question maybe, as they are encouraged to dance for inappropriate music for their ages, but I just think maybe they are scared tv will open their minds just like school..
However in the intro set up Hosanna sews and Halle plays with fake cups/tea party..I think she's too old for that anyway..so even if they play is not the reflection of their interest or suitable for their age.
I remember in one of the videos Tim said they are limited to watching tv and especially don’t have it on in the morning because he thinks it makes children like zombies
 
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The girls dance routines are just a poor man's version of Norah, Yarah & Rosa- the IG Dutch sisters dancing, latest lyrics to the song are 'My daddy used to cook coke'....dear oh dear.🤦‍♀️
 
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Can you tell me?? I'm not into giving them more views than necessary honestly.
Tim was wearing an apron and Hosanna looked uneasy & TIm said she was concerned that him wearing an apron would question his masculinity and she was apologising for it
 
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Can't stand the parents 🙄 Rue is a little character he's so funny and he's the only one that doesn't annoy me
 
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I find the lack of toys and games we see in that house of 6 kids really odd. Watched Heze’s 10th birthday video and he had a decent sized pile of gifts, but every single thing was clothes/shoes. Not one toy or game, but they aren’t buying him clothes as presents because they can’t afford to buy non-essentials as all the clothes were Nike etc so expensive stuff. The only ‘fun’ thing they bought him was hair dye, again though that’s just encouraging this excessive vanity they have over their hairstyles. Even the gifts from relatives were clothing, the only one gift he got that would lead to a play activity was a bag of water balloons. If it was left to his parents he would have had nothing that wasn’t vanity/clothing related. There is also a moment where, I think it was Rue, moved the football away from Heze’s side, and Heze looked genuinely panicked in getting it back again.

Skimming through some of the other birthday videos, it looks to be similar that most of what they buy the kids is just encouraging vanity. Halle’s birthday they were in new pyjamas sat in tepees looking at themselves in mirrors, for Hosannas it was a trip to a nail bar for the girls.

Heze’s 11th birthday was the best, a quad biking experience, but only Hosanna was tall enough to join in. At the start of the video, in the background Ella and Heze can be heard having a conversation about his football, as Heze can’t bear to be parted with it, so he had to wear a backpack during the quad biking purely so his football was still attached to him, that was bizarre…why not just tell him to leave it at home as it’s not a place he can play football. Does he sleep holding a football as well? It’s like a comfort blanket and very unhealthy.

For Houston’s birthday there were some toys, but then aged 1 maybe she is allowed to play more then the others. The secret Santa was a mixed bag, Heze and Rue got toys (chosen by siblings not parents), and Houston got a toy ‘Walker’ which was probably something she was going to need anyway. The 3 girls all got toiletries. Another interesting thing, when they shopped for the secret Santa (not in a toy shop, it looked like it was somewhere such as b&m), a random family approached them and said they watched their channel. Ella and Tim were very happy about that and happy for all the kids to pose for a photo, the kids waved etc, but were quite quiet and at moments looked frightened. Tim even said to Hosanna ‘don’t be scared’ when he asked her to move to stand in place for a photo with this other family’s kids. I think the grown up, confident nature of their children, is only when they are with their own family…they aren’t used to socialising with other children and can’t cope with meeting strangers.

It seems to me that Tim and Ella don’t want their children to play games like children usually do. I haven’t yet seen any videos of them playing board games, building lego, doing jigsaws, art toys or games for the sake of experimenting, no chemistry sets, they don’t seem to even have cuddly toys, no video games or pokemon cards. Nothing that most children ask for. They clearly spend a small fortune on clothes and their appearance, so it’s not a cost issue. I think they so it intentionally, in order to keep the boys focussed on football and the girls focussed on being mini housewives. I think this could be why Hosanna, for example, is so helpful around the home and even cooks roast dinners willingly…because she doesn’t have any toys or hobbies to occupy her time so otherwise she would be extremely bored, there is only so much time she can spend looking in the mirror and dancing for tiktoc, and the homseschooling as we know is is just some basic workbooks, which for a bright child as most of them seem to be, is not going to fill up much of their time.

it’s does show lovely attitudes of the kids when they get gifted things that aren’t any fun, such as as when Hosanna and Halle squealed with delight at being gifted lynx body wash, but I do question why those kids aren’t feeling that they are missing out on normal childhood pleasures. They do seem to have bikes, so at least that’s one way they can get out and have some proper fun. Tim and Ella, on the path they are taking those kids, will end up with extremely vain adults incapable of seeing past their own reflection in the mirror.
You hit the nail on the HEAD with this. Wow!!! I hadn’t even thought of it this way, but you are so right. They aren’t given toys because if they had fun with other things, they would not want to be Mummy and Dad’s servants. This is the most keen observation I have seen yet! They literally deprive their children of the normal things kids enjoy growing up because they want them all to themselves to cook and clean and bring in the money through football and modeling and acting.

And you are right that they don’t seem to have any social skills with other people. They are only seemingly polite and interactive with one another. And the parents are keeping them from other kids so they don’t start seeing what NORMAL kids do and have, and then begin questioning their parents.

This is a version of child abuse in my opinion. They are not allowing the kids to be kids so that they can profit off all of it.
 
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Remember the video they made breakfast in bed for Ellas birthday. Tim woke all the kids up at 6.30 in the morning to do it. He woke the girls first and Heze last. The girls went downstairs first and started making breakfast, Heze comes in a few minutes later kicking the ball..... at 6.30 am. Its a really unhealthy obsession & the parents are sick in the head to allow it. Like, what age is he going to stop walking around with a ball. Is he going to be 15 walking around with a ball??? Is he going to 25 walking around with a ball??? Is he going to be 40 walking around with a ball??? If he gets married is he going to walk up the aisle with a ball??? To be fair its the ball he may end up marrying.

I get serious vibes of Chuck & Wilson the ball from Castaway movie with Heze
 
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This is an interesting article calling into question parents who put their kids on social median... This particular woman forced her son to cry on command and was run off the internet for it. I only wish I had saved that awful video of the Grimwades tricking Hosanna into thinking Houston was kidnapped. That was absolute abuse!!!

 
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