That Wilkes Woman #5

[westcoaster]

Ffs. The big goodbye and back a fortnight later. My body just turned inside out from cringing for her

Maybe I’ll post my open letter here to her after all!

You should. When I did it felt quite cathartic. This is a safe and sharing environment where your opinion matters.

I’m repeating a bit of what westcoaster said before, but using the Caroline Fleck situation to play the victim is a new low. When you made multiple videos calling Chris Ingham a paedophile. Saying he touched your daughter inappropriately. All on YouTube for the Ingham children to potentially see? Jeopardising any legal cases. That’s a special case of stupid for someone who was in the police force for 30 years!

Can you even spell the word hypocrisy?

What if Chris Ingham had killed himself? Or one of his daughters had harmed herself over the things you were saying? Consider that for a moment while you’re sitting on your high horse.

I think calling someone a paedophile is much worse than us saying Ellie’s outfit was extremely inappropriate for Christmas dinner!

Calling someone a pweirdo is about the worst thing you can say. A lot worse than calling someone Granny! And if you were reading here at the time someone called you a dyke you’ll have seen that me and others shut it down immediately. We don’t use terms like that. Unlike yourself with your s and r word talk.

People here supported you at one time. Myself and Teddy that I know of. Probably others too. And you made a mug of us. I sent you money when I have very little myself. Thinking I was helping out a single mother, with some of the same conditions as me, and unable to work. Little did I know that you were still on a full police wage with your rent being paid! Muggins here fell for the sob story. But that’s me wanting to help people when I can. An unknown concept for you.

You’re no better than the media that hounded Caroline Fleck. You made those videos about Ingham to get more viewers, subscribers, attention and, eventually, money. What is the difference here? You don’t get to take the moral high ground with the things you’ve said about people. Even your own daughter’s father!

You went so far that you got a solicitor’s letter! And they were totally within their rights to send it! I cannot stand Chris Ingham. I’m living for the day that creepy fucker has to get a real job and his daughters have some privacy. But even my cat could tell you that it’s slander to call a man a paedophile who hasn’t been charged with anything!

The way the Inghams went about getting your address was absolutely disgusting (they should have just watched a few of your vlogs, since you’ve shown your address so many times!). But, legally, you were in the wrong. I don’t remember any apology or you saying you felt any guilt over what you did. You just talked about setting up a gofundme for legal expenses!

This Caroline Fleck talk isn’t much different to the Ingham one. Mentioning a trending topic to bring traffic to your blog.

The things you’ve said, and allowed to be said about your ex is disgusting. Calling the man a sperm donor and comparing him to Hitler. I’m sure your daughter really appreciated that. When the man is literally paying for the roof over your head!?

It seriously sickens me as my kids have never had a dad. I won’t go in to detail as I’m not going to post my children’s private business on the internet () But going by just what you’ve said about him he appears to be good dad. Supporting her financially, spending time with her and is involved in her schooling. Do you know how many single mums out there that would kill for their kids to have that??

Your 14 year old is suffering with extreme anxiety. Do you really think talking about her self harming online will help that situation? Ask her therapist if that’s a good idea!

I’m my daughter’s mother but she’s her own person. I don’t have the right to tell the public her personal business. Regarding her father, her mental issues or even details about her period and intimate itching! We aren’t speculating about those things here, those are all things you’ve discussed on camera!

We think we are perfect here? Well, I know many of us here suffer from physical and mental health problems. Our houses are perfect? Mine certainly isn’t. But it is clean. You’ve shown time and time again that you live in a tip. Hamster cage on the cooker, anyone?? Wet puppy pads on the floor? Piles of crap sat everywhere? Bras hanging to dry off the kitchen cupboard handles? We’ve all seen your filthy kitchen and minging bath. So, yes, I’ve seen enough of your home to make the judgement that it’s a tip. There’s an episode of Hoarders in your future if you don’t sort that out.

My kids aren’t perfect either. They have teenage attitude. And speak to me disrespectfully at times. But, I A. Check them for it, as I’m their mother and won’t be spoken to like shit, and B. Don’t put it on YouTube for the world and it’s dog to see - for people to judge, and to potentially embarrass/shame them.

