It is also not clear to me that they do not see the obvious. I didn't invent everything I listed, but Fanny showed it herself (a million times).Lady Barbara, we just want her to wash her feet before she gets in her bed and wash her clothes at least 6 times a year. Okay? Baby steps.
These people really do imprint characteristics on her she OBVIOUSLY does not possess. They just ignore all the dirt and grime she lives in, I guess.
How they don't see it, I don't understand.