Why does it grate on you? You can choose your own way of life, so can others without it personally affecting you.
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Everyone deserves a break, I completely understand this. My children stay with me all the time, by my choice of course. However I do know of other people who are off out everywhere all the time, and personally I don’t agree with gallivanting off everywhere. Especially when we’re currently in the middle of a pandemic.
the problem with Charlie is one day harlows sick, the next day she’s literally off with everyone. She broke lockdown several times, was doing drugs publically.
the problem with Charlie is one day harlows sick, the next day she’s literally off with everyone. She broke lockdown several times, was doing drugs publically.
Yeah again it’s the going out in a pandemic after saying how ill her child is yet first opportunity she gets she’s out when she knows she could make Harlow worse if she catches anything. I know some mums need a break more than others, but it seems as if she puts it above her child, the same as when she was doing balloons and drove her car into her house that her child lives it.
Cause what responsible parent goes out begging during a pandemic in highly affected areas ?
Who knows what their set-up is? Clearly works for them.
Good for them then. Doesn’t mean people can’t have a say on it. She doesn’t have to have a public life, she doesn’t have to read here
Begging? I go out but I don't go out begging
Because it isn’t okay, firstly it’s unfair on the grandparents to be depended on every weekend, when they already done all this. I understand everyone needs a break, but so many young mums I know are out every weekend and then in the week also
Well it just comes down to parenting choices with the odd bad decision and accident in.
What I'll never agree with is demonising mothers and throwing around 'neglect' willy nilly.
Thats down to their family though. Not ok for some works well for others.
Went out in a global pandemic while her daughter was already ill, risking bringing more illnesses back into the house they live, that’s not putting your child first and is kinda neglect
This. I think they’ve actually split and the nights she has ‘off’ are actually the nights they’ve agreed for him to have her
So should she be left to flip out on Harlow cos she can't cope?
yeah good for them but I wouldn’t be bragging about not looking after my own child 
How can you flip out on a child you look after for like 2 days a week
No, but maybe be a responsible parent and admit you’re struggling and ask for help, either from a health visitor, family or even social services. If she’s getting stressed and needs to go out drinking that’s not a great sign
Toddlers are tough, and I think too many people get fed the “newborn stage is the hardest” when it isn’t and then expect the next 18 years to breeze by. There are some days I want to lock myself in the bathroom and hide from my whirlwind of a 2 year old but, funnily enough, I gave birth to him and I’m his mother, if I wanted to tend to a child if and when I decide is best for me, I’d of got a career as a babysitter. 
Charlie’s breaks aren’t breaks. She hasn’t done a long enough stint in the week to need a break.
Charlie’s breaks aren’t breaks. She hasn’t done a long enough stint in the week to need a break.Why would she flip out on Harlow??? Wtf she has her for a week by herself whilst bretts in work? If she’s gonna flip out after that surely there’s a problem there? Not sure id even believe the mental health card after she told someone to “go die” yesterday :/
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