You can call me pathetic - I can be at times. But I have opinions on things I watch. I criticised Jace Ingham still being up playing at 10.33pm the other night. I hate how on the latest Family Fizz videos it shows Sienna being ignored. That is public content and I’m allowed to have an opinion on it. Just the same way as I watch The Real Housewives and think someone is being a two-faced bitch. You’ve done videos about your opinions on Strictly - what’s the difference?

I’ve never threatened you, contacted your family, harassed you or messaged you being abusive. You can call me a troll if it makes you feel better, but, I’m not.

I’m really glad you have vlogging as your outlet, we all need one. But I hope you’ll be more careful. Perhaps leave your daughter out of the videos from now on. I guarantee nobody here takes any pleasure from thinking of a child suffering anxiety. And I feel terrible if my comments here have contributed to that, but if you don’t want it discussed then it’s best to keep it private.

I have rarely watched any of your videos in the last year or so. It’s only because I like the people in this thread that I post in it. Everyone is kind to me here. I’ve met one lovely friend in particular (not sure if she’d want named) who I talk to regularly. Not about you before your head gets bigger! About life in general. She’s such a nice person and I’m grateful to know her.

To bring up the Caroline Flack aftermath again, please take the #bekind on board. Seeing some kindness from you would redeem you a lot in my eyes. Doing a food shop for the food bank would be a good idea. Seeing as you said you’ve been so desperate you considered using one.

I’ll end now before I bore my tattle friends to death. I look forward to the shout out and rant to come in your next vlog!

YES! Concise and true!

 

[Teddybear1958]

Much love to your family and the strength you share. I believe we feel the same way. Wilkes words and actions are so hurtful for those of us who have family members who are ill, and those of us who have trouble ourselves. Then she takes it to the next level where I feel she is taking advantage of the people that she should be encouraging in her "safe place" for people with medical conditions.

Exactly Westcoaster
She has not got respect for herself never mind anyone else
I do feel for her Daughter because she is being taught by her own Mother to look down on others.
Much love to you and your family too

 

[polarbabe]

Oh God... that dog voice... I can't listen to it.. it turns my stomach...
I don't agree with her about Megan and Harry... I don't think this is the beginning of the end.. I just think the girl wants to spend Christmas with her mum and in a place that feels home to her.. and why not. I don't see what the bloody big deal is.

 

[Hot hot]

She is most rudest person that woman trying to tell her about work and why shes of sick and shes saying yea yea no not interested wants to know whars wrong with her that bloody fibro every single vlog that's nit to ge nasty to anyone who genuinely got fibro she got hit didnt hit you hard enough and no one knows why not even specialist now , just throw the book in as well Haha lady not interested lol and not to tell her she was filming her till the end didn't even ask her if it was ok discusting .taken the mick out the couple you jealous jealous woman you make my body cringe you got so much hatride it's so unbelievable.moaned because the women didnt ignolage her on way back then got hump over it didnt even now her. But she didnt tell she climbs hills but cant cook that cause you just pure lazy if you not got the money you have to cook never see you go shopping why big fridge freezer idoit, then to top it off up the hill people stering at you you hare ut cause they think you nit right but go kn a beach full poeple one word for you hypicrite

 

[Circlish]

Ex cop. Was on long term sick leave but took early retirement last year.
Recieved a lump sum for PTSD due to her work in vice squad dealing with sexual deviants, perverts and paedophiles.
Had a lump of her pension too.
Fibro developed after PTSD and Anxiety for years.
Walks her dogs every day for at least 2 hours a time.
Car was a impulse buy when she got her lump sum.
She claims to hate Inghams but copies their holidays but does go "exclusive" and "upgrades". Sarah ingham got her car then 6 weeks later Wilkes gets the top of the range evoke not a clapped out old tank.
House. She's a Hinch fan. Buys every product, gadget and gizmo Hinch mentions.
Rarely uses them after the big unboxing or tutorial on how (not) to use them.
Wilkes lives rent and mortgage free as ex partner owns the house and Wilkes can live there free in lieu of child maintenance until daughter is 18.
Wilkes thinks she's hard done by with this arrangement.
With her "lump sum" she went on a spending spree and filled the house with large sofas, wayfair nordic style furniture, a tumble dryer, huge American style fridge freezer.
Around 40 t-shirts were purchased on her holiday to Disney last summer. (I think because America caters for larger sizes she made sure she got lots of Superdry, Under Armour and Adidas.)

