Late to the game, but know Nick personally.
I absolutely despise Tess, but everything she’s said about him is true.
He’s extremely toxic, very aggressive, as has the ‘I’m a submissive, nice
guy’ act down to a fine art. The parades his ‘put the gentle back in gentleman’ like a badge of honour, when the opposite is true. He’s also known for stealthing.
Is your classic, by the book narcissist. Professional victim. Yes he has BPD, but before he moved to be with her, was well managed.
In saying all that, she’s a toxic POS too who abused him just as bad, her entitlement is incredible, and the rage that follows when she doesn’t get her own way is embarrassing. She attacks anyone who dares disagrees with her.
These 2 assholes together was the perfect storm. 2 extremely toxic people should not breed.