I’m a teacher and my husband works in mental health (also a lawyer) so you’re preaching to the converted about child protection. I do know the horrors you’ve seen because I’ve seen them too.
I’m a teacher and my husband is a lawyer working in mental health. You’re preaching to the converted about child safety. That said, the original comments were that Tammy shouldn’t be dating with a baby at home and that she’s not entitled to time away from her children. As a mother of 3, I disagree. Mothers need a break and shouldn’t be shamed for having a life outside of her children. We don’t shame men in the same capacity, so why do we shame each other ?
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The nightie seems too big for her.
I'm not sure if you've followed this from previous threads, but Tammy hooked up with other men while still with Poole and mere few weeks after Posy's birth. So yes, she definitely ran into it all too fast without sitting down and figuring out what is it about relationships and her that isn't working out. I may be a bit more traditional, but a baby so young then and relatively young now is a little too young to be separated from her mother for days on end, outside of custody arrangements. I'm not saying she isn't allowed a private life and hook-ups, she is. But that's
her time, it shouldn't be 'family time'. Dedicating her single periods to herself and her children shouldn't be anything outrageous, if anything it should give her some clarity about what she wants from someone, and let her enjoy her time with her children while they're so little. She set herself up to be a default parent, she deserves a break, but her children deserve stability.
Men in general get passes for things we don't, but men in this space have been slandered. And personally, where I'm from and in my line of work, they had the same slander session as well. Both Reece and Poole
still have her fans threatening them both and dragging them through hell, while giving Tammy a pass. And it's slightly concerning someone in such work position would be lax about kids in this case, given that Tammy had to call the cops on the second rapper with her kids at home (again, a month into dating and him brought as another parent so soon). With Poole being filmed having an anger fit over her older children on her live. And with this Matt being openly uncomfortable and not wanting her children around. He has no filter in admitting he doesn't want them around and that they make him mad for walking over sand, and openly pushing them away from him in videos. Not to mention how obviously rough he is with her and has been pulling her around for tik tok views. I don't intend on having children, but I'd never let a man like that around the kids near me, nor would I be comfortable with someone so casually callous and cruel. If she wanted him, she could've had him away from the kids and enjoy her fun. Not set all of them up for something fully unnecessary on all ends. She just wants someone who's tall and will look nice for her photos, not someone who truly loves and cares for her AND her children.
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She's dumped the kids again to go out partying in her grannies nightie.
And she's purposely hiding her ring hand because we all know she's wearing that ring and forgives the man who messaged a big boobed younger girl.
She'll carry this charade for ages. Brings her talk when she knows she desperately needs it
That's because she's together with him. Any publicity is a good publicity for them both. Besides, outside of shock engagements and new babies, this is the only real media engagement she's had in a long while.