If you're new to her you must watch Wet and Wild. It is a thread initiation. Last 5 minutes will suffice I won't torture you with a full episode in the life of fanny fibro fog fossil.




(I take no responsibility for any trauma experienced watching Wet and Wild. Viewing is taken at your own risk)

I saw the teat!!

 

[lemonelmo]

What is that disgusting rug in her lounge near her kitchen door. It is grotesque

Did she say it was outside all summer???

She isn't very efficient with her vacuuming, missing loads of areas,

 

[peanutt]

I think shes gone to see little mix

I think it's next week for the little mix concert ...

 

[Hot hot]

Tomorrow's vlog will probably be showing us round the Posh Bedroom, skid marks in the Toilet and unflushed ...lol

 

[kathiesimpsonxo]

Just in case anyone was wondering, it looks like Ellie is back at school

 

[Hot hot]

Her photo looks weird on there, has she photoshopped it?

Im not on twitter that little dog needs training one day the other one will turn on it but she let's them carry on she is weird with doing photoshopped lol

 

[lemonelmo]

Some moles develop later in life. Hormonal changes and weight gain can make some become more prominent. They should always be checked though if it's a sudden appearance or has changes like bleeding, crusting. Did wilkes ever say what happened after hers was weeping? I'm sure I remember her saying she was going to the GP about it.

I had no idea such a large one could appear later in life, thanks for the info. I do sincerely hope she chased it up. I don't think I heard her mention how it went at the gp about it

 

[Porkiepies]

Definitely agree she appears to be progressing.

I don't think they would foster kids out to a woman who videos her life to put online?
I think she seems too addicted to videoing everything to post online, to stop doing it?
Her own child needs psychological help, so she should be helped before any more children are sent to that house.



Why did she need to be rescued in France? What happened?

She went to France for a month, ran out of money, set up a go fund me to pay for accommodation then couldn't pay the toll roads, was low on fuel so Cherie sent her money for fuel and travel.

 

[lemonelmo]

I see she's uploaded, can't bear to watch the old crow just yet. Maybe later to send me to sleep

 

[Teddybear1958]

Leasa made a deal to stay in her dogsitters home in france, filmed said home slagging it off for the mess and spiders (pot, kettle, black). Instead of just doing the normal thing and giving it a dust and just enjoying the experience of being away, she decided to move to a hotel for 2 weeks (they spent the majority of the time by the pool and might as well have just booked a hotel with a swimming pool in the uk for the amount that they experienced of france ) then set up a gofundme and expected the bearfam to fork out the money for them to stay for longer. Leasa likened herself to a street performer who was merely putting her hat out for payment
It was one of the most greedy and ridiculous things i've ever witnessed. She ran out of money as the gofundme cash didn't clear in time, didn't have petrol to get back and was bailed out by some generous viewers (whom she barely managed to thank..)
Despite the backlash she proceeded to keep the gofundme money and used it to pay for Ellies new school uniform (and probably a bottle of Jack Daniels to boot...)
If I was her I would've donated the amount I had raised from the gofundme to charity the minute my retirement money came through, I also would've paid back the bearfam that wired me money for petrol, gotten them a gift the minute I was financially able to do so, and never set foot on youtube again through sheer embarrassment.

I think she also set up a Patreon account and got money from her bearfam, Greedy grabby cow.

 

[Hot hot]

She's got another coat on, how many coats does she need? Talking about Ellie getting braces, more or less saying they're gonna make her look like Jaws from James Bond, way to inspire confidence in your daughter Leasa, good job...

She awfull woman

She's got another coat on, how many coats does she need? Talking about Ellie getting braces, more or less saying they're gonna make her look like Jaws from James Bond, way to inspire confidence in your daughter Leasa, good job...

