ok so admittedly I havent seen the video you are talking about and I’m not a Tammy Stan ir anything but from what you’ve described here it does sound like he saw them as a burden? Sorry I really didn’t follow either closely enough and he seemed like an ok step parent but if he was as you described then Tammy’s description seems spot on.
He was adamant he's babysitting them every time he posted them. She was adamant he's their new daddy, she filmed the kids calling him daddy, she liked comments that said Matt is their new daddy, and had posts where she called him their daddy. It happened too fast. A little after they announced their public relationship, after the cocaine on a boat fiasco. I believe it was that year's Fathers Day where she got Wolf to create a card with info about his dad, and it was all about Matt. There was zero outing with him and kids that she didn't peddle for Instagram content. Recreating photos with her and Reece that gave her a crowd, with Matt taking Reece's place instead. Matt isn't innocent either for his anger outburst (caught on a live she did), and immediately liking comments calling Reece a deadbeat when she didn't allow him to see the kids in 2020. He also liked comments comparing him to Reece. He'd probably sing a different tune by now seeing the real Tammy, Reece did become a full-on deadbeat after that.
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I was also very unsettled by what she filmed with Posy. To me, it's no different than seeing a child hurt or abused in another way and exploiting it for content. Leave that little baby be. She deserved to eat peacefully, Tammy doesn't know she can do parenting duties without filming her children's tears and state of unwell for everyone else to see. I hope the babies have solid therapists when they're older. They're gonna need it. I'll never forget when she filmed Wolf's blowout before she birthed Saskia. No one needs to see anyone's excrement. Wolf is growing up and probably has kid friends who know what social media is, kids are savvy nowadays. Someone's gonna dig that up and it'll be ammunition to bully him, or worse.
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What the hell is going on with Tammys page? She has over 17 million followers and only 59 comments today and just over 100 yesterday.
I honestly think she's becoming irrelevant. Her posts are so boring and repetative. Not even her content ridden European trip could revive it.
She'll be pushing more Posy content soon. Her story now, where she's grabbing the pear off Posy while Posy wont let go and is screaming and crying is pathetic. Why give an entire pear to a baby without first cutting off the stalk and then try to yank it out of her tiny hands for likes???? Your baby is visably upset and you think its funny for everyone to witness. PATHETIC
When I type in her username in the search bar, under her name I see 16.8 million followers. On her actual page, she's got 17 million. How familiar are you with Social Blade? I don't have an account there, but those who did have posted her statistics. She buys several thousand followers every day, her engagement with real people is critically low and her account status is falling down. It's all in the red lines and numbers, only green ones are approximate 5k bots she buys on the daily.