Just want to vent really. I feel really down today.
I hate me. I've never fit in anywhere or been able to make any true friends. Everyone just points out how quiet or shy I am. I thought this would stop once I left school 11 years ago, but it still happens to this today. I've been bullied in workplaces and left out. One situation that still hurts me even though it happened 2 years ago, was when a woman who I thought was my "friend" tried to get my boyfriend to witch about me with her behind my back.
There was also a time a few years ago when I set up a fan group for something and actually made some online friends, but then I got busy with work so didn't have the time anymore. When I did return, they had all gotten closer and one of them was even like "Not being rude but who are you?" even though I was the one who set up the group.
I also had another online forum friend a couple of years ago that blocked me because they got the wrong end of the stick about a YouTube clip I sent them. That one still kinda stings too when I see them post on that forum.
I always try to smile and be friendly with people but I struggle a lot with holding conversations and sharing details about myself. I feel like I have been ashamed of myself since I was about 4 or 5 years old because teachers and relatives would always shout at me and treat me like I was all wrong because I was shy.
Last year I did find out about something called "toxic shame" and I think I do have it.
I have never gotten help from doctors, but I think I finally should.
I hate me. I've never fit in anywhere or been able to make any true friends. Everyone just points out how quiet or shy I am. I thought this would stop once I left school 11 years ago, but it still happens to this today. I've been bullied in workplaces and left out. One situation that still hurts me even though it happened 2 years ago, was when a woman who I thought was my "friend" tried to get my boyfriend to witch about me with her behind my back.
There was also a time a few years ago when I set up a fan group for something and actually made some online friends, but then I got busy with work so didn't have the time anymore. When I did return, they had all gotten closer and one of them was even like "Not being rude but who are you?" even though I was the one who set up the group.
I also had another online forum friend a couple of years ago that blocked me because they got the wrong end of the stick about a YouTube clip I sent them. That one still kinda stings too when I see them post on that forum.
I always try to smile and be friendly with people but I struggle a lot with holding conversations and sharing details about myself. I feel like I have been ashamed of myself since I was about 4 or 5 years old because teachers and relatives would always shout at me and treat me like I was all wrong because I was shy.
Last year I did find out about something called "toxic shame" and I think I do have it.
I have never gotten help from doctors, but I think I finally should.