Yeap another thought she was saving money

 

[lemonelmo]

So I've caught up with yesterday's and I know it was mentioned earlier about Cherries. So whys she trying to make it sound like she's gone through a dog sitting company if it's actually cherrie? She definitely said it was her that text that earlier when speaking at the burger King ordering station. If its cherrie then I'm sure she loves being demoted from bearfam/friend if she can be arsed to call her it to the dog sitter woman.

 

[westcoaster]

I nearly asked her on youtube if she knows her daughter and friends are singing to songs with the word F in them.

She would likely let that go because they use the word at home, or that ALL teens use the word. I am thinking more of the 'sexualized' references. Considering Wilkes claims to be an expert on the subject of sexual grooming and young girls putting themselves out there as potential victims. Then again she did think it ok for BB to travel on the train to another community to meet with an older male BB had only communicated online with.

Never mind the way that she films her daughter and BBs Christmas outfit.

 

[joandidion]

God if that old photo isn't motivation to eat well, look after your body and think positive thoughts then I don't know what is. After all, you are your thoughts

 

[Otis94]

I find this quite interesting. She does have followers and others who do like her. I have been wondering what it is, what the positive qualities are that others see in her. I am not being negative or sarcastic, I just really am interested in learning what it is that keep the BearFam so loyal? While this isn't the place to praise her I hope you can share your thoughts.


Those dogs (with the exception of Jack who is on a lead) are untrained and out of control. Hopefully she has learned a lesson and will keep better control. Anything could have happened, he could have gone into traffic.

I have a lab-sized dog and it is very upsetting for her when small dogs run at her or start barking at her. It is unfair and thank goodness she is a sweet dog and doesn't respond. But then we did go through extensive training when she was young.

Wilkes had no idea how a larger dog may have reacted. She had a bit of a scare today; I doubt her behavior as a dog owner will change. If she thinks yelling at the dog is a tactic it is not. It communicates that she is out of control which causes the dogs anxiety because they cannot depend on her to be alpha. Maybe that is part of the reason that Archie seems to be taking on the role when they are out and about.

Three small dogs are just too much for her to handle. I don't know what she was thinking when she added a puppy to the mix.

Wait. Now I remember. Ellie was a spending time with her little nephew. Archie was another purchase based on jealousy.

For a no negativity vlogging channel there was so much negativity on the beach walk. Hate people, hate too many dogs. Isn't it beautiful, BUT, more negativity. It is no wonder Monty ran away.

One positive note is that she is, at times, catching herself before she says something ignorant because she knows we are watching. At least she is acknowledging to herself that some of her attitude needed be expressed out loud.

I don't expect that this will last. Self-control doesn't seem to be one of her stronger points.

Here is some negativity. That she is likely parked in one of the few handicap spots and walks a mile down the beach while an actual person or family needed that space to enjoy the beautiful day.

For a woman who has so much negativity about people it will be very challenging maneuvering the streets of New York. I am looking forward to the hysteria of that trip. Is there anything on an itinerary without people that she will be able to participate in? Seems a very strange choice for someone banking on the crippling anxiety around people disability claim. She will probably say that she is putting the illness aside for Ellie's sake. Except now she claims Ellie has the same anxiety.

I don't have a dog so didn't realise how distressing Archies barking could be to other dogs, you're right she doesn't have them well trained and it should be a priority for all Dog owners to take their dogs to puppy training classes or at least have knowledge and be able to put aside time to train them. Its so dangerous to not have dogs properly trained! Monty could've ended up in the sea/being swept out, hopefully Leasa has learned her lesson.

im wondering how she will link 9/11 back to herself and her policing career, never mind she was a small town police officer

Oh Gosh I hadn't thought about this, she'll definitely find a way in which to be highly insensitive/offensive, I dread to think how awful its going to be. I don't know why she books these holidays, she always comes across as though she is hating every minute of it when they go away. I mean she's never particularly chipper in her average day to day but its dreadful when they go away.

 

[Ava girl]

Her channel is still there, unless I am misunderstanding something?