There might be other reasons why he is staying:no money for the trip, they have an agreement that he works on Xmas, he just doesn't want to, also not for everyone is Xmas a special time, even if it was in childhood. maybe he is just not so religious? E.G. Some people go for skiing in this period of time because they can take time of easily. Maybe he doesn't want to endanger his grandparents? Etc.
I don't know why everyone comig to Lalande suddenly has to be some kind of sect member, not capable of independent decisions? Those are adults! Also I don't know if you feel SJ is such a witch why you keep on looking? Seems to me also not mentally healthy. And don't say because it is an interesting case of sociopathology. It's one thing to gossip a little after having enjoyed 90% of the video. But lately this became more weird here than you all claim the chanel to be.
She is a youtuber and opera singer. She likes to act, sing, dance and get dressed up and wear costumes. She is slim, blonde and attractive, a good entertainer and host, very good presenter, can articulate herself and be enthusiastic about certain topics. Her path of life lead her to own a chateau and have the perfect stage for her interests. That's all. Some might enjoy what she has to offer some not. I hate how this became a only bashing her site. If you really believe she is that bad you should call the police, other wise you fail to provide assistance.
Sorry, my English is too bad to explain better what I mean. But I hope there are some other lurkers here coming out, I am sure not everyone supports the crazy narcissistic psychopath theory
He claimed his sex life is "fine"